Deja

WHY I FUCKIN DON'T LIKE MY DUDES DAUGHTER!

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AIIGHT, MY BA FAMILY....ION KNOW WHERE TO START! OKAY, LAST NIGHT MY DUDE (WELL, I SHOULDN'T CALL HIM THAT) THE CUCUMBER I'M CURRENTLY SEEING HAS TWO CHILDREN....(I USUALLY DON'T DATE MEN W/ CHILDREN)....BUT I REALLY LOVE HIS SON (4YRS. OLD) AND A DAUGHTER (THE LIL FUCKER IS 7YRS. OLD) ION LIKE HER ASS! SHE, HAS A SMART ASS FUCKIN MOUTH..AND SHE IS ALWAYS GETTING SMART WITH ME (CAUSE I'M NOT HER MOM)! I KNOW THAT SHE HATES THE FACT THAT HER DAD LOVES ME (AND HATES HER MOM....THE SON TOLD ME SO....AND HE'S 4YRS.OLD) SO SHE FEELS A CERTAIN TYPE OF WAY! WE DROPPED THEM OFF LASTNIGHT @ THEIR MOMS HOUSE (BUT THE BITCH HEARD ME ON THE PHONE...AND SHE'S TALKIN MAD SHIT) AND HIS DAUGHTER IS HAPPY...HIS SON WANTS TO GO W/ ME AND HIS DAD! MIND YOU....I WAS WAITING FOR THE BITCH TO JUMP OUT THE WINDOW W/ SOME DUMB SHIT! SHE AIN'T COME OUT...THE KIDS WENT IN. WE GET TO MY HOUSE, AND WE ARE DISCUSSING THE FACT THAT ION WANT TO FUCK W/ HIM...AND I CONFESSED...THAT I DO NOT LIKE HIS DAMN DAUGHTER @ ALL! HE HAD A BLANK STARE FORE A MIN...THEN HE TOLD ME HOW MUCH HE WANNA BE W/ ME....BLAH, BLAH BLAH....WE FUCK (IT WAS GREAT)! HE TOOK ME TO WK AND PICKED ME UP!


TODAY! (OH, MY LORD PLS HELP ME)....WE HAD TO GO GET THE KIDS....HIS DAUGHTER SAYS TO HIM....DAD, WHY SHE ALWAYS W/ US? I LOOKED @ THAT BITCH...I MEAN LIL FUCKER...THEN LOOKED @ HIM! HE SAID TO HER...SHUT THE FUCK UP BEFORE I PUNCH YOU IN YA FACE! EVEN THOUGH ION LIKE HER...I FELT BAD, AND I TOLD HIM PLEASE DON'T EVER TALK TO HER LIKE THAT! HE SAID HE SORRY....OMG...I'M TALKING A WHOLE IN DALLaS HEAD! LONG STORY SHORT.....I TOLD HIM I CAN'T FUCK W/ HIM LIKE THAT CAUSE I REALLY CAN'T STAND HIS DAUGHTER, AND I HAVE TO ACCEPT HER IF I WANT TO MAINTAIN A RELATIONSHIP W/ HIM (FUCKIN THE CUCUMBER ERRY NIGHT) AND I CAN'T DO IT! HE TELLS THEM TO PUT ON THEIR SHOES SO THEY CAN LEAVE...I AIN'T SAY SHIT...BUT MY FACIAL EXPRESSIONS SAID IT ALL! HE DIDN'T GIVE ME A HUG, NOR DID HE KISS MY FOREHEAD...AND HE LEFT....I CLOSED THE DOOR....AND HE TEXT ME W/ SOME PUNK ASS SHIT....I REFUSE TO REPSOND, CAUSE NOW....I REALLY DON'T WANT TO FUCK W/ HIM (THANK YOU LIL MOFO)

DO YOU ALL THINK THAT I AM WRONG FOR MY BEHAVOIR...OR NO?

IF I EVER BECOME CRAZY ENOUGH TO FUCK WITH A MAN W/ KIDS (THAT I HAVE TO BE FORCED TO SEE EVERYDAY, THAT ARE BAD AS SHIT) PLEASE, SOMEONE WHIP MY ASS!

THANKS FOR LISTENING WHILE I VENT....1-800-HOLLA! OWW!

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Whenever you date a man with kids there will be some type of drama ..... remember that you are talking about a little GIRL and her daddy , girls will even get jealous of their own mothers when it comes to their dad ! My daughter gets mad when her dad buys me jewelery and not her , she throws a fit !!!!! I am guessing that your cucumber is not dealing with his ex anymore , that being said ... it is possible that the little girl doesn't see her father as much as she wants and when she does , you are there taking up some of his attention ! This is not something that you can expect the average 7 year old to process right away . Women in general have a hard time getting along ( sometimes ) . I don't want to say that you were wrong for how you felt because emotions are hard to control and you did the right thing by telling her dad but I think you jumped the gun and should have taken time to get to know the child and give her time to get used to you ! Children are funny that way , it can be something as simple as taking her with you to get a pedi /mani or something that only girls can do together to help you bond and let her know that you are not a threat . Of course the boy will like you , he's a boy !!!! I just think you should have thought it through from an adult point of view and not got on the childs level , it's not her fault if her mom is trifling !

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No...

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I dont see anything wrong with how you feel. They ant your kids. Shit!!! Sorry I had a moment. I went through the same shit, had the same result.

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CP PLEASE get out of my head!

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I'm mad he said that to his lil girl. lol. he's easily suaded.

LMFAO> LOLOLOLOL

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I JUST WANT TO SAY, THAT I AM FUCKED UP AND I JUST READ OVER THIS SHIT, AND IT'S A LOT OF ERRORS! RIGHT NOW, ION CARE.... BUT I DO! THE GOOSE GOT ME LOOSE...OWWW!

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THIS IS WHY, MY FAMILY GETS MAD WHEN I DEAL W/ A REGULAR NIGGAZ! CAUSE THE NIGGAZ ALWAYS, ALWAYS HAVE SOME EL GHETTO SHIT W/ THEM (BAD ASS KIDS)...I TRY AND STAY AWAY...BUT THE CUCUMBER BE SMILING @ ME LIKE SHIT....CALLING ME LIKE...COME RIDE ME GULR! DON'T ASK WHAT I JUST SAID...CAUSE I'M FUCKED UP RIGHT NOW.....

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At least you were honest with him. I personally think he was trife for the way he spoke to his kid when it came to you (bad sign) and it was also not a good idea for him to split his time with his kids with you. If he didn't have enough free time for you, he should reevaluate dating until he can establish a relationship with someone before (physically) bringing his children into the picture. With that being said, I think the only thing you did wrong was get involved with a man with children. Sorry, can't get with that shit!

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I agree with you cookie and as a woman with a kid, there is no one that could ever come before him. I dont care how good the sex is and there is nothing that anyone could say to make me speak to my child in such a manner. If you dont like the child, move on. Even if you did like the child, move on 'cause brotha has some things going on with him and they arent very nice

Cookie Pie said:
Whenever you date a man with kids there will be some type of drama ..... remember that you are talking about a little GIRL and her daddy , girls will even get jealous of their own mothers when it comes to their dad ! My daughter gets mad when her dad buys me jewelery and not her , she throws a fit !!!!! I am guessing that your cucumber is not dealing with his ex anymore , that being said ... it is possible that the little girl doesn't see her father as much as she wants and when she does , you are there taking up some of his attention ! This is not something that you can expect the average 7 year old to process right away . Women in general have a hard time getting along ( sometimes ) . I don't want to say that you were wrong for how you felt because emotions are hard to control and you did the right thing by telling her dad but I think you jumped the gun and should have taken time to get to know the child and give her time to get used to you ! Children are funny that way , it can be something as simple as taking her with you to get a pedi /mani or something that only girls can do together to help you bond and let her know that you are not a threat . Of course the boy will like you , he's a boy !!!! I just think you should have thought it through from an adult point of view and not got on the childs level , it's not her fault if her mom is trifling !

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COOKIE...I FEEL YOU HONEY! I TRIED THAT APPROACH, AND SHE GIVES ME THE BUT FACE...THEN HAS THE NERVE TO ASK ME WHY AM I TALKING TO HER! I KNOW, SHE'S A CHILD AND I CAN'T GIVE HER ANYMORE CHANCES! THAT IS IT, I HAVE WASHED MY HANDS W/ HER AND HER DAD!

THE MOTHER, DOESN'T HAVE CUSTODY.... THEY LIVE W/ THEIR DAD! I'M NOT SURE HOW MANY OTHER CHICKS HE HAS AROUND THEM...BUT HIS SON IS ALWAYS SMACKIN MY ASS, RUBBING MY FACE SAYIN HE LOVES PRETTY RED GURL...I'M LIKE WOW! WHEN HE TOLD ME HIS DAD "HATES HIS MOM"...I TOLD HIM THAT WASN'T NICE....HIS DAUGHTER SAID....WELL, IT'S TRUE...WHY YOU WORRIED ABOUT THAT ANYWAY/ I CAN'T FUCK W/ HER! THAT'S IT!

Cookie Pie said:
Whenever you date a man with kids there will be some type of drama ..... remember that you are talking about a little GIRL and her daddy , girls will even get jealous of their own mothers when it comes to their dad ! My daughter gets mad when her dad buys me jewelery and not her , she throws a fit !!!!! I am guessing that your cucumber is not dealing with his ex anymore , that being said ... it is possible that the little girl doesn't see her father as much as she wants and when she does , you are there taking up some of his attention ! This is not something that you can expect the average 7 year old to process right away . Women in general have a hard time getting along ( sometimes ) . I don't want to say that you were wrong for how you felt because emotions are hard to control and you did the right thing by telling her dad but I think you jumped the gun and should have taken time to get to know the child and give her time to get used to you ! Children are funny that way , it can be something as simple as taking her with you to get a pedi /mani or something that only girls can do together to help you bond and let her know that you are not a threat . Of course the boy will like you , he's a boy !!!! I just think you should have thought it through from an adult point of view and not got on the childs level , it's not her fault if her mom is trifling !

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totally feelin yo pain girl. I went through the same thing, I would just roll my eyes at the smart azz lil heifer, but on the real if he is a regular azz nigga move on...You can get good "cucumber" in a plethora of places that don't require you to pretend like you like their bad kids and some of those come with better perks because of the lack of child support payments and trips to ChuckECheeze!

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Your not wrong for how you feel but you might be slightly wrong for how you came at the situation. Little kids are the fuc&in worst but the little girl is going off of the vibes and words that come from her mother. She is a child and will do and say the most ignorant shit for attention. I agree w/ CP she looks at it like you are taking her Dad away from her family. She is going to take it out on the only person she can and that happens to be you.

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