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Whenever you date a man with kids there will be some type of drama ..... remember that you are talking about a little GIRL and her daddy , girls will even get jealous of their own mothers when it comes to their dad ! My daughter gets mad when her dad buys me jewelery and not her , she throws a fit !!!!! I am guessing that your cucumber is not dealing with his ex anymore , that being said ... it is possible that the little girl doesn't see her father as much as she wants and when she does , you are there taking up some of his attention ! This is not something that you can expect the average 7 year old to process right away . Women in general have a hard time getting along ( sometimes ) . I don't want to say that you were wrong for how you felt because emotions are hard to control and you did the right thing by telling her dad but I think you jumped the gun and should have taken time to get to know the child and give her time to get used to you ! Children are funny that way , it can be something as simple as taking her with you to get a pedi /mani or something that only girls can do together to help you bond and let her know that you are not a threat . Of course the boy will like you , he's a boy !!!! I just think you should have thought it through from an adult point of view and not got on the childs level , it's not her fault if her mom is trifling !
Whenever you date a man with kids there will be some type of drama ..... remember that you are talking about a little GIRL and her daddy , girls will even get jealous of their own mothers when it comes to their dad ! My daughter gets mad when her dad buys me jewelery and not her , she throws a fit !!!!! I am guessing that your cucumber is not dealing with his ex anymore , that being said ... it is possible that the little girl doesn't see her father as much as she wants and when she does , you are there taking up some of his attention ! This is not something that you can expect the average 7 year old to process right away . Women in general have a hard time getting along ( sometimes ) . I don't want to say that you were wrong for how you felt because emotions are hard to control and you did the right thing by telling her dad but I think you jumped the gun and should have taken time to get to know the child and give her time to get used to you ! Children are funny that way , it can be something as simple as taking her with you to get a pedi /mani or something that only girls can do together to help you bond and let her know that you are not a threat . Of course the boy will like you , he's a boy !!!! I just think you should have thought it through from an adult point of view and not got on the childs level , it's not her fault if her mom is trifling !
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