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COOKIE...I FEEL YOU HONEY! I TRIED THAT APPROACH, AND SHE GIVES ME THE BUT FACE...THEN HAS THE NERVE TO ASK ME WHY AM I TALKING TO HER! I KNOW, SHE'S A CHILD AND I CAN'T GIVE HER ANYMORE CHANCES! THAT IS IT, I HAVE WASHED MY HANDS W/ HER AND HER DAD!
THE MOTHER, DOESN'T HAVE CUSTODY.... THEY LIVE W/ THEIR DAD! I'M NOT SURE HOW MANY OTHER CHICKS HE HAS AROUND THEM...BUT HIS SON IS ALWAYS SMACKIN MY ASS, RUBBING MY FACE SAYIN HE LOVES PRETTY RED GURL...I'M LIKE WOW! WHEN HE TOLD ME HIS DAD "HATES HIS MOM"...I TOLD HIM THAT WASN'T NICE....HIS DAUGHTER SAID....WELL, IT'S TRUE...WHY YOU WORRIED ABOUT THAT ANYWAY/ I CAN'T FUCK W/ HER! THAT'S IT!
Cookie Pie said:Whenever you date a man with kids there will be some type of drama ..... remember that you are talking about a little GIRL and her daddy , girls will even get jealous of their own mothers when it comes to their dad ! My daughter gets mad when her dad buys me jewelery and not her , she throws a fit !!!!! I am guessing that your cucumber is not dealing with his ex anymore , that being said ... it is possible that the little girl doesn't see her father as much as she wants and when she does , you are there taking up some of his attention ! This is not something that you can expect the average 7 year old to process right away . Women in general have a hard time getting along ( sometimes ) . I don't want to say that you were wrong for how you felt because emotions are hard to control and you did the right thing by telling her dad but I think you jumped the gun and should have taken time to get to know the child and give her time to get used to you ! Children are funny that way , it can be something as simple as taking her with you to get a pedi /mani or something that only girls can do together to help you bond and let her know that you are not a threat . Of course the boy will like you , he's a boy !!!! I just think you should have thought it through from an adult point of view and not got on the childs level , it's not her fault if her mom is trifling !
Well it's obvious he snapped on her because she has turned into the smaller version of her mother. Hard to deal with those kinds. It was probably long overdue. He does need to put her lil ass in her place. Don't feel bad, kids are getting grown young and younger. A child needs to stay in a child's place. She needed to know right then and there that she overstepped her boundary. If he doesn't get a handle on her while she is young, when she is older, it will be a lot worse. And she might end up getting her ass kicked a time or two.
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