WHY I FUCKIN DON'T LIKE MY DUDES DAUGHTER!

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Permalink Reply by Deja on March 10, 2009 at 9:15pm

THANKS YOU ALL FOR YOUR ADVICE. I'M REALLY DONE W/ HIM! I HAVE MOVED ON...OWW!

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Permalink Reply by Tee on March 10, 2009 at 9:30pm

If you cant deal with his daughter u need to leave his ass. Dont even respond to his text msg. & I am thanking SWEET BABY JESUS that i never run into dudes like this in dallas. U need to look for another type of man.. DONT settled for shit. and when u date a man with kids there will always be issues especially if they aint ur kids

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Permalink Reply by LMS on March 10, 2009 at 11:03pm

In the words of Charlie.....

Tell'em why you mad son!

LMAO! I can't even focus cause of you avatar!

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Permalink Reply by Damnstraight on March 10, 2009 at 11:04pm

Well it's obvious he snapped on her because she has turned into the smaller version of her mother. Hard to deal with those kinds. It was probably long overdue. He does need to put her lil ass in her place. Don't feel bad, kids are getting grown young and younger. A child needs to stay in a child's place. She needed to know right then and there that she overstepped her boundary. If he doesn't get a handle on her while she is young, when she is older, it will be a lot worse. And she might end up getting her ass kicked a time or two.

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Permalink Reply by Cougar $pice on March 10, 2009 at 11:18pm

@ Deja, did he actually say that to his daughter??

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Permalink Reply by C*u*t*e* on March 11, 2009 at 12:58am

The sons are always cool it's the daughters that always have a freaking problem which is to really be expected. You are not wrong for feeling that way.

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Permalink Reply by Cream on March 11, 2009 at 12:00pm

I didn't read everyone's response but here's my 2 cents. I have a 7 year old daughter, one minute I want to tape her mouth shut, next i wanna beat her butt, the other minute I have to wooh saa before i go to jail! She has a smart mouth even to me and I'm her mother. I think the little girls attitude is a stage in life. And to top it off she's gotta deal with her parents not being together, daddy's women, and you never know what the mother says about you around the kids. You gotta decide if you feel he's worth it, he's gotta learn to communicate with his daughter and let her know you don't gotta like it but your gonna be respectful. With kids you can't just tell them once, you gotta constantly repeat yourself before they fully get it!!. My daughter gets threathened at least 10 times a day!! If you think he's worth it, it will get better the older she gets, if not brush it off and move on!! Good luck!!

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Permalink Reply by Denise on March 11, 2009 at 12:45pm

No u don't need to f with noone that talks to his daughter like that....lil girls act that way....he could have said the same thing differently. This is why it's best to do the no kids thing

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Permalink Reply by Siren on March 11, 2009 at 12:50pm

I had an ex whose daughter I couldn't stand either I feel your pain... get out now...it really isn't worth the trouble. You are too young for the headache...

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Permalink Reply by Cookie Pie on March 11, 2009 at 1:13pm

I understand ...... if that's the way you feel then its better to let go , You know I love you and want what is best for you !!!!!

Deja said:

COOKIE...I FEEL YOU HONEY! I TRIED THAT APPROACH, AND SHE GIVES ME THE BUT FACE...THEN HAS THE NERVE TO ASK ME WHY AM I TALKING TO HER! I KNOW, SHE'S A CHILD AND I CAN'T GIVE HER ANYMORE CHANCES! THAT IS IT, I HAVE WASHED MY HANDS W/ HER AND HER DAD!

THE MOTHER, DOESN'T HAVE CUSTODY.... THEY LIVE W/ THEIR DAD! I'M NOT SURE HOW MANY OTHER CHICKS HE HAS AROUND THEM...BUT HIS SON IS ALWAYS SMACKIN MY ASS, RUBBING MY FACE SAYIN HE LOVES PRETTY RED GURL...I'M LIKE WOW! WHEN HE TOLD ME HIS DAD "HATES HIS MOM"...I TOLD HIM THAT WASN'T NICE....HIS DAUGHTER SAID....WELL, IT'S TRUE...WHY YOU WORRIED ABOUT THAT ANYWAY/ I CAN'T FUCK W/ HER! THAT'S IT!

Cookie Pie said:

Whenever you date a man with kids there will be some type of drama ..... remember that you are talking about a little GIRL and her daddy , girls will even get jealous of their own mothers when it comes to their dad ! My daughter gets mad when her dad buys me jewelery and not her , she throws a fit !!!!! I am guessing that your cucumber is not dealing with his ex anymore , that being said ... it is possible that the little girl doesn't see her father as much as she wants and when she does , you are there taking up some of his attention ! This is not something that you can expect the average 7 year old to process right away . Women in general have a hard time getting along ( sometimes ) . I don't want to say that you were wrong for how you felt because emotions are hard to control and you did the right thing by telling her dad but I think you jumped the gun and should have taken time to get to know the child and give her time to get used to you ! Children are funny that way , it can be something as simple as taking her with you to get a pedi /mani or something that only girls can do together to help you bond and let her know that you are not a threat . Of course the boy will like you , he's a boy !!!! I just think you should have thought it through from an adult point of view and not got on the childs level , it's not her fault if her mom is trifling !

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Permalink Reply by Cookie Pie on March 11, 2009 at 1:17pm

That's what I was thinking ...... If he said it to her in that way it must mean that she has done this before and he probably has had enough of her being grown ! That's why I didn't even speak on it because no one knows what parents really go through with their kids !

Damnstraight said:

Well it's obvious he snapped on her because she has turned into the smaller version of her mother. Hard to deal with those kinds. It was probably long overdue. He does need to put her lil ass in her place. Don't feel bad, kids are getting grown young and younger. A child needs to stay in a child's place. She needed to know right then and there that she overstepped her boundary. If he doesn't get a handle on her while she is young, when she is older, it will be a lot worse. And she might end up getting her ass kicked a time or two.

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Permalink Reply by tHeOfFiCialLuRKeR on March 11, 2009 at 2:19pm

Well now you know where the daughter gets her disrespectful ways from!

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