Real talk if your woman does not see you as a leader then your relastionship is basically dead. Women don't want to be equal with you in a relationship they want you to take charge and make the decisions. But A lot of men have been softened by feminism and the media to think that taking leadership over your woman is sexist.

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I agree tone we do want leaders. Women are naturally attracted to providers. With that being said we want men to take charge respectfully and by that i mean having our best interest at heart.


how have you been are you still with the Same guy or see you single
Desiree' said:

I agree tone we do want leaders. Women are naturally attracted to providers. With that being said we want men to take charge respectfully and by that i mean having our best interest at heart.

I'm not with the same guy i'm single and dating new people its been a good change for me

This has got to be the most ignant shyt I have ever read! I do not agree, the parties should be equal, unless, hard labor is involved that is when a man should take charge. What the hell do i look like moving furniture or taking out the trash, no I don't think so! Yes, women want a strong man but they don't want someone to tell them what to do, they want someone who not only can take ownership of a situation but they also must know when to include their partner concerning joint issues or issues involving their daily lives.

well duh! I don't want to have to wear the pants and the skirt..... JJust because a man is a leader does not mean that he has to lead with an iron fist. There are different types of leaders as well. Like Desiree said you have to be able to trust him to have your best interest at heart. Men who have softened need to stop playing the blame game and accept responsibility for their actions if a dude is a b**** it's because he wants to be.

Thank you! Feminism didn't soften men, it taught them to respect women, their intellects, and their abilities. With that being said, if a man wants to be lazy and say he can't get ahead because of women, minorities, etc., then it's on him to find a way.

Siren said:

well duh! I don't want to have to wear the pants and the skirt..... JJust because a man is a leader does not mean that he has to lead with an iron fist. There are different types of leaders as well. Like Desiree said you have to be able to trust him to have your best interest at heart. Men who have softened need to stop playing the blame game and accept responsibility for their actions if a dude is a b**** it's because he wants to be.

It definitely depends Tone. I like a man that has leadership ability but I don't want him to tell me what to do. I want to collaborate so that we make each other better. I can let him lead, but I have a very strong mind and don't need another daddy. Unfortunately, so many men in our community have been raised by single mothers that they themselves don't know what a man being the head of the household looks like.


I think men had more respect for women in the past then we do now. A man will push a woman out of the way to get to safety.
Ms. Ashley Banks said:

Thank you! Feminism didn't soften men, it taught them to respect women, their intellects, and their abilities. With that being said, if a man wants to be lazy and say he can't get ahead because of women, minorities, etc., then it's on him to find a way.

Siren said:

well duh! I don't want to have to wear the pants and the skirt..... JJust because a man is a leader does not mean that he has to lead with an iron fist. There are different types of leaders as well. Like Desiree said you have to be able to trust him to have your best interest at heart. Men who have softened need to stop playing the blame game and accept responsibility for their actions if a dude is a b**** it's because he wants to be.

Tone. This maybe the only time we agree on ANYTHING EVER. With that said I'm not going to read any more because I know you're going to f*** it up.

Tone, taking leadership over your woman?? r u for real? If you ever decide to get married you need some serious marriage counseling B4 u get hitched. You need to understand relationships are not about dominating someone but co-existing and living with mutual love and respect for each other.


Spice what do you look for in a man?
OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

Tone, taking leadership over your woman?? r u for real? If you ever decide to get married you need some serious marriage counseling B4 u get hitched. You need to understand relationships are not about dominating someone but co-existing and living with mutual love and respect for each other.

This is a good post Tone... I agree with Siren & Des... And I also agree when you (Tone) said men these days will push a woman, etc... 

Good job Tone! 

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