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Permalink Reply by Desiree' on January 27, 2012 at 2:34pm

I agree tone we do want leaders. Women are naturally attracted to providers. With that being said we want men to take charge respectfully and by that i mean having our best interest at heart.

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Permalink Reply by Tone © on January 27, 2012 at 3:10pm

how have you been are you still with the Same guy or see you single
Desiree' said:

I agree tone we do want leaders. Women are naturally attracted to providers. With that being said we want men to take charge respectfully and by that i mean having our best interest at heart.

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Permalink Reply by Desiree' on January 27, 2012 at 3:34pm

I'm not with the same guy i'm single and dating new people its been a good change for me

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Permalink Reply by Skytz0100 on January 27, 2012 at 3:51pm

This has got to be the most ignant shyt I have ever read! I do not agree, the parties should be equal, unless, hard labor is involved that is when a man should take charge. What the hell do i look like moving furniture or taking out the trash, no I don't think so! Yes, women want a strong man but they don't want someone to tell them what to do, they want someone who not only can take ownership of a situation but they also must know when to include their partner concerning joint issues or issues involving their daily lives.

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Permalink Reply by Siren on January 27, 2012 at 4:28pm

well duh! I don't want to have to wear the pants and the skirt..... JJust because a man is a leader does not mean that he has to lead with an iron fist. There are different types of leaders as well. Like Desiree said you have to be able to trust him to have your best interest at heart. Men who have softened need to stop playing the blame game and accept responsibility for their actions if a dude is a b**** it's because he wants to be.

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Permalink Reply by Ms. Ashley Banks on January 27, 2012 at 5:12pm

Thank you! Feminism didn't soften men, it taught them to respect women, their intellects, and their abilities. With that being said, if a man wants to be lazy and say he can't get ahead because of women, minorities, etc., then it's on him to find a way.

Siren said:

well duh! I don't want to have to wear the pants and the skirt..... JJust because a man is a leader does not mean that he has to lead with an iron fist. There are different types of leaders as well. Like Desiree said you have to be able to trust him to have your best interest at heart. Men who have softened need to stop playing the blame game and accept responsibility for their actions if a dude is a b**** it's because he wants to be.

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Permalink Reply by luvsmoochez on January 27, 2012 at 5:40pm

It definitely depends Tone. I like a man that has leadership ability but I don't want him to tell me what to do. I want to collaborate so that we make each other better. I can let him lead, but I have a very strong mind and don't need another daddy. Unfortunately, so many men in our community have been raised by single mothers that they themselves don't know what a man being the head of the household looks like.

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Permalink Reply by Tone © on January 27, 2012 at 7:52pm

I think men had more respect for women in the past then we do now. A man will push a woman out of the way to get to safety.
Ms. Ashley Banks said:

Thank you! Feminism didn't soften men, it taught them to respect women, their intellects, and their abilities. With that being said, if a man wants to be lazy and say he can't get ahead because of women, minorities, etc., then it's on him to find a way.

Siren said:

well duh! I don't want to have to wear the pants and the skirt..... JJust because a man is a leader does not mean that he has to lead with an iron fist. There are different types of leaders as well. Like Desiree said you have to be able to trust him to have your best interest at heart. Men who have softened need to stop playing the blame game and accept responsibility for their actions if a dude is a b**** it's because he wants to be.

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Permalink Reply by Moving In Silence on January 28, 2012 at 12:00am

Tone. This maybe the only time we agree on ANYTHING EVER. With that said I'm not going to read any more because I know you're going to f*** it up.

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Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on January 28, 2012 at 7:50am

Tone, taking leadership over your woman?? r u for real? If you ever decide to get married you need some serious marriage counseling B4 u get hitched. You need to understand relationships are not about dominating someone but co-existing and living with mutual love and respect for each other.

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Permalink Reply by Tone © on January 28, 2012 at 11:12am

Spice what do you look for in a man?
OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE said:

Tone, taking leadership over your woman?? r u for real? If you ever decide to get married you need some serious marriage counseling B4 u get hitched. You need to understand relationships are not about dominating someone but co-existing and living with mutual love and respect for each other.

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Permalink Reply by JustMe on January 29, 2012 at 7:02pm

This is a good post Tone... I agree with Siren & Des... And I also agree when you (Tone) said men these days will push a woman, etc... 

Good job Tone! 

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