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Could you willingly sleep with your boss/mentor etc to get further up in the professional arena. I mean lets be honest here. The smartest people never get ahead by their mental capacity. Its gotta be some treachery involved somewhere. So......would you
Permalink Reply by AllyNWonderland on November 26, 2011 at 9:34am
Permalink Reply by Size 2 Prez Wheelies ya dig on November 26, 2011 at 9:47am Any woman who uses sex to get ahead in the professional world is in for a rude awakening. Spreading your legs in the office doesn't have the same results as spreading them at home. Yes, you'll get to a certain professional level but by then I assure you-- you'll be branded for life. And that's when the ladder will stop rising for you.
Smartest thing to do in a situation when a boss or whoever comes on to you is to resist and appear shocked as hell. "Why Mr. Brown-- please, stop" (heh heh) That way you'll have his ass shook enough to get yourself a promotion anyway.
Permalink Reply by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on November 26, 2011 at 11:42am Never had to, felt more powerful creating my own opportunities.
Permalink Reply by Creative Bee on November 26, 2011 at 12:21pm no, in my profession i have now if you have no skills or talent, it doesn't matter who you sleeping with. When i worked in ad business that wouldn't work either, I'd have to be male and gay to advance sleeping through lol
Permalink Reply by MissIsis on November 26, 2011 at 12:28pm Nope. Both men and women will talk and ultimately you'd lose all credibility. My credibility is everything to me.
Permalink Reply by blackfujones on November 26, 2011 at 4:13pm definitely is ran by gayh males
Creative Bee said:
no, in my profession i have now if you have no skills or talent, it doesn't matter who you sleeping with. When i worked in ad business that wouldn't work either, I'd have to be male and gay to advance sleeping through lol
Permalink Reply by blackfujones on November 26, 2011 at 4:15pm I mean it does happen quite honestly. And lets not forget that the hierarchy of business is ran by older white males still. So somebodies f***** to get to the top
Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on November 26, 2011 at 6:46pm yep....
Permalink Reply by blackfujones on November 26, 2011 at 7:04pm Statistically speaking in the professional arena blk women especially are on the lower end of the totem pole.
Irresistible said:
No because it almost always backfires. When you move up the right way your fate is always in your control.
Permalink Reply by blackfujones on November 26, 2011 at 7:12pm What I've learned is credibility is one thing.....but being cutthroat and not giving a f*** is another
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MissIsis said:
Nope. Both men and women will talk and ultimately you'd lose all credibility. My credibility is everything to me.
Permalink Reply by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on November 26, 2011 at 8:12pm Just because you sleep your way to the top, doesn't mean you don't knw you job....its one thing (IMO) to sleep your way to the top and its another to stay there and know what you're doing once you get there. Im the type who will sleep their way to the top, but will learn any and everything I need to so no one won't have shyt to say. You HAVE to knw what to do once you get there..
Permalink Reply by Size 2 Prez Wheelies ya dig on November 26, 2011 at 11:23pm Well I'd argue that women in general are at the low end. But sure, BW have it even lower. Of course, it aint no different for brothers. As much as y'all try to "be down" with your bosses-- going to play golf with him on the weekends, laughing at all his corny jokes and s***.. pfft! He still looks at you like a damn nicca.
But I will say this-- professional white men have a thing for BW in the corporate world. Me thinks its that whole master/slave fetish that continues to germinate in their brains but I have noticed the attention I get is pretty intense when I'm in office buildings for interviews and whatnot.
Oh? Y'all thought the Size 2 was gonna be slanging dranks for eva? haha! Git that degree and git out bishes! *Kick em out the door like Pam nigga*
buzzzzzzzz
blackfujones said:
Statistically speaking in the professional arena blk women especially are on the lower end of the totem pole.
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