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Permalink Reply by Ken Nicole on August 19, 2010 at 7:14pm

As for the guy, no one has heard from him yet. I told my gf that we should call his job and ask for him but that wouldn't really make a difference being as tho that he has the option of working from home.

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Permalink Reply by Risse on August 19, 2010 at 7:30pm

If ya ll know them other three dudes, please but them on blast.

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Permalink Reply by Ken Nicole on August 19, 2010 at 9:22pm

@ risse we have no clue who they are. We only know him. And None of us really wanna keep asking her about it, you know?
@ sassy my gf and I went passed there yesterday and he car wasn't there nor were his lights on. And then on my way home from dropping my gf off I went past there and same thing. No lights, no car.

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Permalink Reply by Skytz0100 on August 20, 2010 at 11:19am

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Ken Nicole said:

*Update* The plot thickings yall! I swear my gf needs to write a damn book! So today, my gf got up early this morning and went to the HIV testing center that gives results right then and there. So I went with her and told her that she needs to get EVERYTHING done! So I'm in the waiting room, sleep, and she finally comes out, she told me that she tested negative for everything. So I am relived because I would have tried to kill dude my damn self if he would have given her something, So I'm driving her home and she starts to cry uncontrollable, I mean, shaking and screaming, and gasping for air! She scared the fck outta me cause it just came outta no where! So I pull over and ask her what is wrong!?! I'm thinking she's just replaying the whole thing in her mind and started to freak out again. Well after asking her was she ok, and what's wrong about 20 more times I started asking her stuff like did he really give you something and you didn't want to tell me? Do you have something? What's wrong?!? Now I'm getting louder cause she's just crying all crazy and starting to get a little upset because she's not saying anything! Well, how about she screams I'm Fcking pregnant! I had like to DIE! I started crying with her. Now were on this little side street both crying. So I finally got myself together and drove off. She's like, what am I gonna do? She kept saying that the whole entire way back. I just didn't say anything but I did tell her that whatever decision she makes that myself and her family loves her and will support her either way. I stayed with her for a little bit until she feel asleep, then I left. As for the dude naw, he hasn't contacted her yet and I drove by his house before I went home and it looked the same as when me and my gf rode by their the other night. Now, I'm starting to wonder wth has happened to him!

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Permalink Reply by Skytz0100 on August 20, 2010 at 11:20am

He thinks at some point he probably would have tried, LOL!

DON_JUAN said:

did he try to get yo dude booty or something?? i mean why is he that angry??? i have a homegirl thats a lesbian and a homeboi that is gay that i have known since high school. im secure with my sexuality and as long as he dont come on to me, were good. now i dont go out to clubs or anything like that with him, but i just dont get y yo dude was so upset. i can understand being a lil p.oed about just finding out after all this time, but u said he was hot!! either tell ole boi u cant be cool with him no mo or get over the s***.
skyttlez77563 said:

Hell these ninja's everywhere now adays. My boo just found out his home boy that he grew up with went on rides together, out to the clubs all these years, finally admitted he is "gay", LOL! Talk about furious, LOL! He started thinking back to high school and how they all took showers together in the locker room and how him and another homeboy would always be playing talking about where "she" at and such and such like dem boys, etc. etc. I mean if ya'll could have seen his scowl as he was talking, LOL! I could not stop laughing! He called and comfronted the homie like, what's up my nig is this true, you know! So the homie like yeah it's true bro, LOLLOLLOL! Baby like, when did we start calling each other bro! And then he asked him a question like was he looking at him in that way and the dude stated I don't see my homeboys like that and basically just said that he got his "friends" and that's what's up, LOL! I am still laughing about it cause he was furious! But, he said that's his homeboy and even though he doesn't agree, that's still his homie. He won't be chilling like that but if he see's him out and about he is still going to address him like his homie so, at least home boy came out the closet!

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Permalink Reply by Skytz0100 on August 20, 2010 at 11:23am

She should keep her baby. Even though dad is a piece of crap she still has to take responsibility for her decisions. And who knows, the baby might make her forget this whole thing, never know. My heart goes out to her though this is too much at one time.

Ken Nicole said:

@ honeycoated Girl, I wish it was a book! I couldn't have even thought up anything like this. I mean she was ready for a baby, that's why she didn't care about them having unprotected sex because she thought he was her soul mate but more importantly, she.Trusted him whole heartedly.and its CRAZY because all of the times that she thought she was pregnant she really had hoped she was and now that she actually Is pregnant, she probably wishes she wasn't. Smh. So sad. But she has been wanting a baby so bad lately you guys that I honestly think she is going to keep it.

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Permalink Reply by Allergic2Counterfeit on August 21, 2010 at 12:06am

I commend you for sticking by her side through all this; being a true friend.

I can't even lie: this is some deep, heavy stuff to be going through and all at once! If she hasn't already began calling out to God (because He is the ONLY one who can save her right now) encourage her to do so. I've learned that sometimes you have to hit what seems like rockbottom to be rebuilt...

Continue to be there for her, pray with her; I'll be praying too. It won't be easy but she WILL move past this...

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Permalink Reply by Ms. KissyFace on August 21, 2010 at 1:06am

W O W. So not only did she find out that her fiancee is cheating she also found out that he is gay and a gay slut at that!

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Permalink Reply by DJ - A.K.A - DON_JUAN on August 21, 2010 at 1:56am

lmao!! oh ok

skyttlez77563 said:

He thinks at some point he probably would have tried, LOL!
DON_JUAN said:

did he try to get yo dude booty or something?? i mean why is he that angry??? i have a homegirl thats a lesbian and a homeboi that is gay that i have known since high school. im secure with my sexuality and as long as he dont come on to me, were good. now i dont go out to clubs or anything like that with him, but i just dont get y yo dude was so upset. i can understand being a lil p.oed about just finding out after all this time, but u said he was hot!! either tell ole boi u cant be cool with him no mo or get over the s***. skyttlez77563 said:

Hell these ninja's everywhere now adays. My boo just found out his home boy that he grew up with went on rides together, out to the clubs all these years, finally admitted he is "gay", LOL! Talk about furious, LOL! He started thinking back to high school and how they all took showers together in the locker room and how him and another homeboy would always be playing talking about where "she" at and such and such like dem boys, etc. etc. I mean if ya'll could have seen his scowl as he was talking, LOL! I could not stop laughing! He called and comfronted the homie like, what's up my nig is this true, you know! So the homie like yeah it's true bro, LOLLOLLOL! Baby like, when did we start calling each other bro! And then he asked him a question like was he looking at him in that way and the dude stated I don't see my homeboys like that and basically just said that he got his "friends" and that's what's up, LOL! I am still laughing about it cause he was furious! But, he said that's his homeboy and even though he doesn't agree, that's still his homie. He won't be chilling like that but if he see's him out and about he is still going to address him like his homie so, at least home boy came out the closet!

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Permalink Reply by Skytz0100 on August 21, 2010 at 10:05am

Also, I think what really upset him is the showers! You know how they have the shower stalls all open in the boys locker rooms and how ya'll talk about each other playing and s***. Well baby started thinking back on that mess like, ok, was he serious when were playing or what! And the fact that he don't know whether he was sizing him up in the shower really ticks him off!

DON_JUAN said:

lmao!! oh ok
skyttlez77563 said:

He thinks at some point he probably would have tried, LOL! DON_JUAN said:

did he try to get yo dude booty or something?? i mean why is he that angry??? i have a homegirl thats a lesbian and a homeboi that is gay that i have known since high school. im secure with my sexuality and as long as he dont come on to me, were good. now i dont go out to clubs or anything like that with him, but i just dont get y yo dude was so upset. i can understand being a lil p.oed about just finding out after all this time, but u said he was hot!! either tell ole boi u cant be cool with him no mo or get over the s***. skyttlez77563 said:

Hell these ninja's everywhere now adays. My boo just found out his home boy that he grew up with went on rides together, out to the clubs all these years, finally admitted he is "gay", LOL! Talk about furious, LOL! He started thinking back to high school and how they all took showers together in the locker room and how him and another homeboy would always be playing talking about where "she" at and such and such like dem boys, etc. etc. I mean if ya'll could have seen his scowl as he was talking, LOL! I could not stop laughing! He called and comfronted the homie like, what's up my nig is this true, you know! So the homie like yeah it's true bro, LOLLOLLOL! Baby like, when did we start calling each other bro! And then he asked him a question like was he looking at him in that way and the dude stated I don't see my homeboys like that and basically just said that he got his "friends" and that's what's up, LOL! I am still laughing about it cause he was furious! But, he said that's his homeboy and even though he doesn't agree, that's still his homie. He won't be chilling like that but if he see's him out and about he is still going to address him like his homie so, at least home boy came out the closet!

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Permalink Reply by Damnstraight on August 21, 2010 at 11:38pm

WOW...It makes me so angry that these dudes are f****** around with people's emotions and feelings like this...

My boyfriend told me he was in the men's locker room and he was in the very back and no one knew he was in there...He said he overheard a convo from a married man(he could hear the other dude talking thru the phone) and they were talking about a recent sex encounter...My bf text me all hysterical from work and was like he think he just discovered an undercover gay dude...Man that pissed me off because his wife may not have no idea...This s*** is so disgustingly sad...

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Permalink Reply by Damnstraight on August 21, 2010 at 11:40pm

Agreed.

Allergic2Counterfeit said:

I commend you for sticking by her side through all this; being a true friend.

I can't even lie: this is some deep, heavy stuff to be going through and all at once! If she hasn't already began calling out to God (because He is the ONLY one who can save her right now) encourage her to do so. I've learned that sometimes you have to hit what seems like rockbottom to be rebuilt...

Continue to be there for her, pray with her; I'll be praying too. It won't be easy but she WILL move past this...

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