IS IT TRUE THAT ALL MAN CHEAT

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Permalink Reply by BKNY on April 8, 2008 at 3:19pm

You know there are so many different ways to answer that question, I went to my fav website, Goggle and asked the question.....

1. She ain’t what she used to be.
Like Adam, the typical man can’t resist the temptation of riper fruit, especially if the woman in his life has let herself go.

2. No one loves a ball buster.
Perhaps nothing will drive a married man into the arms of another woman faster than a nagging wife

3. The thrill of it all.
Most guys who have affairs are getting in touch with their inner caveman: They like to play with fire.

4. Blame it on wanderlust.
Often, married men who roam can’t quite explain their motivation. They just find themselves compelled to bust out of their day-to-day routine in search of something new.

5. It’s biology, baby.
Okay, women are going to find this theory a tad hard to swallow, but it seems the male urge to get into someone else’s jeans is in their genes. We’re only monogamous because we realize that love and friendship are more important than getting laid.

6. It’s just sex.
For most guys, sex and love are two entirely different things. “We really believe, ‘I can still love my wife and want to have sex with other women.’ We separate it in our brains,” Santagati says.

That rationale allows guys to dabble guilt-free, with one notable exception:

“Any guilt that a man has after sex isn’t about the sex itself, it’s about the consequences,” Santagati says. “Will she be a stalker? Will my wife find out?

"If a guy is in a committed, monogamous relationship, he should ask himself one question before he cheats: Is it worth it?

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Permalink Reply by Siren on April 8, 2008 at 4:03pm

don't put the sins of he next man on your current one if you don't want him to do the same. Many men cheat but so do many women. All is a blanket statement i think most would be a more accurate word. Be secure in yourself if you can't trust a man then you don't need to be with him. if you are going to be worrying about what your dude is doing every minute you guys are not together that ain't good and you have some work to do on you first.

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Permalink Reply by Couture Barbie on April 11, 2008 at 10:11am

I put nothing past any man ~ and I dont think that a man can be monogamous to a chick for 20+ years if they're married ~ so yeah..i think all men cheat.

Men are only as faithful as their options, and nowadays, even ugly dudes have options..

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Permalink Reply by OUT OF CONTROL on April 11, 2008 at 10:24am

I think all women cheat! Especially if you on Baller Alert. LMAO

Seriously though, all men cheat! But you shouldn't go into a relationship thinking this. Focus on the positives and don't go looking for any negatives. Since women think that all men cheat, even if they give clues that shows us otherwise we still have to prove that they have to be cheating! A man can treat you so good, but you still look for the bad.

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Permalink Reply by OUT OF CONTROL on April 11, 2008 at 10:30am

Also, I don't think cheating really applies to single people. Even though you're in a relationship and you try to be faithful it's easier to just say yeah let's GET IT ON and be on your way! Unlike if you're married that thought of breaking your vows would pop up in the back of my mind. I would feel more guilty if cheating while married.

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Permalink Reply by Charlie/Daddy's Girl on April 11, 2008 at 10:33am

Yes, all men cheat, it may be emotional or physical...with that said, all men do not cheat in every relationship, and all men do not cheat for the entire relationship.

You said the two of you have been dating for 1 1/2 months, who cares what he is doing...its too soon anyway...I don't think people truly start being completely faithfull until the 1 year mark (just my opinion).

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Permalink Reply by Couture Barbie on April 11, 2008 at 10:37am

true indeed ~ now, im not sayin that a man is gonna cheat on you all damn day long, every month of every year ~ but like i said, i put nuthin past no one.

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Permalink Reply by Charlie/Daddy's Girl on April 11, 2008 at 10:38am

i agree...I don't expect the same commitment from my BF as I would from my husband...

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Permalink Reply by Charlie/Daddy's Girl on April 11, 2008 at 10:39am

I don't cheat! I also don't have BF's often

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Permalink Reply by Couture Barbie on April 11, 2008 at 10:40am

i think that nowadays ~ in the age of the internet and text messaging and computer porn ~ where we're in the mindstate that we should have the best and biggest and brightest of everything ~ everyone at some time or another is gonna cheat ~ because we can see that the grass is greener on the other side, feel me?!

Its almost like we have a sense of entitlement..

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Permalink Reply by Chocolate Allure on April 11, 2008 at 10:45am

Not all men cheat! You have to know what to look for to determine if the particular man you are dealing with is a cheat. I believe that a male that cheats is predisposed to cheat. No matter what a woman does or doesn't do has no bearing on whether or not he will cheat, it's just his lack of morals that will cause him to cheat.

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Permalink Reply by OUT OF CONTROL on April 11, 2008 at 10:57am

I agree with you Charlie. The longer you're together the more you try your best to stay faithful. It can be very hard to stay faithful especially when you start to get on each others nerves.

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