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Permalink Reply by Queen.B.D on May 17, 2008 at 11:27am

Well thats a toughy, but you know what they say, "suggest not request." So instead of saying you want, this, this and that. You mention that you would like, this, this and that. And like aladdins lamp it will appear. They like to feel like they are doing something special and not just lapping to your requests.

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Permalink Reply by Lovely A@ris on June 6, 2008 at 8:50am

I'd say, act like that's not your motive (to get in their pockets) and he'll think you're a betta chic, in start peeling off the C-notes quick, fast, and in a hurry.

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Permalink Reply by FP on July 30, 2008 at 3:40am

every baller has a different need. its your job to use your skills to find that need. a close mouth does not get fed. sometimes you have to withhold pussy, sometimes you have to seduce them, sometimes cats just don't give a fuck and trick off cause they got it like that. my ex isn't goin anywhere and he pays bills here and there because i ask him to. one cat sends gifts but i told him buy me some lingerie and some j's and hoodies....when he said do you just think about what i'm going to get you or do you think of me i'm honest, i tell him we were 100 until you didn't disclose some relationship information and acted like you were single, so now i'm taxin you. so look at your baller, figure out what hes done for others in the past if you can, and don't accept less than what they got out of him, and def show him that you are on your grind, but you appreciate being treated right. just like i told my ex to kick rocks when he asked for a key to my crib. i told him when he buys me this house he can have a key....men will spend anything to get what they want. you need to strategize.....

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Permalink Reply by Lil Miss Moody on April 14, 2009 at 9:09am

I am with Euphoric, I can't just deal with a guy I dont like becuase he has money. There is nothinglike getting good sex and dough from a guy whom you absolutely adore. It's the best.

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Permalink Reply by Stephbaby on June 25, 2009 at 3:59pm

Great answer Gia, even though Im like 4 months late! lol I agree with Lil Miss Moody 2 ;-)

Gia said:

LMAO @ "rippin into them pockets without seeming like a golddigger"!!! I had a baller once say "you are what you are". That statement can be taken many ways... In your situation...you ARE a dang golddigger:/ Stop pretending to be something that you aren't!!! All of the ballers that I know appreciate honesty:) If you have this mentality of "ripping into" someone's pockets...perhaps, you don't need to be with a baller. Perhaps, you need to sit down somewhere and read a self improvement book. I want a baller for many reasons...none of which include a LV bag and Prada pumps (I doubt you cold say the same thing:/). All I want for now is to get my tuition paid and condo bought in my name:)

I don't want just ANY man...they may want sex or to be all in my face. My life and time is worth more to me than that. I have morals. I have no issue with a lady wanting a man for financial gain...I just think that it's sad when she doesn't like the man and she ONLY doing it for the money. No woman (that I know) would ever be deceitful to a man that she cares for with her heart.

My advice...be honest and be yourself. If you are a good person and deserving...great things will come your way, whether it be trips, money, or marriage:) But, remember how much your life, mind, and body are worth and make sure he knows it also:)

Gia;)

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