Am I wrong or does it seem like all the yada yada I keep hearing from some black men about black women seems to stem from us wanting them to catch up to us and do better? I swear, I feel like all the noise seems to be successful black women sit the eff down, shut the eff up, do whatever your black king (who neither has a pot to piss in nor window to throw it out of) says to do, hand over your loo…