Hello Ladies & Gents, First, this site gives me life. LOL I've been lurking here/there for a while and really luv that (for the most part) people keep it 100 and are brutally honest. Anywho, the reason I'm here...I'm a very attractive 35+, successful 6-figure career woman, no kids (and don't want any), well traveled, self-sufficient, blah blah blah ... who has the BIGGEST problem of attract…