Share 'When is just being a friend not enough?'

Hello Ladies, I am new to balleralert, I've been lurking for a couple of weeks now and it's about time I be a member. I love all the posts/discussions, this is a GREAT blog! Anywho, my question to you all is this... Can a woman and man just be friends, kick-it, enjoy one another's company w/o any attachments? I was told that it couldn't stay that way, that eventually someone would get hurt beca...