*Living La Vida Loca*

Its been a long time, since I left you, but I'm back! I have been watching the show Real Housewives of Atlanta marathon all day and it made me think of a few situations I have been in before similar to Kim's. This brings me to the topic of: "Messing with Married Men."

I know a lot of you do… Continue

Ladies, Ladies, Ladies!! I am about done with yall sending these men nude pictures of yourself. Cassie and Rihanna's private parts have been viewed by the world and you could be next.

Now I know some of you are desperate to keep your baller satisfied and will do anything to stay on his mind, so you might think sending him a nude picture of yourself is innocent and harmless when in reality it… Continue

Hello ladies,

I've been asked a great question by a member who wants to know how to meet the ballers. I may have addressed this before but maybe not into great detail. So get your pen and paper and take notes.

We all know that its very hard to run into a baller at a grocery store or the mall so we flock to the clubs when its guaranteed they will be there. You heard the annou… Continue

Ladies, I know you want to marry a baller but its a recession and who has time for love? It is time to get that money honey!

A lot of women are still asking me, "Sandra, how do you do it" and I simply tell them "Stop trying to fall in love." Some of yall get confused and willy dilly in the head when you first meet a ba… Continue

Since I've joined this site, I have seen a few questions asked about when and when not to call your baller so I am going to give you my input on when you should and when you should not call him and how to make him call you more.

First, let's say you meet a guy out somewhere (location does not matter) and you exchange numbers. You should be the one to take his number and send him a text with your n… Continue