Do you want to be right -- and alone ? It's not about being right or wrong all the time. Sometimes you have to let things slide (not important things) arguing over every little thing is childish. (only you know what is important to you) If you know you have to tell him to take out the trash, just remind him. If it bothers you to put the cap back on the toothbrush WOOSAH then just do it. If he is late just suck… Continue

"In the the night I hear him talk the coldest story ever told.........Somewhere far along this road he lost his soul to a woman so heartless !!! ....How could you be so heartless ???..."

And this is where the blog begins......As I'm typing this I don't know where to begin, This blog is straight from the head about something I think about often and feel often.....Is it me or all the HEARTLESS women get the mens… Continue

I PUT OONN !!!! (In my Kanye Voice) lol

Let's Start with an Every Day Outfit

Anyway I don't work in fashion but I think I have a good sense of style. I know what works for me, i also think you don't have to show your ass or be half naked to be sexy.....This is just my Style....If you would like me to put together anything for you please let me know or you can send me… Continue

" In the night I hear him talk, the coldest story ever told....Somewhere far along this road he lost his soul to a woman so heartless"



In part 1 were are gong to discuss heartless factors regarding men and the woman that left them "heartless" etc.. and how it effects your relationship with them, and how it changes their outlook and perpective. This is straight out of my head no pen or paper (forgive… Continue

Now I know what you are thinking.......SEX (no b****** that's not what this post is about! Not entirely anyway lol). Now over the course of a month I have asked a few people male and female. What did sexuality mean to them? I wasn't surprised when they said sex , all expect one person Selsito lol .Usually I don't discuss my business in too much detail but SP (the guy I've been in a long- distance relationship with… Continue

This pic is of a CT Scan - Ascites w/ Ovarian Cancer

Ladies This is one of the most important blogs I have never done. I seen on Sandra Rose her medi min about this topic she did not go into deatil just simply said theat someone that she knew had , and she had it because of multiple partners ( that b**** don't know what to f****** say and she is wrong) It took me 3 weeks to gather all… Continue

Now usually I try to post about 2-3 times a week, sometimes more. I have noticed that maybe I post too much, so in order for others to have greater appreciation I will no longer post as frequently. Moving along...I've been making slight changes in my life in the past 4 months I got rid of 1 Jealous Hoe (who always bites my style then have the nerve to talk about me, Please stop checkin my fresh If you want to know how I do it just ask… Continue

(Brazil Offers Free Botox and Chemical Skin Peels to Its Poorest) Good or Bad Idea?



Want free Botox? You'll have to move to a favela to get it. The Associated Press reports from Rio de Janeiro that Brazilians who make less than $250 (or appoximately 555 Brazil reais) are now being offered free Botox injections, laser hair… Continue

Hedi Montag from MTV -The Hills



**Now this b****** hair is always on point!!!** Never a strand out of place, you never see her roots and her color is amazing always shiney. No split ends!! ( Don't envy her b****** lol ). I need the number to her stylist asap! Now I asked my BBF who does my hair to give us some tips. **Remember all beauty starts from the inside… Continue

***Bush Ninja This is for you, and your advice***



I want to get married. Make no mistake about it. I want to experience that life-long, soul-comforting love that your grandparents told you about at their 40th anniversary party. I've daydreamed about my marriage (note that I did not say wedding) for as long as I can remember.



My vision always included me and my honey, ripe with age and experience, sitting on our… Continue

Call me a sucker for love. (yall b****** better not lol) That’s just what I am. So when it comes to setting the mood for that special someone, I’m pretty confident in my ability to find creative ways to express my feelings. So for the sake of discussion, let’s just say that I wanted to prepare a special “I Love You” dinner. Back in the day, the majority of my attention would be focused on finding sexy dessert and cocktail ideas… Continue

GM Ladies....Every Friday I will now post a medical minute. I will discuss everything from birth control to cancer etc... Please PM any topics you will like me to research and discuss. Ladies let's protect ourselves!!! Thanks SUG*

What Increases Your Risk

Most cervical cell changes that cause an abnormal Pap test are the result of sexual transmission of HPV disease. High-risk sexual behaviors by you or your partner… Continue

Isn't Black Love beautiful ?



We (must)have to learn to support our loved ones,even though we might not agree with their choices. We have to support the path that they choose to take. The other day I was having some wings with a some home girls ( one has potenial to be a good friend) and we started talking to one of the girls about supporting a member of her family. Now as I'm am listening intently I notice that she… Continue

If you follow these steps you hair will look like ...........



1. Mayonnaise

Your hips may not need the extra mayo, but your hair sure could use it. The oils leave strands smooth and frizz-free. Simply slather the spread onto dry hair and leave it in for 30 minutes before shampooing.







2. Honey

Got coarse hair? This sweet topping helps soften and moisturize strands. Mix 2 tablespoons of honey with 1/3… Continue

Do you feel any pressure on your chest right now? No, I’m not talking about the effects from eating your Aunt Lisa’s day old greens. But I do believe there is this invisible force that keeps pushing you back every time you get close to being in a serious relationship. So how can we fix the problem? The first step would be to identify certain areas in your life that need to change. That’s why I’ve decided to unveil the Top 5 Things That… Continue

This Blog is dedicated to my Bush Ninjaz ( #1 , # 3) ......And my Poco Bush Ninja Chipotle

All My BA Sisters B Safe This Weekend



Hater

By Maya Angelou



A hater is someone who is jealous and envious and spends all their time trying to make you look small so they can look tall.



They are very negative people to say the least. Nothing is ever good enough!



When you make your… Continue

Pop quiz. What’s the safest way to ensure a healthy, happy relationship? While I can’t audibly hear your response, I’m 98.7 percent sure that your answer includes suggestions like developing trust and promoting open lines of communication. (The other 1.3 percent of me doesn’t really care what you think as that side of me is currently focused on the “Diff’rent Strokes” marathon about to start on TV Land.) But my nostalgic distractions… Continue

Maybe we as women shot ourselves in the foot. Demanding the right to vote, right to work, right to equal pay, the right to be heard. Maybe the more we demand and receive, the less men become. Did somewhere along the sands of time a switch get turned off in men? “Respect and revere women? Why? She’s walking around in a two-piece.” “Open her door? Her hands work.” There was once a time when men actually carried women over puddles or… Continue

“They say it’s hard to make long distance relationships work, but who really cares what “they” say. In my heart, I was so convinced that he was the one for me. So it didn’t matter what anyone else had to say. When it was time for him to move away, I made a solemn vow before him and God that I would give my all to make our relationship work.



If only he would have made a similar vow…



Things were cool for the first couple of weeks, but then I began… Continue

From Beyonce and Jay-Z to Barack and Michelle Obama, all couples are sure to face days when their relationship isn’t chock full of rainbows, unicorns, and fairies sprinkling magical pixie dust about as they gleefully float on the wings of love. In fact, it’s quite the opposite. While the highs of love are indeed wondrous, it’s the average “ho-hum” days that truly test and define the mettle of a union.



Let’ face a reality right now: Anyone can stay… Continue