Breakups are bad enough without looking like a total fool in the aftermath. So, in a bold move of honesty, and to help save others in the same place, I’m going to admit that in the throes of some past breakups I’ve been a little bit intense. I’ve learned my lessons on what not to do through a lot of tears, friend and family interventions, and often through making huge mistakes. And now I will pass along this harnessed wisdom to… Continue
It seemed like I’d not been back home in an eternity. The last time Bernard and I had touched down in Puerto Rico was around five years back, not long after we’d got married. I remembered how great it felt to take my husband home to meet my extended family; some of them like my uncle Alejandro were angry that I’d given up my education to be a housewife to a black African American man. I…Continue
"The proper function of man is to live - not to exist." -- Jack London
Too often we go through life on autopilot, going through the motions and having each day pass like the one before it.
That's fine, and comfortable, until you have gone through another year without having done anything, without having really lived life.
That's fine, until you have reached old age and look back on life with regrets.
Some people are often imitated, but NEVER duplicated. There are those who try to do it, while others are BORN to do it. Rumors upon rumors surfaced about this tour in particular being cancelled due to Janet's sudden illness. Yes, some tour dates were postponed, which of course saddened her fans, but her health comes first. We all want whats best for Ms. Jackson if you're NASTY, right?
When I heard Washington D.C. would be the official spot for… Continue
Most people don't talk about booty calls. That's part of their appeal: "We don't have to endlessly com-mu-ni-cate because we're not in a serious relationship." People rely on a tacit understanding when it comes to casual sex with their friends and neighbors, and especially their exes. But it's silly to assume that everyone "understands" the exact same set of personal guidelines.… Continue
For what it's worth, Maurice Templesman was Jacqueline Onassis's (quite generous) companion for the last several years of her life........also helped to her to invest and grow her wealth after Onassis.
Lazare Kaplan International, Inc.
Maurice Tempelsman is senior partner at the firm of Leon Tempelsman & Son, a company active in mining, investments and business… Continue
"Janet Jackson has had to cancel nine concerts for her “Rock Witchu” world tour due to an undisclosed illness. The “undisclosed” part had people speculating that Janet was pregnant - or she was faking the illness due to slow ticket sales. Turns out neither is true: Janet was diagnosed with a rare form of migraine that causes symptoms similar to vertigo. Not fun.
At the blink of an eye, technology is jumping through loops. When I was a kid, I thought by the year 2000, we'd be flying in the air like the Jetsons. For those who grew up in the eighties would definately know what I'm talking about. However, we have surpassed that, & I have yet to see a flying vehicle. That is until I came across the Aptera:Hovercraft-Chic.
When I first saw a picture of this contraption,… Continue
"Last week, I raved and raved about Beyonce’s new single, "If I Were a Boy." Remember? I thought it was the best thing she’d ever done, and was amazed that she’d even found the material.
Well, guess what? The story behind "If I Were a Boy" is absolutely scandalous. It also explains my question of why this single missed the Grammy deadline of Sept. 30, since it was ready to go at least…Continue
Serena and Common hittin the surf recently...yes black people surf!
Pix of Serena and Kelly inside..found on ybf.com!
Serena hit Hawaii recently with her Boo Common and was aslo spotted on the beach in a teeny white bikini with gal pal Kelly Rowland. Kelly wisely wore a dress to cover up...ain't nobody gonna be looking at her when Muscle Booty is around!…
I found this little interview today that he did...seems like a normal kid to me. At the same time, he must have been coached on some things!
Levi Johnston, who’s having a baby with the daughter of Republican vice presidential candidate Gov. Sarah Palin, can’t believe all the things he’s hearing. No, he wasn’t held against his will on the campaign trail. No,…Continue
Everybody got their cup, but they ain't chipped in. Don't you just hate that?? You're surrounded by good people, listening to some great music, but there's one thing missing. What might that be?? The perfect alcohol. On a low-key night, I like to sip on a nice chilled glass of wine; preferably red. When I'm watching the game, I like to cuddle with my boo Mr. Heineken. When I'm ready to party, I LOVE a nice & smooth… Continue
This weekend ‘Actors’ Chris Bridges, Tyrese, and Eve attended the 2008 Hollywood Life Style Awards that was held at the Pacific Design Center last nite. It must have been a good night for Luda because he even received an award. Yay! More pix down below...
"A man was arrested at Heathrow airport in London today for going ballistic on Mel B, Stephen Belafonte and a group of photogs.
At around 3 PM, Mel, Stephen and their baby arrived at Heathrow and were greeted by a few photogs. As they were exiting the airport a random man approached them and started talking to Belafonte. We don't know what was said between the two, but the man suddenly went crazy, screaming things like "I'll get a…Continue
Posted by Chrissy (Had to delete because she hot-linked with kills the other sites bandwith)
I was at FreddyO.com catching up on my gossip when I came across this pic. It was under the post of Diddy's 10th year anniversary of Sean John in Atlanta. FreddyO stated that this may be a pic of his other baby mother and daughter. I never seen a pic of his other daughter and we can’t see the face of the lady. She… Continue
Ok, so I'm reading the web & this chick is auctioning off her virginity to pay for college. Is there a market for this? Is this smart...b/c technically she will always be a whore, but then again in ancient Mesopotamia a girl wasn't a woman until she turned her first trick. Any thoughts?
Ok...I normally don't blog, I'm a longtime lurker. However, when I saw/heard this man I HAD to say something. His name is Pretty Willie and he's a singer who used to be signed with Universal. Right now he's singing again, writing for artists (such as Plies, Trey Songz), modeling for Gilette, AND acting....but I digress.
Not only is he F-I-N-E but I will put money up that he can sing the drawls off anyone on this entire… Continue
I've been a fan of baller alert for years, I've read pretty much every blog, every baller board, book, and have done every suggestion made on how to get a baller...and I have met a few, here and…Continue
It seems like most of the time when a sugar daddy is interested in a black women its cause he has a fetish or they try to nickel and dime us sometimes. Anyone else having this experience?Ive made a…Continue
Have you ever had a baller just fall of the face of the earth. Let's say that you guys are just f******. You aint got nothing from him, it is almost like a fwb situation. You text him one day and he…Continue