Last week, we covered how to avoid being a bad heartbreaker, so this week we’ll tackle the other side of things. Coincidentally, it’s a side of dating I’m far more familiar with: how to accept being dumped with dignity.
Just as there are myriad ways to screw up breaking someone’s heart, the possibilities for botching a “getting-broken-up-with” are limitless. Here are some behaviors to avoid so you won’t compound your heartache with a total loss of self respect.
1. Attempting to argue him ou…
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Added by JustMe on July 14, 2009 at 12:04pm —
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This blog is to the men...
Men..some of you need to look in the mirror. If you were not worth millions do you think you would get that hot chic on your arm? Hell no...
Men go to the extreme to please women. They will buy a luxury car while living in their momma's b…
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Added by Boss/MadamBA on June 1, 2009 at 2:38pm —
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Ladies, it's easier said than done for some.
You meet a nice baller, go on your first date, and he doesn't open your car or even the door as you walk through the restaurant. It's all about him, while you hold his jacket, get out of his way, and manhandle iron heavy chairs to sit do…
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Added by MRSBIG on May 12, 2009 at 10:00am —
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What do you guys think?
Not so attractive wealthy man has a great personality, good family values, generous, caring, adventurous, fun-loving...... meaning he is busted but beyond that ya'll get along great, have fun at home, share intimate deep intelligent conversation, have similar beliefs etc etc
VS.
Hot man (great body, smile, hair) who has average money, not poor, per se but there no trips involved or extravagant shopping sprees but he is also fun-loving with a great personality.
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Added by Sierra on April 9, 2009 at 10:30am —
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The rest!!!!

The Male Hoe:
The Description: Now be careful, because this guy is often disguised as the finest thing in the club. He dresses nice from head to toe, straight white teeth, freshly cut hair, and cologne that makes you want to drop to your knees. Only problem, you aren’t the only one thinking this. And he could be packing a little something extra in his pants. No, not wh…
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Added by LMS on February 6, 2009 at 12:20pm —
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Snatched from bloxilla ( here are the first 3)
The Old Man
The Description: This guy is usually leaning on the bar sipping a Jack Daniels, peering at you over his square specs. He will eye rape you half the night before he makes his move. He’s usually wearing purple or sky blue dress pants with a button down shirt and tacky tie. He may even have on a Kangol hat.
His Catch Phrases: “Watch out there now.” “You don’t even need to deal with these young cats in here baby. You need a man th…
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Added by LMS on February 6, 2009 at 12:16pm —
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I need some opinions ya'll. Forgive if I get a lil all over the place but I'll spell the story out as best I can. and I know my grammar, punctuation is bad when i blog. My apologies ;^)
I've been dating this guy *Brandon* since September 2008. We were introduced through one of his boys *Mark*that I also know through different promotional events I'm a part of, strictly professional not personal. Mark had tried to kick it to me & although he's good-looking I turned him down because he has tha…
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Added by Sierra on January 18, 2009 at 3:03pm —
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When an an alpha female decides it’s time for a committed relationship nothing will stop her. Not even a recession.
When it comes to a recession, a man is just a man. Out with the ballerfific expenditures, and on with the ballerific imagination.
If a relationship is her focus, she will…
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Added by MRSBIG on December 30, 2008 at 12:50pm —
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I've seen so many posts about women doing all kinds of things to keep their baller interested. I spent the weekend coming across one trifling conversation to another about how one woman is trying to hold her baller by doing these things: buying a pole for the bedroom, starving herself…
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Added by MRSBIG on December 16, 2008 at 3:48pm —
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Added by Britt Walker on November 18, 2008 at 8:30pm —
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Mistakes that women make
By David Wygant
Special to Yahoo! Personals
Updated: Sep 29, 2008
Recently I was coaching a woman on how to write her profile for Yahoo! Personals. Before we wrote the profile, I asked her to send me her four best pictures.
I asked her to do this because men are as visual as Scooby Doo on steroids. The first thing they do when they see your profile online is NOT read about your trip to Italy last summer. They want to see how hot you are. Keep in mind that every man…
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Added by LMS on November 15, 2008 at 1:14pm —
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Or do they? Now, that last pick is Star Wars movie empire daddy George L…
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Added by MRSBIG on October 21, 2008 at 10:50am —
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As unmarried Black women (and there’s a lot!) what can we learn from her? If you have an attitude after reading this, refer to #6 and buy my
books…
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Added by MRSBIG on September 26, 2008 at 7:00pm —
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Before folks start frowning, understand that this is not for ALL women. Just a core group of women who want to be completely owned and dominated. There is a subculture of women who are living like this everyday. It's not about catching anybody out there, or popping off or being dramatic…
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Added by MRSBIG on September 22, 2008 at 11:00am —
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I posted the entire letter to my
blog. My friend emailed me late last night and gave me permision to post the letter she wrote. The letter's long and I had to shorten it, but here are some parts. I think it will help answer the concerns s…
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Added by MRSBIG on August 20, 2008 at 10:00am —
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This weekend, I had a friend leave New York. Damn it, she left America!
She is moving to Dubai. Mind you, this girl is not rich. She has been a legal secretary at a small firm for 15 years. She rents an apartment in Brooklyn, drives a modest car and got bills like everybody else. Bu…
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Added by MRSBIG on August 18, 2008 at 12:30pm —
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Now, these are things friends ;) have told me, but this doesn't cover it all, of course. We all know a baller has a certain way of speaking that just, well, makes us believe it or act like we do. But most of them are in fact LIES. Take a look at these 10 things. What are some of the crazi…
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Added by MRSBIG on August 13, 2008 at 3:00pm —
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Partner Partner Partner let me upgrade you! In the world of the "celebrity" they change partners like their underwear. Introducing Baller Alert's own Upgrade/Downgrade. It's the battle of the new girl/guy versus the ex. We want you to decide. In switching partners some of the hottest celebrities take two steps forward while others take two steps back. It's a hit or miss call. When you got the hottest…
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Added by Boss/MadamBA on June 29, 2008 at 11:47pm —
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What to do when he calls—10 Things
Okay. This is where the hard part and MONEY comes in. Most of the tips are geared towards investment bankers, managing directors, hedge fund this or that. They have their own tastes. It takes time to look, feel, and smell good consistently. I would sug…
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Added by GetEmGirl on May 14, 2008 at 3:30am —
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He’s dead. At least figuratively. Think this way to help you cope when he doesn’t call. These men meet about 3-4 different eligible females per event or day. It’s most likely he took your number and can’t find it or remember which one you are. He looks at his cell phone and scrolls dow…
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Added by GetEmGirl on May 8, 2008 at 10:37am —
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