
Let's face it. The down low world exist. My 13 year old girl cousin told me that the guys in her school admit if they are bi-sexual now. This is a good thing but bad at the same time. On one hand the girls know that they are practicing risky behavior..on the other hand is this what it has come too?
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Added by Boss/MadamBA on October 14, 2009 at 5:38pm —
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Since the first blog by a baller got your ladies so riled up...I have three wonderful ballers that are going to write blogs for us. They think the majority of us are clueless and want to lend a helping hand. LOL
Check out one ballers opinion on why men cheat:
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Added by Boss/MadamBA on August 21, 2009 at 3:43pm —
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This blog is a spinoff of the blog
10 Reasons Why Your Baller Won't Call You Back. This blog was not written by the same man but another guy that read the blog and the comments. He is…
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Added by Boss/MadamBA on August 20, 2009 at 4:08pm —
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(Photo via icedoutgear.com)
I wrote this a while back but never really sent it around. Ballers excel at this stuff, so I thought it might be a good place to repost this to help ladies understand how to Pimp these dudes out here. There are 7 Secrets to Pimpin:
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Added by oo la la on August 19, 2009 at 12:30pm —
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I found this article on msn.com and I thought it was intresting... What's going through your man's mind when you're in the middle of a huge blowout? They asked 10 Guys wat was going through their head . I always wanted to know wat dey stupid asses was thinkin lol
1.
Avoidance Tactics
"What fight? I tune it out."
—Kyle, 30
2.
Time to Move on?
"I need a new girlfriend, one who doesn't fight with me."
—Robert, 25
3.
What Do Women Want?
"Am I understanding…
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Added by AMillz on July 15, 2009 at 9:05pm —
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By: Heather Glass (View Profile)
If you’ve thumbed through an issue of Maxim magazine or Men’s Health anytime in the last twenty-five years, you’ve probably read a few pointers on how to properly compliment a woman. Personally, I think these lists can be a little too vague, and quite honestly, a little lame. For example, one list I read recently said, “When you meet someone interesting, commend her on her wit or intelligence—not her beautiful breasts.” That someone actually felt compelled to re…
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Added by JustMe on July 14, 2009 at 12:36pm —
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Ever since word got out earlier this week that scientists have figured out how to create synthetic sperm from embryonic stem cells, people have been fantasizing what a world without men might be like. I don’t get it — would synthetic sperm only create girl babies? And why would any of us want a world with no men anyway? Who would carry our heavy luggage up the stairs after getting home from a vacation? After the jump, 15 things we’d miss about men if they ever became extinct.
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Added by JustMe on July 14, 2009 at 12:30pm —
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Story Highlights
Writer gets guy friend to tell true or false on why he dumped you excuses
If a guy likes you, but doesn't love you, he will break up with you
Guys do NOT break up with women because "they love you too much"
He might break up with you because he's not finished playing the field
By Amelia McDonell-Parry
(The Frisky) -- I have a little problem. I tend to obsess over why a guy suddenly pulls "the fade" or ends things just as they're, seemingly, getting good. It's one thing i…
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Added by JustMe on July 14, 2009 at 11:00am —
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Its time to put the kiddies to bed. Mommy & Daddy want to have a little fun. As if working majority of your lives isn't enough, some folks usually are too tired to delve into the sexual realm. Yea, I know you're thinking, Mello speak for yourself. The truth of the matter some couples d…
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Added by Mello826BA aka BAGroupie on May 28, 2009 at 9:32pm —
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Ever turn up your nose to a man that tried to
holler at you? Only to find out that he had major paper? When meeting different men please have the mentality that all men are rich until proven broke. I remember one time my friend turned her nose up to a man behind the counter of her f…
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Added by Boss/MadamBA on May 1, 2009 at 10:06am —
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Justed wanted to share a recent post from my blog mochabeauti.com. Thought it might be of interest.
So the other day I’m in conversation with one of my male friends, who is African-American and in his early thirties. He is moderately successful in several business endeavors including film and television, and he loves to trick & treat. Ever since I have known him, he has exclusively dated Latinas (preferably Puerto Ricans & Dominicans), and even has a child with one. Keep note - He likes…
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Added by Abbi on April 21, 2009 at 7:55am —
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The rest!!!!

The Male Hoe:
The Description: Now be careful, because this guy is often disguised as the finest thing in the club. He dresses nice from head to toe, straight white teeth, freshly cut hair, and cologne that makes you want to drop to your knees. Only problem, you aren’t the only one thinking this. And he could be packing a little something extra in his pants. No, not wh…
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Added by LMS on February 6, 2009 at 12:20pm —
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Snatched from bloxilla ( here are the first 3)
The Old Man
The Description: This guy is usually leaning on the bar sipping a Jack Daniels, peering at you over his square specs. He will eye rape you half the night before he makes his move. He’s usually wearing purple or sky blue dress pants with a button down shirt and tacky tie. He may even have on a Kangol hat.
His Catch Phrases: “Watch out there now.” “You don’t even need to deal with these young cats in here baby. You need a man th…
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Added by LMS on February 6, 2009 at 12:16pm —
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I'm currently reading a book called "Why men love Bitches" a friend suggested it, because he thought I was too nice and his now soon to be wife read it while they there was on again off again. As I started reading the book I have realized that I have been doing a lot of the nice girl th…
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Added by SexyJay on January 16, 2009 at 6:00pm —
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Step1
Dress appropriately at all times. He didn’t get rich so he could date a frump, so it’s important to maintain your appearance. Keep your legs shaved/waxed and your hair styled, and if he gives you jewelry, wear it.
Step2
Use a modulated voice, especially around other people. It doe…
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Added by Discreet on January 11, 2009 at 8:34pm —
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Maybe we as women shot ourselves in the foot. Demanding the right to vote, right to work, right to equal pay, the right to be heard. Maybe the more we demand and receive, the less men become. Did somewhere along the sands of time a switch get turned off in men? “Respect and revere w…
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Added by Sugar on October 28, 2008 at 11:30am —
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Or do they? Now, that last pick is Star Wars movie empire daddy George L…
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Added by MRSBIG on October 21, 2008 at 10:50am —
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America has been buzzing about CNN's Black In America special. I found an interesting blog from the founder of Marry Your Baby Daddy Day - I wanted to share it with my Baller Alert family:
Maryann Reid
Author, Founder Marry Your Baby Daddy Day
Last night, I heard the words “black men are intimidated by black women”. I cringed. Again, the same words, the same victim, and the same problem. Wh…
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Added by Boss/MadamBA on July 25, 2008 at 8:08pm —
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If you’re over 35 or in your 40s, you may want to consider dating an…
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Added by GetEmGirl on June 10, 2008 at 9:00am —
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Courtesy of www.ehow.com
Ladies, we have all been through that spell in our lives where we didn't want to seem like gold diggers by asking for money from the men that we are and have been intimately involved with. This ladies, is a single yet somewhat difficult thing to do for some women. Some of our characteristics vary between being aggressive or just passive. A more aggressive woman will a…
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Added by Holly-Would on June 6, 2008 at 6:00pm —
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