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7 Simple Secrets to Pimping a Male (or female)!

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I wrote this a while back but never really sent it around. Ballers excel at this stuff, so I thought it might be a good place to repost this to help ladies understand how to Pimp these dudes out here. There are 7 Secrets to Pimpin:






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Added by oo la la on August 19, 2009 at 12:30pm — 20 Comments


I found this article on and I thought it was intresting... What's going through your man's mind when you're in the middle of a huge blowout? They asked 10 Guys wat was going through their head . I always wanted to know wat dey stupid a**** was thinkin lol

1.Avoidance Tactics

"What fight? I tune it out."

—Kyle, 30

2.Time to Move on?

"I need a new girlfriend, one who doesn't fight with me."


Added by AMillz on July 15, 2009 at 9:05pm — No Comments

For The Guys: Seven Compliments That Won’t Get You Laid

By: Heather Glass (View Profile)

If you’ve thumbed through an issue of Maxim magazine or Men’s Health anytime in the last twenty-five years, you’ve probably read a few pointers on how to properly compliment a woman. Personally, I think these lists can be a little too vague, and quite honestly, a little lame. For example, one list I read recently said, “When you meet someone interesting, commend her on her wit or intelligence—not her beautiful breasts.” That someone actually felt… Continue

Added by JustMe on July 14, 2009 at 12:36pm — 1 Comment

15 Things We’d Miss About Men

Ever since word got out earlier this week that scientists have figured out how to create synthetic sperm from embryonic stem cells, people have been fantasizing what a world without men might be like. I don’t get it — would synthetic sperm only create girl babies? And why would any of us want a world with no men anyway? Who would carry our heavy luggage up the stairs after getting home from a vacation? After the jump, 15 things we’d miss about men if they ever became extinct.

Their 5… Continue

Added by JustMe on July 14, 2009 at 12:30pm — 1 Comment

Five reasons he dumped you -- true or false?

Story Highlights

Writer gets guy friend to tell true or false on why he dumped you excuses

If a guy likes you, but doesn't love you, he will break up with you

Guys do NOT break up with women because "they love you too much"

He might break up with you because he's not finished playing the field

By Amelia McDonell-Parry

(The Frisky) -- I have a little problem. I tend to obsess over why a guy suddenly pulls "the fade" or ends things just as they're,… Continue

Added by JustMe on July 14, 2009 at 11:00am — No Comments


Ever turn up your nose to a man that tried to holler at you? Only to find out that he had major paper? When meeting different men please have the mentality that all men are rich until proven broke. I remember one time my friend turned her nose up to a man behind the counter of her favorite carryout. She found out he owned it in addition to owning property and was pushing a luxury car. She felt really stupid after that. He might not have… Continue

Added by Baller Alert on May 1, 2009 at 10:06am — 16 Comments

What Men Really Think - I Will Never Marry Her

Justed wanted to share a recent post from my blog Thought it might be of interest.

So the other day I’m in conversation with one of my male friends, who is African-American and in his early thirties. He is moderately successful in several business endeavors including film and television, and he loves to trick & treat. Ever since I have known him, he has exclusively dated Latinas (preferably Puerto Ricans & Dominicans), and even has a child with one. Keep note… Continue

Added by Abbi on April 21, 2009 at 7:55am — 10 Comments

7 Types of Men You Meet in the Club Pt.2

The rest!!!!

The Male Hoe:

The Description: Now be careful, because this guy is often disguised as the finest thing in the club. He dresses nice from head to toe, straight white teeth, freshly cut hair, and cologne that makes you want to drop to your knees. Only problem, you aren’t the only one thinking this. And he could be packing a little something extra in his pants. No, not what you’re thinking. This special… Continue

Added by LMS on February 6, 2009 at 12:20pm — 3 Comments

7 Types of Men You Meet in the Club Pt.1

Snatched from bloxilla ( here are the first 3)

The Old Man

The Description: This guy is usually leaning on the bar sipping a Jack Daniels, peering at you over his square specs. He will eye rape you half the night before he makes his move. He’s usually wearing purple or sky blue dress pants with a button down shirt and tacky tie. He may even have on a Kangol hat.

His Catch Phrases: “Watch out there now.” “You don’t even need to deal with these young… Continue

Added by LMS on February 6, 2009 at 12:16pm — 6 Comments

Why men love B******. Did you read it?

I'm currently reading a book called "Why men love B******" a friend suggested it, because he thought I was too nice and his now soon to be wife read it while they there was on again off again. As I started reading the book I have realized that I have been doing a lot of the nice girl thing. Not only new year, new hair, but new year, new men.

What do you think about the book if you have read… Continue

Added by Sexy Jay on January 16, 2009 at 6:00pm — 12 Comments

How to Date Rich Men


Dress appropriately at all times. He didn’t get rich so he could date a frump, so it’s important to maintain your appearance. Keep your legs shaved/waxed and your hair styled, and if he gives you jewelry, wear it.


Use a modulated voice, especially around other people. It does his image no good to be seen with a shrew! NEVER lose your temper with him in public.


Keep your thoughts to… Continue

Added by Discreet on January 11, 2009 at 8:34pm — 3 Comments

Is Chivalry Dead? A Woman’s Perspective

Maybe we as women shot ourselves in the foot. Demanding the right to vote, right to work, right to equal pay, the right to be heard. Maybe the more we demand and receive, the less men become. Did somewhere along the sands of time a switch get turned off in men? “Respect and revere women? Why? She’s walking around in a two-piece.” “Open her door? Her hands work.” There was once a time when men actually carried women over puddles or… Continue

Added by Sugar on October 28, 2008 at 11:30am — 4 Comments


America has been buzzing about CNN's Black In America special. I found an interesting blog from the founder of Marry Your Baby Daddy Day - I wanted to share it with my Baller Alert family:

Maryann Reid

Author, Founder Marry Your Baby Daddy Day

Last night, I heard the words “black men are intimidated by black women”. I cringed. Again, the same words, the same victim, and the same problem. When will black women stop blaming others…

Added by Baller Alert on July 25, 2008 at 8:08pm — 2 Comments

Asking him for $$$$$

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Ladies, we have all been through that spell in our lives where we didn't want to seem like gold diggers by asking for money from the men that we are and have been intimately involved with. This ladies, is a single yet somewhat difficult thing to do for some women. Some of our characteristics vary between being aggressive or just passive. A more aggressive woman will ask for whatever she needs with no hesitation;… Continue

Added by Holly-Would on June 6, 2008 at 6:00pm — 25 Comments

Don't Ever Say These Things To Your Baller In Bed!

[1] Your penis is too small

Even if it is true, don't even joke about it or make insinuations. He is going to end the relationship as his ego has been badly wound. If he doesn't do that immediately, he is going to trust you like a fox. He would assume that you are already sleeping around with more endowed men. Also, even after a relationship is over this may still wound his ego.

[2] We need to talk This is one statement or expression men don't want to…


Added by Baller Alert on April 9, 2008 at 3:13am — 2 Comments

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