"No relationship is worth hiding. And if you have to hide it, maybe it's not worth having."



What if your significant other told you they wanted to keep your relationship a secret? If they told you they didn't want your friends to know that the two of you were an item?…

Since the premiere of the hit ABC show Scandal last year there has been a spotlight placed on infidelity, mistresses and side chicks. This is no new epidemic, men have been unfaithful for years but there was no public spectacle to made about it. Mistresses are nothing new, Elizabeth Taylor was…

This is one of my favorite topics to talk about with my girlfriends.

If you look at most relationships, the primary reason a woman is with her man is either SPARK or COMFORT.  (For right now we're going to ignore money, looks, status, etc.)

The SPARK is the…

^{So, you and your perfect man are ready to take things to the next level. Great! We know that everyone must make some compromises to make things work, but many times women are TOO compromising.…}

We all watched Chris Brown date two girls at the same damn time.  Not they typical main chick/side chick type deal that we always see, but TWO main chicks.

On any given day you could see Chris clubbing with Karruche Tran or courtside with Rihanna.  The odd thing is, there were pictures everywhere and tons of shade thrown on social networks, so we know they knew about each other for sure.

Is this the new thing? Are women finally so fed…

In recent months I have been asked the same question multiple times in many different ways, “How do you know so much about being a side chick?” Well the answer is simple, I have been one. (Shocking? Surely not) I highly doubt that this confession is shocking in the least, not because I am a hoe or a…

We've all been in a situation when a man really likes you and you don't share the sentiment. Either he's someone you've always known or someone who just wants to get to know you, either way you're just not that into him and with a world full of crazies you want to let him down easy. I've compiled some good…

I've experienced this a lot myself. I have quite a few friends that chose the married route straight out of high school. I, myself, chose a career path. The whole family thing is great, but in this day and age I know that even that doesn't last forever. I don't fault my married friends…

Are all of your friends getting married and for some reason you can't seem to find Mr. Right? Does it seem like every man you get seems to run for the hills when the subject of marriage is brought up? It may be that you're just not marriage material. Here are a few reasons why.

You're Not Marriage Material…

When I meet a new guy, he usually suggests that we should hang out. I’m excited until he says that he just wanna come over to my house and chill. Uuuummmmm, oh hell no! Lately, people have been believing that coming over to my house and chillin is considered a date. NOT! I…

We hear it all the time: “A woman who wants a man with money/status/power is a gold digger,” With no proof or rational backing, the masses (i.e. small-minded people) have adopted the phrase as being true and, in turn, become successful in convincing women that wanting more is…

Nothing ruins the appeal of a man like finding out that he is full of "I'm About To"! Have you ever been with a man who attracted you with his goals and aspirations, only to find out he's had those same goals for the last 8 years and hasn't taken a single step towards them. This guy can also be referred to as the "Next Summer I'm Finna..." guy and he is annoying! Every conversation is "I'm about to buy this studio equipment so I can…

Boy meets girl. Girl learns that Boy already has girlfriend/wife. Girl and Boy get together anyway. Girlfriend/wife learns about New Girl. Girlfriend/wife stays with Boy. New Girl stays with Boy too. Now Boy has Girlfriend/wife and New Girl. Is this cheating?

Traditional claims will say: Boy…

Eyes meet from a simple glance.  Glances turn into stares.  Stares lead to entrancement so the dance begins.  He moves closer to where you are.  You sway instinctively into the paths you hope that he crosses.  Like a well oiled pendulum, back and…

Delilah seduced Samson.

Paula Broadwell conquered David Patraeus, leader of America's CIA!

"Hotwife" Heather Clem cuckolded her husband and lured Hulk Hogan and many other high profile sports personalities.

Karinne "Superhead" Stephans ensnared…

Another Man Will! By: Daaimah S. Poole

What One Man Won't Do, Another Man Will! By: Kia Morgan Smith 

Thank goodness I am out of the dating game and have been for 11 years now. But when I was on the market and looking for my Mr. Everything, I surely came across some losers and my…

Words by Marvin Ady

 

 

            In today’s dating scene, it seems that a man’s finances often becomes the focal point. In…

Check out this excerpt from Good Men Do Cheat "Chivalry is Dead and Women Killed It:

"Truth be told, Medieval literature is definitely responsible for fostering our concept of…

Today we’re going to tackle the subject of the elusive “pretty boy”/”metro-guy”/does that guy wax his eye brows?? How much “PRETTY” is too “PRETTY” for a man?

We all  like our men looking good, smelling good, hair done- etc. But I tend to take issue with a man that spends more time in…

So...where do I start? I guess anywhere would be fine at this point. So I'll start off by saying that this blog is true to life (like the rest of my blog). It circles around a conversation I had with eight guys. Seven of them married and the eighth set to be in 2013.

I simply asked them this:…