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Relationship Rules for the Ballerific Chick: Life Goes on....

 I remember like it was yesterday, it was 2006 and my freshman year in college. I was head over heels for this fine brother by the name of Norris*. He was 6’4, smooth honey brown skin with long milk and honey infused dreads and he was the leader of Alpha Phi Alpha. (Which is a big deal at an HBCU) He was so smooth! Reminded me of a Maxwell mixed with a little Raheem Devaugn. We dated the whole first semester, and during that time he opened my mind…

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Added by beinghershykissblogger on July 18, 2014 at 6:13am — 1 Comment

Relationship Non-negotiables: Three Must-Have Factors for My Relationships By: @MeaganElyce

 

During a late night pillow talk session, my man and I were discussing our future plans, most of which included the other.  We frequently talk about what we want out of life and what we feel we need and desire in a partner. I told him that one of the reasons we were together was because he had the…

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Added by MeaganElyce on July 9, 2014 at 12:11pm — 5 Comments

Ballerific Relationships - What is your Pocketbook Worth?

 

No ladies, not that over sized Michael Kors bag on your shoulder or that obnoxious (but very fashionable) leather MCM bag you’re currently rocking. I’m speaking of your “other” pocketbook. You know, the one between your legs that your big mama or auntie told you to never let anyone see it or touch it without permission.  What’s the price tag…

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Added by beinghershykissblogger on July 9, 2014 at 9:39am — 4 Comments

Why Don't We Talk Anymore? The Infamous Fade

We're all too familiar with this pattern. Either we dish it or we take it. So let's break this down.

We've all experienced the beginning stages. You know, replying to each other's messages with short response times even at obscure hours. Then over time, the text…

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Added by Miss Ambeur on June 28, 2014 at 11:01am — 1 Comment

Ending The Cycle: Dealing With Domestic Violence by:aarynndenise

As a domestic violence survivor, I have heard it all. Why did you let it happen? Why didn’t you just leave? Dealing with domestic violence is easy when you’re on the outside looking in. Nothing is as easy as it seems. 1.3 million- that is the number of women who become victims of physical…

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Added by Aarynn Denise on June 27, 2014 at 10:50am — 2 Comments

Ballerific Relationships - Just One of the Guys

Are you that girlfriend? You know, the one who wiggles her way into every boys night? You know well in advance that your man has plans and you were even nice enough to make his favorite snacks for the occasion. What he didn't know, is that you'd be right there eating them along with…

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Added by MsMaryMac on June 25, 2014 at 8:10am — No Comments

7 Signs You May Be A Gold-Digger By:@aarynndenise

The term gold-digger has been used for centuries to describe women who seek out partners of a certain level of wealth with the sole purpose of exploiting that person. Many people often relate this term to Kanye West’s 2009 song that states, “Now I ain’t sayin she a gold digger, but…

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Added by Aarynn Denise on June 21, 2014 at 8:44am — No Comments

Ballerific Relationships: "Sometimes YOU Have To Approach HIM" by @niksofly

So you are quirky...and to some that is the sexiest thing on earth. You don't exactly drip sex appeal, but somehow your nonchalance oozes it for you. You aren’t the body con dress and red bottoms type girl.  You have no problem garnering attention except when it comes to the dude you…

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Added by Niko Rose on June 19, 2014 at 3:20pm — 5 Comments

Ballerific Relationships - Laura Vs. Lauren

By now, you've probably caught a meme similar to this while browsing your timelines on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter. They are almost always so stupid that I can't help but laugh. I've come across ones that say things like 'Stop struggling with Brenda and get with Brad' or 'Leave Tyrone and Get you a…

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Added by MsMaryMac on June 16, 2014 at 1:14pm — 10 Comments

Ballerific Relationships - Failure to Launch

You meet a guy at a friend's gathering and the two of you hit it off quite nicely. Throughout the night you are mentally checking things off your list (the one you swear you don't have because you're so open to possibilities. Mmhmm, that list)and he appears to be the ideal prospect. You are…

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Added by MsMaryMac on June 16, 2014 at 1:30am — 3 Comments

Ballerific Relationships - "Asking questions" By:mane allure

Ladies, Do we ask the right questions when getting to know a man? I ask the question, because so many of us blame the man for our heartache and disappointments.

When your getting to know a guy that you’re interested in, we should treat it like a interview for a corporate position for your… Continue

Added by Maneallure on June 14, 2014 at 9:00am — 1 Comment

5 Things To Expect in an Interracial Relationship By: @Crowned__

5 Things to Expect in an Interracial Relationship

By: Destinee A. Hughes

 

Admit it; we’ve all had second thoughts about that cute white boy who winked at us in the grocery line, or that sexy trainer who kind of resembles the 1998 version of Brad Pitt.  I know I have – more than once. You can’t convince me Channing Tatum, Liam Hemsworth and Ryan Gosling aren’t heaven…

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Added by Destinee A. Hughes on June 14, 2014 at 8:40am — 5 Comments

Five Steps To Make A Man Lose Interest In You

We've all made the mistake of accidentally allowing a man to escape the friend zone and most times it was a bad decision. A lot of us have struggled with figuring out how to politely escort him to the friend zone in which he snuck out from and everything we've tried didn't work. You've tried telling him you…

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Added by Eleven8 on April 28, 2014 at 11:38am — 4 Comments

Ballerific Relationships - Polyamory: The New Monogamy?

 

Boy meets girl. Girl learns that Boy already has girlfriend/wife. Girl and Boy get together anyway. Girlfriend/wife learns about New Girl. Girlfriend/wife stays with Boy. New Girl stays with Boy too. Now Boy has Girlfriend/wife and New Girl. Is this cheating?

Traditional claims will say: Boy…

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Added by Lair Haven on April 7, 2014 at 2:12pm — 9 Comments

Should You Keep Gifts From Your Ex?

I'm sitting at work and I look up to find a teddy bear I received one Valentine's Day from a then boyfriend. We're not together now and haven't spoken in a very long time. This got me to thinking, what's the proper etiquette for moving on to the next? Is it okay to keep momentous from a…

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Added by Eleven8 on March 16, 2014 at 11:36am — 31 Comments

3 Secrets Scandalous Women Use to Seduce Rich or Powerful Men

Delilah seduced Samson.

Paula Broadwell conquered David Patraeus, leader of America's CIA!

"Hotwife" Heather Clem cuckolded her husband and lured Hulk Hogan and many other high profile sports personalities.

Karinne "Superhead" Stephans ensnared…

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Added by Lair Haven on March 13, 2014 at 3:52pm — 15 Comments

Guest Blog: For The Fellas," So You’ve Got Her... Now What?" by @imchrislewis

The biggest problem in a lot of relationships is the complacency that comes after you finally get the person that you’ve longed for. Often times we…

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Added by Eleven8 on March 12, 2014 at 1:28pm — 8 Comments

Your Baller Hasn't Called? He's Just Not That Into You--YET



He’s dead. At least figuratively. Think this way to help you cope when he doesn’t call. These men meet about 3-4 different eligible females per event or day. It’s most likely he took your number and can’t find it or remember which one you are.…

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Added by GetEmGirl on March 6, 2014 at 10:46am — 19 Comments

Ballerific Relationships: Your Man Wants A Threesome ....Or Else!!!

your baller wants a threesome

Have you ever been in this situation? You're with your man, you're digging him and seemingly he's digging you too. You get into a conversation about sexual fantasies and he brings up wanting a threesome. You tell him you'd consider it but the subject never came up again.

Well, at least you THOUGHT the subject wouldn't come up again. In fact, weeks (maybe months) later the subject arises again and again and this time your…
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Added by Eleven8 on February 11, 2014 at 1:19pm — 11 Comments

Curse of the Open Relationship By: @LadonisJadore

 

Being single just leaves more time for me and my friends to look back and laugh at old flings, while fantasizing & discussing the the foolery that we will not deal with from the men in our lives who do not exist at the moment. Our most recent debate was triggered by a tweet I saw from a…

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Added by Ladonis Jadore on January 15, 2014 at 9:00am — No Comments

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