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SIGNS THAT YOU HAVE A CONTROLLING MAN/BALLER....

Does he ask you to call him every time you make a move? Does he help you pick out your clothes? Does he talk about your friends he doesn't like? If your man does those things above...he is not worried about you he is trying to control you. Controlling relationships usually turn out really bad. If your man… Continue

Added by Boss/MadamBA on October 28, 2009 at 9:02am — 7 Comments

YOUR BALLER HAS DISAPPEARED....NOW WHAT?

You have been dating a wonderful man for about six months. You guys spend nights together..you go out on dates...and then all of a sudden he disappears. Most women want to know why? We want to know if he is in jail, hospital, or far worst dead. Most men are pussies and when they are not interested they will… Continue

Added by Boss/MadamBA on October 22, 2009 at 9:25am — 17 Comments

WHEN YOUR BALLER CHEATS...DON'T KILL HIM..WALK AWAY

Snapped on Lifetime is one of my favorite shows. Please don't ask me why. We have all snapped at one point in time. In one split second your anger can turn into a nightmare. I caught the Nikki Redmond story and it hit home. Nikki was a girl that was in love. A smart girl...she finished S… Continue

Added by Boss/MadamBA on October 9, 2009 at 8:13am — 35 Comments

Double Standard for Chosing a Wife Among "Veterans" of the Game?

With the recent uproar regarding Lamar Odom's, very open and very rapid, upcoming nuptials to Khloe Kardashian. Many are wondering just what did she do, say or whatever to land the heart of Odom in such a short amount of time, with such a long roster of her own trailing behind her. I'm not calling names her… Continue

Added by XIKhai on September 25, 2009 at 9:00am — 32 Comments

ARE BLACK WOMEN TO HARD ON MEN?

There are 1,000,000 single black women out there. It has to be a valid reason for this. Black men are dating outside of their race and the numbers are increasing. It has become more common to see a black man with a non-african american woman on his arm. I have a friend that recently divorced and he said if… Continue

Added by Boss/MadamBA on September 9, 2009 at 2:19pm — 38 Comments

Should You Stay or Leave?

One of the most explosive stories to rock the sports world came in 2003, when Kobe Bryant was charged with the alleged rape of a woman he met in Boulder Colorado while rehabbing his knee. Once all the facts came out, it was proven that Kobe didn't actually rape the woman, but he did admit to having unprotected co… Continue

Added by XIKhai on September 4, 2009 at 10:26am — 13 Comments

LET A MAN BE A MAN???

I was reading my Essence and it was an article about woman not letting men Wear The Pants written by a man. The women of today are very independent. We make our own money and do practically everything without a man..even making babies. I want to… Continue

Added by Boss/MadamBA on September 1, 2009 at 6:29pm — 46 Comments

DO YOU HUNT FOR A MAN?

Are women becoming desperate or smart? How far would you go to meet men? Blind dates? Clubs? Bars? Gym? I was reading a story in Essence about a lady name Neenah Pickett who launched a nationwide search to find her husband. She created a website. Now wit… Continue

Added by Boss/MadamBA on August 31, 2009 at 9:32pm — 16 Comments

How Soon is Too Soon?....FROM A MALE'S POINT OF VIEW

We have numerous forums asking How Long Should I Wait Before Giving Up The Goods? I asked my good friend Tommie Collins who writes about relationships on BET.com to help us out with this question. Here is what he had… Continue

Added by Boss/MadamBA on August 26, 2009 at 11:12am — 26 Comments

WHY DO MEN CHEAT?....FROM A BALLER'S POINT OF VIEW - PART 1

Since the first blog by a baller got your ladies so riled up...I have three wonderful ballers that are going to write blogs for us. They think the majority of us are clueless and want to lend a helping hand. LOL Check out one ballers opinion on why men cheat:

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Added by Boss/MadamBA on August 21, 2009 at 3:43pm — 33 Comments

WOMEN REALLY WANT MEN TO LIE.... (FROM A MALE'S PERSPECTIVE)

This blog is a spinoff of the blog 10 Reasons Why Your Baller Won't Call You Back. This blog was not written by the same man but another guy that read the blog and the comments. He is… Continue

Added by Boss/MadamBA on August 20, 2009 at 4:08pm — 52 Comments

WHY DO WE IGNORE THE OBVIOUS SIGNS? HE JUST DOESN'T LIKE YOU LIKE THAT....

Women ignore the obvious signs that men are just not into them. We usually try to analyze why they don't call..or why did they react this way. My daddy told me if a man really wants you...you will not be able to keep him away. We all try to make it is something that it is not...espec… Continue

Added by Boss/MadamBA on August 18, 2009 at 6:40pm — 21 Comments

10 THINGS HE'S THINKING WEN UR ARGUING

I found this article on msn.com and I thought it was intresting... What's going through your man's mind when you're in the middle of a huge blowout? They asked 10 Guys wat was going through their head . I always wanted to know wat dey stupid asses was thinkin lol 1.Avoidance Tactics "What fight? I tune it out." —Kyle, 30 2.Time to Move on? "I need a new girlfriend, one who doesn't fight with me." —Robert, 25 3.What Do Women Want? "Am I understanding… Continue

Added by AMillz on July 15, 2009 at 9:05pm — No Comments

Five I Love Yous That Don’t (Have To) Count

How many people have you said “I love you” to? If someone asked me that question, I wouldn’t know how to respond. I have managed to block out some of the love I may have spread over the years, just as some people shrink the number of people they’ve slept with. We’re not callous people here at The Frisky, but some of us have said that phrase when it shouldn’t have been said. Here’s when “I love you” doesn’t necessarily count. IT DOESN’T COUNT IF… 1. ...you were young and naive. You told your hi… Continue

Added by JustMe on July 14, 2009 at 12:52pm — 2 Comments

Why Be A Rebound?

This weekend, Jon Gosselin took his new girlfriend, 22-year-old Hailey Glassman, on a romantic trip to Europe. (FYI, Glassman is a different twentysomething woman than the one Gosselin cheated on his wife with.) Given the high-profile nature of Gosselin’s marriage, impending divorce, and, um, life, it’s hard to understand why anyone would be happy to be this guy’s, well, rebound. Is it just sex? Is Glassman hoping to get wined and dined with some of Gosselin’s “Jon & Kate Plus 8” dollars? Or… Continue

Added by JustMe on July 14, 2009 at 12:11pm — 3 Comments

Dating Don’ts: How Not To React When You Get Dumped

Last week, we covered how to avoid being a bad heartbreaker, so this week we’ll tackle the other side of things. Coincidentally, it’s a side of dating I’m far more familiar with: how to accept being dumped with dignity. Just as there are myriad ways to screw up breaking someone’s heart, the possibilities for botching a “getting-broken-up-with” are limitless. Here are some behaviors to avoid so you won’t compound your heartache with a total loss of self respect. 1. Attempting to argue him ou… Continue

Added by JustMe on July 14, 2009 at 12:04pm — 3 Comments

The Top 10 Things You Learn When You’re Heartbroken

While heartache pretty much sucks — especially the kind you can’t seem to get over — it can be a great learning experience. After the jump, the top 10 things you learn when you’re heartbroken. 1.How many nights you can really go without any sleep/ 2.Who your real friends are. 3.What chocolate cake tastes like for breakfast three days in a row. 4.How many guys in your neighborhood look just like your ex. 5.The meaning of “retail therapy.” 6.All the people who never really liked your ex. 7.How mu… Continue

Added by JustMe on July 14, 2009 at 12:00pm — 3 Comments

Five reasons he dumped you -- true or false?

Story Highlights Writer gets guy friend to tell true or false on why he dumped you excuses If a guy likes you, but doesn't love you, he will break up with you Guys do NOT break up with women because "they love you too much" He might break up with you because he's not finished playing the field By Amelia McDonell-Parry (The Frisky) -- I have a little problem. I tend to obsess over why a guy suddenly pulls "the fade" or ends things just as they're, seemingly, getting good. It's one thing i… Continue

Added by JustMe on July 14, 2009 at 11:00am — No Comments

Is narcissism keeping you single?

By Wendy Atterberry (The Frisky) -- It's no secret that people are getting married later these days than in previous generations, and in this culture of hook-ups and "modern female dating anxiety," we're at no loss for theories that explain why. Some people say today's twentysomethings are delaying marriage to focus on careers and build close friendships instead, but another explanation paints a less flattering picture of young people. Apparently, they're all just a bunch of narcissists. In an… Continue

Added by JustMe on July 13, 2009 at 12:27am — 5 Comments

"ASSHOLE"

I must admit your words were smooth & slick had my ass thinking I was the only chick! You had me thinking you were the truth and it was gone only be me & you. O how I was such a fool. You tell me I’m the only woman for you but you still manage to have a few others on the side. You said you would never lie....four minutes later a lie comes out of your mouth. You said you would never hurt me, just love me. Yeah whatever...Tonya & Kim told me you told them the same damn thing! You… Continue

Added by Dominique P. Smith on July 12, 2009 at 4:56pm — 3 Comments

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