For Women Who Want The Ballerific Life!
There I was, one Sunday evening, sweating out my perfectly laid edges, while I re-enacted a tradition I had observed from the women in my family (grandmother especially) for years: cooking for your man. Now this was no ordinary, microwaveable chicken fingers, boxed mac and cheese, and canned spinach…Continue
Does having a child change a boy into a man? Let's ask the fathers of Megaa, Royalty, Future, Bash, and King. Most of the fathers of these baller babies have somewhat put their extreme lifestyles on pause to take time to father their child. Sometimes life needs to give a man a good smack in the…Continue
How many sexual partners is too many when it comes to picking a girlfriend/ boyfriend? How about for a husband/ wife? Sex, in general, has ruined a lot of relationships and puts a stand-still on the "wifey" and "hubby" title, but what exactly is the number that means "You've been…Continue
How quick are we giving it up ladies? After three months? Six months? A year? How about throwing at him on the first night? Yup that's right I said it. Have you ever invited him back up to your room after the first night? Don't be shy, there's nothing to be ashamed of…Continue
Added by CrisdaCat on June 10, 2015 at 7:09pm — No Comments
I received a lot of negative feedback from the “I’m Independent “ women, regarding my last blog 5 actions a woman needs to see to trust you to lead her. Crazy thing is my blog was directed at the men that weren’t doing what they should…Continue
Is it ever O.K to cheat on your boyfriend or girlfriend? What about your husband or wife? Cheating in the dating world has becoming a little bit too common for my taste and it seems like its the O.K thing to do under "some circumstances."
In my personal opinion, I never found a…Continue
Women are complex and men are simple. That's the belief right? Well as difficult as it is for a man to understand a woman, women often cannot comprehend the way men think. Before understanding the way a man thinks, women are quick to be critical of the way a man behaves. While every relationship needs the "3 Big C's", Communication, Commitment, & Consistency, it is imperative to add a fourth "C", Comprehension.…Continue
One of the things that's damaging relationships today, is that it seems to appear women no longer want to be led by a man. I say "seems to appear" because as much as the independent movement and their actions show that they don't want to be led, deep down under that independent shell, no woman WANTS to be…Continue
From sending his handler to get your number to exchanging a few general text messages , you are sitting in your car stuck on what your next move will be with your BALLER (interchange whatever term that makes you comfortable) . You don’t want to…Continue
You have a special someone eh? You want to take them out on a date eh? You just checked your wallet and seven butterflies and lint just flew out eh? No worries, CrisdaCat has your back. It's Spring and love is in the air. There are several ways to enjoy your…Continue
When I meet a new guy, he usually suggests that we should hang out. I’m excited until he says that he just wanna come over to my house and chill. Uuuummmmm, oh hell no! Lately, people have been believing that coming over to my house and chillin is considered a date.…
One of the hardest challenges a woman can face is falling in love with a man who isn’t giving her any signs he wants to commit. Now we all have it in us, we all have our moment when we are a bit of a hopeless romantic when it comes to that particular guy. It’s “The Talk” that looms between every man and…Continue
The topic of marriage surrounds me daily. As a young, unmarried, childless woman, I am often a prime candidate for unsolicited but much needed advice from near and far.
“Marry who loves you more than you love them, you won’t go…Continue
Added by abrownbelleexchange on March 27, 2015 at 2:05pm — No Comments
We've all been in a situation when a man really likes you and you don't share the sentiment. Either he's someone you've always known or someone who just wants to get to know you, either way you're just not that into him and with a world full of crazies you want to let him down easy. I've compiled some good…Continue
Now that the dust has settled over the whole Khloe K, Amber Rose, Tyga, Blac Chyna, Kylie J Kanye West, & last but never least, Kim K. fiasco, social media war of words, let us take a deeper look into this drama and see what we can learn from this. I’m a firm believer that you can learn lessons from almost anything, if presented the right opportunity.
To catch you up on how…Continue
This blog is a spinoff of the blog 10 Reasons Why Your Baller Won't Call You Back. This blog was not written by the same man but another guy that read the blog and the comments. He is dedicating it to TopShelfChick especially.
Check it out:
I just got off the phone with a heated convo with my ex and the movie "A…
Passion is defined as a strong and barely controllable emotion. Fire, lust, passion, all of these equal what should be overwhelming sexual connection. But what happens when you meet someone in which your connection is so strong but there is no actual love? What happens when your connection…Continue
“She’s absolutely insane, she’s crazy. I swear she calls my job when I don’t answer my phone. I don’t even know how she got my office number! I caught her driving by my house when she lives 15 miles away! I live on a dead end!” These are the actual words from a male’s point of view describing what he…Continue
I thought this question was a no brain-er, but it turns out that the answer to this question may be a little more complicated than I expected. In having a conversation with two friends yesterday (one male and one female), we began to talk about how receiving gifts was a sign of love and affection and we…Continue
In today’s dating scene, it seems that a man’s finances often becomes the focal point. In…