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Ballerific Relationships - Polyamory: The New Monogamy?


Boy meets girl. Girl learns that Boy already has girlfriend/wife. Girl and Boy get together anyway. Girlfriend/wife learns about New Girl. Girlfriend/wife stays with Boy. New Girl stays with Boy too. Now Boy has Girlfriend/wife and New Girl. Is this cheating?

Traditional claims will say: Boy…


Added by Lair Haven on April 7, 2014 at 2:12pm — 9 Comments

Should You Keep Gifts From Your Ex?

I'm sitting at work and I look up to find a teddy bear I received one Valentine's Day from a then boyfriend. We're not together now and haven't spoken in a very long time. This got me to thinking, what's the proper etiquette for moving on to the next? Is it okay to keep momentous from a…


Added by Eleven8 on March 16, 2014 at 11:36am — 31 Comments

3 Secrets Scandalous Women Use to Seduce Rich or Powerful Men

Delilah seduced Samson.

Paula Broadwell conquered David Patraeus, leader of America's CIA!

"Hotwife" Heather Clem cuckolded her husband and lured Hulk Hogan and many other high profile sports personalities.

Karinne "Superhead" Stephans ensnared…


Added by Lair Haven on March 13, 2014 at 3:52pm — 15 Comments

Guest Blog: For The Fellas," So You’ve Got Her... Now What?" by @imchrislewis

The biggest problem in a lot of relationships is the complacency that comes after you finally get the person that you’ve longed for. Often times we…


Added by Eleven8 on March 12, 2014 at 1:28pm — 8 Comments

Your Baller Hasn't Called? He's Just Not That Into You--YET

He’s dead. At least figuratively. Think this way to help you cope when he doesn’t call. These men meet about 3-4 different eligible females per event or day. It’s most likely he took your number and can’t find it or remember which one you are.…


Added by GetEmGirl on March 6, 2014 at 10:46am — 19 Comments

Ballerific Relationships: Your Man Wants A Threesome ....Or Else!!!

your baller wants a threesome

Have you ever been in this situation? You're with your man, you're digging him and seemingly he's digging you too. You get into a conversation about sexual fantasies and he brings up wanting a threesome. You tell him you'd consider it but the subject never came up again.

Well, at least you THOUGHT the subject wouldn't come up again. In fact, weeks (maybe months) later the subject arises again and again and this time your…

Added by Eleven8 on February 11, 2014 at 1:19pm — 11 Comments

Curse of the Open Relationship By: @LadonisJadore


Being single just leaves more time for me and my friends to look back and laugh at old flings, while fantasizing & discussing the the foolery that we will not deal with from the men in our lives who do not exist at the moment. Our most recent debate was triggered by a tweet I saw from a…


Added by Ladonis Jadore on January 15, 2014 at 9:00am — No Comments

Ladies, Don't be the Clean-Up Girl!! by @beinghershykissblogger

Image Since I am technically single, and have been actively dating for about 5 years now I’ve come across a multitude of situations while dating different people.

One common thing I’ve personally come in to contact with is situation that requires a clean-up girl.

clean up girl, in my opinion is a woman who is dating a man who may not be at the best stage in his life, but you see the potential in him. So you stay around to…


Added by beinghershykissblogger on January 13, 2014 at 2:30pm — 4 Comments

Your Baller Wants To Keep It Undercover, What Do You Do?

Let's assume you and your Baller are seemingly in an exclusive relationship. He doesn't have any wives or girlfriends on the side (that you know of), he seems to be faithful to you, but he wants to keep your relationship undercover.


First thing that may come to mind is why? Well, let's go over a few reasons an innocent man would keep his relationship on the down low...


1) He has to protect his image: If your Baller's job…


Added by Eleven8 on December 11, 2013 at 9:42am — 7 Comments

Ballerific Relationships - Sex, Sex, Sex By Marvin Ady

When it comes to sex, men are simple beings. Satisfaction can come in the form of oral, vaginal and/or anal sex (hopefully on her). In a woman’s mind, all she has to do is make him orgasm. In many cases, she figures he’s going to bring himself to orgasm through penetration. Contrary to popular belief, men want…


Added by Baller Alert on December 4, 2013 at 12:00pm — 1 Comment

Ride Or Die, Or Just Plain Ole' Dumb? By: @LadonisJadore

Its always interesting to watch the relationship dynamics of others and look back at past relationships of your own. What I have always found most amusing is the female who will cancel their 7 year friendship in a heart beat over a 2nd grade crush who was never checking for her to begin with,…


Added by Ladonis Jadore on December 2, 2013 at 9:00am — 4 Comments

In A Relationship With A Single Man By:Ladonis Jadore

The only other trend I can say it just as old and tired as these Instagram boutiques that all sell the same dresses, is people agreeing to relationships that they have no plans on being in. We all know the female with the "bae" who is clearly single to everyone but them. The faithful user of…


Added by Ladonis Jadore on November 25, 2013 at 5:00pm — 6 Comments

Ask Andre George: My Longtime Boyfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married, What Should I Do?

Q: My boyfriend of 4 years told me he doesn’t want to get married. We broke up and I am beyond hurt. I don’t know what to do I thought I was going to marry this man. It hurts so bad do you have any advice? –Anonymous


A: I would love to credit…


Added by Eleven8 on November 4, 2013 at 9:00am — 14 Comments

Poor Ho, Rich Ho: Play Just Dumb Enough To Get Into His Pockets

I've been reading this book "Rich Ho, Poor Ho" for a few days. I've had it in my possession for a long time but work and life has kept me away from really reading it. I decided to break it open the other day and really figure out what it's about. To break it down as briefly as possible, it's written by a "Pimp"…


Added by Eleven8 on August 7, 2013 at 9:16am — 16 Comments

Ballerific Relationships: He Keeps Pulling You In...Then Shutting You Out...

What is it about a guy that seems uninterested that makes us want him more? What about the guy that says he's interested, but his actions say something totally different? I don't know what it is but we love a chase, and unfortunately, we kind of enjoy that little bit of heart…


Added by Eleven8 on August 2, 2013 at 10:49am — 11 Comments

The Engagement Is Off So Who Keeps The Ring?

One of the first things fought over is property, more specifically the ring. Who gets to keep it? Is it considered a gift?


If you ever get to sit around and watch court shows during the day, especially divorce court, women use the gift excuse very often. This leads me into my next…


Added by Eleven8 on July 27, 2013 at 9:14am — 6 Comments

He Cheated, You Stayed, He Cheated Again, Now What?

When you stick it out with a man who's cheating, do you forfeit your right to complain about his actions later?


Let's say you are in what you believe to be a serious relationship with a man. You find things that lead you to believe he's been unfaithful. You confront him about it and he admits that he's…


Added by Eleven8 on July 26, 2013 at 10:30am — 13 Comments

The Morning After...One Night Stands by Lair Haven


Eyes meet from a simple glance.  Glances turn into stares.  Stares lead to entrancement so the dance begins.  He moves closer to where you are.  You sway instinctively into the paths you hope that he crosses.  Like a well oiled pendulum, back and…


Added by Lair Haven on July 20, 2013 at 3:02pm — 3 Comments

How SHOULD Black Women Treat Black Men?

I never watched this episode when it originally aired but I did stumble upon this Youtube video while browsing Facebook. Me being the stubborn, hard headed, independentthinker that I am, I was ready to toss it out the window. The whole "be submissive" argument is stupid. It's dumb. It's…


Added by Eleven8 on July 20, 2013 at 2:53pm — 7 Comments

Think Like A Woman, Act Like A Woman

Whoever thought 'Think like a man, act like a lady' was a good idea secretly wanted you to be single all of your life. Any man that will admit to wanting a woman who thinks like him is probably admitting that he's interested in men. Men and women were made differently, it's not in the cards for us to…


Added by Eleven8 on July 14, 2013 at 1:39pm — 4 Comments

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B. Scott Loses Lawsuit Against BET

Started by Baller Alert in Talk Ish. Last reply by Brown Skin Beauty 7 minutes ago. 1 Reply

BET can dress its hosts however the hell it wants -- even if that means forcing a transgender person to dress like a man -- and that's why the judge threw out B. Scott's discrimination lawsuit.TMZ…Continue

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I usually date only white women...

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This isn't really for advice, just a recent story.I met this guy, we'll call him Tom. Tom is a divorced black 37 year old fire fighter with a 2 year old son and I spoke briefly on the phone and he…Continue

Mimi & Nikko Got Paid...

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Wayment?!?! WHAT? This fool chopped of his own Peen?

Started by Siren in Talk Ish. Last reply by DJ - A.K.A - DON_JUAN 2 hours ago. 15 Replies

A rapper who worked with members of the group Wu-Tang Clan cut off his penis and jumped from a second floor balcony in an apparent suicide attempt,…Continue

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