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If you’re over 35 or in your 40s, you may want to consider dating an “older” baller. These men are usually divorcées, have children and established businesses and wealth. They are looking for love again or at least some companionship. You don’t have to play games, you get to be his pretty, young…


Added by GetEmGirl on October 14, 2014 at 11:35am — 22 Comments

Should You Give Up On Your Baller?

You both talked, kicked it, have been in touch, even spent a night together, but you can’t quite pin him down. He’s always promising to call you back, but never does. He doesn’t call often. He likes to text mostly. When he does, it’s…


Added by GetEmGirl on September 6, 2014 at 5:13pm — 27 Comments


It is craazy how many women think they are not good enough because they don't have a FAT ASS or pretty (very pretty, please) face! Especially, young women. Folks talking about ASS this and that. I have a nice ass and appreciate it. It took me YEARS to make friends with it, but we are good now. You don't need a fat ass to get a baller.…


Added by GetEmGirl on March 22, 2014 at 10:11am — 23 Comments

Your Baller Hasn't Called? He's Just Not That Into You--YET

He’s dead. At least figuratively. Think this way to help you cope when he doesn’t call. These men meet about 3-4 different eligible females per event or day. It’s most likely he took your number and can’t find it or remember which one you are.…


Added by GetEmGirl on March 6, 2014 at 10:46am — 19 Comments


What to do when he calls—10 Things

Okay. This is where the hard part and MONEY comes in. Most of the tips are geared towards investment bankers, managing directors, hedge fund this or that. They have their own tastes. It takes time to look, feel, and smell good consistently. I would suggest doing all this ONLY if you are getting something for the time—like money or “help.” If you are getting nothing but beat in the mattress,…


Added by GetEmGirl on October 31, 2013 at 10:49am — 29 Comments

It's Monday - Do You Know Where Your Money Is?

Okay, so you met him. You got him. He’s giving you money here and there. You ask, he gives. You want, he buys. Good? Not really. Why? Because there’s always more.

You need to have him ‘sponsor’ you. Tell him what your monthly allowance is. Start high. Between 5-10K a month…


Added by GetEmGirl on October 14, 2013 at 9:38am — 38 Comments


Now, you all know how much work it is to do the research on these ballers—finding out where they eat, play, and party. You spend lots of money on looking good, preparing for the evening out, and many times, some of you leave empty-handed. Yes, no man, no number because some other…


Added by GetEmGirl on August 19, 2013 at 8:43am — 31 Comments


D*** gotta way of making the world seem brighter, and problems seem lighter….

1) Your legs muscles are stiff and you cannot touch your toes or raise your knees over your shoulders. (And it got nothing to do with the gym or how much you weigh. And if you’re getting boned on the regular, you don’t need the gym)

2) When you buy the 100 pack batteries from Costco. You know why!

3) You look for attention from…


Added by GetEmGirl on August 19, 2013 at 8:25am — 41 Comments

What You Should REALLY Be Doing This Weekend—5 Things

I don’t expect everyone to agree with me but there is an open secret that celebrities do not party on Fri, Saturday with the regular people, at least not locally. If they do, it’s a walk-through, and their on their way to the VIP exclusive event that nobody (but perhaps, Baller…


Added by GetEmGirl on May 18, 2013 at 11:57am — 13 Comments

Don't Sleep On The Man Who Wears The Suits ALL Day, Everyday

Ladies, do not sleep on the ballers who wear the suits ALL day, everyday. These are the ones on Wall Street (need not be physically there), making and pulling together deals and whatnot. Or whatever they do. Now, listen. It's true the glitz and lights of the music and film industry is cute and fun. But that's not where the LONG money is. Think about legacy, ladies. You need to have your own bread to pass on to your kids. You need to be…


Added by GetEmGirl on March 14, 2013 at 10:25am — 15 Comments

You WANT a Baller, Now What? The Alpha Female Way vs. The Chick's Way

Many of you have come to this site for ways to get a baller. Some of you have your baller already, and others want to upgrade.

Now, with all that said there are two ways of going about getting your baller. The Alpha-Female Way and The Chick Way. Which way are you going about it?

The Alpha Female Wants A Baller:

1. She leaves her job. She understands it is full-time work to snag a…


Added by GetEmGirl on March 5, 2013 at 8:48am — 21 Comments

30 Days To Get A BALLER! And You Don't Even Have To Leave Your House....

This is especially good for those of you chicks TIRED of going out and doing all the leg work to meet a baller! Afterawhile, the confusion, the rejection, the late nights, the sex can all feel the same with the same results--nothing but drama or just nothing. There are about 6 months left in the year to get you a baller you can settle down with. What are YOU gonna do?



Added by GetEmGirl on March 3, 2013 at 9:51am — 39 Comments

You Got A Baller, Now What?

So, you bagged him. This could mean several things: he called you, you went out on a date or you had sex. Let’s deal with what happens after you meet him.

Before I go on, this is really for chicks…


Added by GetEmGirl on April 27, 2012 at 9:50am — 45 Comments

So, Your Baller Left You A “Gift” This Weekend

It’s not the kind you like, but the kind that burns. Let’s be real. If you are out there laying down with ballers you need to pay attention to what Ms. Va-jay jay (what we will call her for all intended purposes of this article) is telling you. Think of her as your partner-in-crime. When she is down, you are down. When she is up, so are you. If she is not working, it can mess with your money and your prospects. Keep in mind: You don’t really…


Added by GetEmGirl on December 5, 2011 at 7:29am — 21 Comments

Your Girl Friends Are the Enemy!

Bonjour, Im blogging from Paris on a little "business". So please forgive the typos because their keyboards here are crazy!

So, before I get into it this may offend several females; others will know what i mean: Im gonna start with the basics: THE ALPHA FEMALE.

Like the male, the alpha female must be a leader at all times, not much so with her man but with other females and at work: this type of female is elusive;… Continue

Added by GetEmGirl on October 28, 2010 at 5:59am — 20 Comments


So, you must’ve read this weekend that allegedly Dwayne Wade and ‘em went to some Chinese massage parlor to get more than massages. Well, it was made into a big deal. Everyone knows what is up with those parlors has they have some right here in NYC. But the REAL PROBLEM is that the groupies cannot afford Beijing! They have to settle for the Asian chicks. This only means that the groupies gotta to start working and up that paper. You need… Continue

Added by GetEmGirl on August 4, 2008 at 12:30pm — 10 Comments



NYC baller Len Burnett is an industry veteran and highly successful entrepreneur with over 20 years of publishing experience. As a pioneer in the urban media space, Burnett has successfully launched seven major magazines and is a driving force in reaching the growing multicultural audience. Burnett was appointed group publisher of VIBE, the nation’s leading urban music and culture magazine, and its spin-off, VIBE VIXEN, the… Continue

Added by GetEmGirl on July 8, 2008 at 7:30pm — 3 Comments

Blog About Your Baller! Check Out This Chick's Story

Blogging about your baller can make you and him "famous" or at least be candidates for a book deal. You can even keep him mysterious or unseen. But in this white chick's case, she's letting everyone know how well she is living under the guise of doing it for the love. We know why she's really doing it! Her ass is bored sitting home with all that money, honey. Also, she bagged her baller when she was his personal trainer. (If you can't train,… Continue

Added by GetEmGirl on June 16, 2008 at 9:30am — 5 Comments

New York Golddigger's GoldMINE

Ballers at Tenjune

I am partial to this list because it is mostly white spots, depending on what you like it may or may not work for you, but you must understand that ballers hang out ANYWHERE. I have yet to meet one who thought a spot wasnt black enough...

I suggest hitting at least 2-3 of these spots. To me, Tenjune is the best on the list, and we all know about Butter. But this is not complete! Ladies, if you have a… Continue

Added by GetEmGirl on March 23, 2008 at 6:30pm — 4 Comments


Future's Tour Rider Reveals He Makes 145K For 45-Minute Show

Started by Asimplebijou in Talk Ish 15 hours ago. 0 Replies

TMZ has obtained #Future's rider from a show back in December and, well, it seems pretty standard, except maybe for the part where his donuts need to look a certain way.According to TMZ, the rapper…Continue

By @balleralert via @RepostWhiz app: Chris Brown To Donate $1 From Every Sale Of 'Royalty' To Children's Charity

Started by Asimplebijou in Talk Ish 15 hours ago. 0 Replies

#ChrisBrown has pledged to donate a $1 from every sale of his upcoming album #Royalty, named after his daughter, to a childr en's charity.The 26-year-old singer announced the news in a video posted…Continue

Adele's 25 Makes History, Sells 3.38 Million Copies In First Week

Started by Asimplebijou in Talk Ish 18 hours ago. 0 Replies

The first week numbers are in for #Adele's 25 and, according to Nielsen Music, the British singer's third album has sold an astonishing 3.38 million copies in the U.S. alone, making it the…Continue

Yusaf Mack Opens Up about His Sexuality

Started by Asimplebijou in Talk Ish yesterday. 0 Replies

#YusafMack, a Philadelphia boxer, was put on blast a few months back for possibly being gay. But now Mack has confirmed that he is gay and is specifically interested in #transsexual women. "I love…Continue

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