Words from Cassandra...

Why do women treat their p****** like it is the gates of heaven and nobody can get in without a VIP pass? I get sick and tired of hearing b****** talk about, "I can't have sex with him because we only been talking for a week." You are only doing this to save some mileage on your p**** for the next guy who comes along and…

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Words by Cassandra...



Since I've joined this site, I have seen a few questions asked about when and when not to call your baller so I am going to give you my input on when you should and when you should not call him and how to make him call you more.



First, let's say you meet a guy out somewhere (location does not matter) and you exchange numbers. You should be the one to take his number and send him a text with your…

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You know, a lot of s*** that you hear about yourself comes from b****** within your circle that you trust as your friends with your darkest secrets. I am simply writing this blog to advise you ladies to keep your circles as small as possible to avoid your business being out in the streets like that.



The girl in city high could not…

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It's time I come on here and give some pointers on some things. I been hearing a lot lately about chix getting caught up in their s***. It is very easy to be scandalous just as it is for a guy to be. All you have to do is KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT.



Myspace Facebook is a big factor in females getting caught up lately. Why are you on every dudes page commenting and posting comments…

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Lately I have been hearing a lot of speak about "that n**ga gay from fellow teammates and friends about a baller. Now we are thinking to ourselves "he is too fine to be gay, his homeboy/teammate probably just hating", or you think to yourself "why he talk to so many girls if he gay?" The answer is simple, he…

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Words from Cassandra...



I have been getting a lot of feedback from my blogs as well as messages and comments on my balleralert page. A lot of the comments are basically telling me that a man will never respect me and or will never wife me. So this brings me to my next blog, "HOE TO WIFEY."



I say hoe, because in so many words, that is what a lot of you are calling me. I don't take offense to that because that is what you have… Continue

Words from Cassandra

I was watching the interview on the main page of this site with Fat Joe when Baller Alert asked what do you consider to be a groupie. I must say that I loved Fat Joe for his answer. Why I gotta be a groupie because I go after a successful man instead of a broke ass man.



Do women… Continue

Its been a long time, since I left you, but I'm back! I have been watching the show Real Housewives of Atlanta marathon all day and it made me think of a few situations I have been in before similar to Kim's. This brings me to the topic of: "Messing with Married Men."



I know a lot of you do not agree with sleeping with married men, but they are perfect for my situation. I am not looking for love, I am looking for money. Married… Continue

Ladies, Ladies, Ladies!! I am about done with yall sending these men nude pictures of yourself. Cassie and Rihanna's private parts have been viewed by the world and you could be next.



Now I know some of you are desperate to keep your baller satisfied and will do anything to stay on his mind, so you might think sending him a nude picture of yourself is innocent and harmless when in reality it is the worst thing you could possibly do. He more than likely has… Continue

Hello ladies,



I've been asked a great question by a member who wants to know how to meet the ballers. I may have addressed this before but maybe not into great detail. So get your pen and paper and take notes.



We all know that its very hard to run into a baller at a grocery store or the mall so we flock to the clubs when its guaranteed they will be there. You heard the announcement on the radio "Come on down to Dream tonight, we got Carmello… Continue

Ladies, I know you want to marry a baller but its a recession and who has time for love? It is time to get that money honey!



A lot of women are still asking me, "Sandra, how do you do it" and I simply tell them "Stop trying to fall in love." Some of yall get confused and willy dilly in the head when you first meet a baller. You think because he approached you first that he might actually like you and take a chance to get to know you as wifey. You try so hard to… Continue

So lately these ballers have been wifing up these strippers who you ladies call "hoes/whores/sluts/nasty ass b******" because they are satisfying your favorite ballers every needs. These strippers are willing to go the extra mile if you know what I mean to get the baller hooked. Maybe you some of yall can stop knocking their hustle and take a piece of what they do and put it into your lifestyle since you are so worried on how to keep… Continue

So you talking to a few ballers and you think you have your s*** under control until one of them loud mouth mother suckas get to talking to his "baller friends" about how good your s*** is and they compare notes and start singing R.Kelly and Usher "Same GIrl." They try to play you and catch you up and you feel bad because they try to make you feel trashy for talking to more than one baller. Well let them mother f****** KNOW! GROUPIES/Hard… Continue

I get so damn tied of guys approaching me with their dicks. I don't need d*** in my life, strictly cash money! Your d*** is not going to pay my bills and your d*** is not the best in the world just like my p**** aint. I do know that p**** can't keep a man but what you do with your p**** can.



My advice to men is, if you was to spend some cash on a chick, your short ass d*** will start to look a little longer to her and she may want to give you the business for doing her favors and… Continue

I know I talk a big game, but I also stay true to my game. I do not deny anything I have done or have been a part of to get what I get. I have stripped, I have walked the streets of LA, and I have been involved with an escort service. I do not regret anything I have done because in the end I have what I have always wanted and I am happy with that. Does not matter how I got it, the end of the story is... I GOT IT!



When I go to the strip clubs with these ballers, I encourage them to… Continue

Don't be mad at me because I don't work and have a nice ass 2 bedroom condo that overlooks South Beach in the art deco district. Don't be mad at me because I drive a 2008 LUXURY car (just purchased 3 weeks ago). Don't be mad at me because I always get in VIP in every club I step into even if I am not in Miami. I am doing what every girl wish they can do, and that is to be ME! I don't have to lift a finger to pay a bill or make a living, because my boo's support me. Doing what I do pays off. So… Continue