You're The Side-Chick, Should You Expect A Gift This X-Mas?

The holidays are approaching us and although some of us may not want to admit it, it's going to be a lonely Christmas for a few side pieces. It's all fun and games until it comes to family time and the reality hits that he's going to spend all his time with them, with not even a "Merry Christmas" text for you. 

 

Due to the lack of quality time that you'll be receiving, is it okay to expect a gift during the holidays? Let's be honest, regardless of whether you're the main squeeze or just the other woman, he's kept you around thus far for a reason, right? He's proven that he's harvested some feelings for you, he's pretty much used you all year long to forget his stresses at home, shouldn't you be compensated for that? 

 

 

Frankly I think it's rude and out right inappropriate to not get a side-chick something for the holidays. At least if you haven't been fattening her pockets through the relationship, you should do something for her birthday and Christmas. It's common courtesy. Everyone knows that it's imperative that you keep the side-chick happy. Many relationships are ruined because a side-chick was scorned. If all it takes is a $50 pair of ear rings to thank a girl for her services, so be it. Would you rather spend a couple bucks or have the wife questioning why your phone has been ringing off the hook, where you've been going at night and "Who the f-ck is Sheila?!?!". Nope, didn't think so. Ask Herman Cain and Tiger Woods how simple life would've been had they just bought their side chicks a gift on Christmas. The ones they did take care of are the ones we've never heard from. Because she's silent.

 

 

Moral of the story is, although she can't have your time, a real man should spend a little money on her. At least give the side-chick that!

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Comment by PrettyPretty on December 2, 2011 at 12:52pm

Ummmm good question....I have only been the side chick once during the holiday and he most definitely looked out for me but if he didnt get me anything i would have been HEATED

Comment by MissBling on December 2, 2011 at 1:03pm

Yeah, if you a side chick and your 'man' doesn't get you anything for Christmas, you suck lol! This is when you're supposed to cash in. Gifts are supposed to make up for time not spent.

Comment by blackfujones on December 2, 2011 at 1:08pm

shiiiiit..if i had a side chick and she didnt come bearing gifts i'd be highly upset.

Comment by blackfujones on December 2, 2011 at 1:10pm

Most men/women know if they're out there on some other they get rid of the sides after black friday. Then they pick up a new stable at the xmas parties and new years eve parties for next yr

Comment by luvsmoochez on December 2, 2011 at 1:20pm

Yea it is imperative that the side-kick gets a gift. Like you said it makes the guys ife much easier and if she isnt that important he would have unloaded her before the holidays. But real talk...some of these newbies to the game don't expect much and will be sucking his d*ck on Xmas Eve and all they get is some nut in their mouth.

Comment by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on December 2, 2011 at 3:19pm

*waves church fan at bfu and luvsmoochez* Preach!

Comment by Baller Alert on December 2, 2011 at 4:34pm

The side chic must get a gift... it's a must!

Comment by AllyNWonderland on December 2, 2011 at 5:53pm

if he knows that he wants her to keep her mouth closed then he betta get her a gift...that's when a b-tch starts blackmailing and threatening n-ggas

Comment by Treasure on December 2, 2011 at 7:18pm

If she plays her part she and they have that understanding she already knows she will be receiving & thats a bad bish.........

Comment by Baller Alert on December 2, 2011 at 8:32pm

yup @ally

B**** be showing up at his door drunk... lol

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