The Real Reason Black Men Date White Women

If you've ever thought to ask yourself why black men date white women, don't worry this white girl and her boyfriend have it all figured out. Watch the video below and tell me if you agree.

Now that you have watched the video, do you think these reasons are true? Black men of BA, do you date outside of your race because you can't pull our hair in bed? Now, I don't know about you black women of BA, but my hair is sewn when it's not grown. You can pull it all day long and it's not going anywhere. Did I mention white girls wear weave too? I guess that makes her argument null and void after the first 30 seconds.

  

My issue with this video is it's blatant ignorance. I went on an hour long Twitter rant and I'm completely tired. I'm disappointed that the guy (as remedial as he comes off in this video) didn't think for one minute that this was NOT okay to say. He didn't stop her, in fact he laughed & encouraged her while giving her a few ideas and talking points. 

  

The white girl is just trash, obviously living in her parents house, with ideas about black women proving she clearly has no black friends. She views black men as a prize that black women don't appreciate, citing stupid things that she heard on TV or some comedy show as valid reasons. You can't say black women don't hold black men down, when you have a majority of black women visiting their men of ANY race in prison several days a week. You have Tiny nearly losing her own freedom when T.I. was arrested, you have far too many black women being "down" to a fault.

  

How can you say black women only want black men when they have money, when we're they ones they are with untilthey have money? Ever heard of the saying "When he get on he'll leave your ass for a white girl"? Kanye went from Alexis to Kim Kardashian, so who's not down? She goes on to say that black women want men to do everything for them, but white women are more 50/50. Listen here Susie, just because you choose to let him drive your parents Beamer and pay for all your dates doesn't mean you are more appreciative of him. It means that black women are just a little more aware of our value. Every woman should know her worth and I know many white woman who do as well. When you know your worth, you attract what you deserve. So if you're out here giving him money and you're not getting any back Ms. White Girl, you are his sugar mama, this isn't a 50/50.

  

And then it's the infamous attitude argument. Black women have attitudes and thats why black men don't want us. If this true, keep in mind that black men were raised by this attitude all their lives. If we all have attitudes, you should be used to it, right? If all black women have attitudes, why is it that latin men and white men can't get enough of us? Does the attitude excite them? I need an explanation.

  

In the entire video a million and one ignorant things were said. The saddest part is that the young black man, child of a black woman, didn't see anything wrong with what he said. He even argues that we knock our own race every day so we shouldn't be mad when someone else does it. He says, when Chris Rock does it, it's okay, why isn't it okay for Peggy Sue. He continues to say that if you are a strong black woman you wouldn't be offended.  I hope he realizes that Peggy Sue truly believes what she is saying. This video isn't called "Why black men don't date hood rats" or "Why black men only date strong black women", its about why black women aren't preferred over white women PERIOD! This has nothing to do with strong black women because never once did the video mention strong black women. Strong black women wear weaves, strong black women put up with bullsh-t and on the other side, won't. Where is the strong woman in this video? I wonder how his mother, aunts, grandma and sisters feel about this video. Amanda Jane won't be attending any of his family functions, I'm sure. 

 

Black women, we're not undesirable. Black men and black women date and marry every day. Don't believe me, ask Jay Z and Beyonce, Will & Jada, Gabby & Dwyane etc. Black men want us and for those that don't think we're "worthy", who cares, we don't want or need them anyway. We're so down for black men that we forget there are a million and one other races out there that adore everything about us. Our curves, our lips, hair and dark skin are so desired by other races that others go to the extremes of surgery to be just like us. Men desire us so much that they will trip over themselves to get at us. I see it all the time, a dark skin black woman of 100% african decent having NO issues getting a man in a world that supposedly favors the racially ambiguous. So Susie Q, next time you think to answer why black men date white girls, get some better black people around you. You're clearly a white girl lost. 

  

To answer the question: Why do black men date white women? Same reason I date black men, white men, latino men, asian men, indian men. Because you can and true love has no color. Skip all the stereotypes. You can find the man behind this video @jwadgallery still unaware he did anything wrong.

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Comment by Eleven8 on April 11, 2012 at 11:52am

@goldfinger that is a great way of thinking about it and thats the theory i'm adopting from here on out.

Comment by Siren on April 11, 2012 at 11:59am

@goldfinger You are speaking the damn truth:

 

It's the level in which a woman will hold their man accountable towards meeting their relationship needs that varies from woman to woman.  Many dudes are lazy and want to take the easy way in regards to dating.  IF they can find someone that essentially let's them have their cake and eat it too....that's where they go.  By the sheer fact that there are more white people in the U.S., a black dude will find a white chick that meets his accountability (or lack thereof) requirements more readily than a black woman.  Race IMO has nothing to with it.  Just alotta weak brothers.

Comment by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on April 11, 2012 at 12:41pm

Now Goldfinger hit on something. I never looked at it that way. And Ms. Boibye made me holla. lol

Comment by Skytz0100 on April 11, 2012 at 12:54pm

Good job Goldfinger! Loved that response and well put!

Comment by Lovelymeeh on April 11, 2012 at 2:06pm

ACtually,she does have black friends. In her "apology" video, she stated that many were mad at her and not speaking to her right now. The irony.

Comment by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on April 11, 2012 at 2:16pm

Lovelymeeh, she knows of some black people. If they were her friends she never would have made this video.

Comment by isntshelovely25 on April 11, 2012 at 2:30pm

I tried to watch the video but only got through 2 mins. I am disgusted.

The REAL reason (some) black men date white women is because you are easy to walk all over. I can't even count how many times I've been out and seen an interracial couple and as soon as ol' white girl turned her back, her BLACK man was eyeing me. Which further proves that he's probably cheating on your ass with a black woman; therefore, he is unfaithful. You can have that. 

The black men that date white women do not seek a challenge. If you were paying for my Jordans, letting me drive your whip, call you when i feel like it,  I'd use your ass too. He probably doesn't take you seriously for the long-term.

I'd love to see this story a few years from now, when she's a babymama stuck with a bi-racial baby that she doesn't know how to raise. Just because he's black, does not mean he's a good man, boo-boo. 

Have a seat. 

Comment by DB on April 11, 2012 at 3:12pm
To the poster who said the girl in the video has black friends, yes she probably does. She probably hangs out with them, they all keke when she rolls her neck and says the n word. All of the ignorance from this girl is expected, she's clearly trying desperately to defame black women because deep inside her pathetic soul she's scared to death her boo will go back to the dark side lmao I have a group of people I hang out with occassionally for good times and I've observed their little rainbow coalition.. The Black guys call the white people the n word repeatedly, date white girls who have no issues with being talked down to and ignored when i come in the room and constantly tell their white girl of the week why she's better than any black girl.. That is until I came in the picture and shut every stereotype they ever had of black women down. Hair down my back that grows from my head, slim with a body, flawless complexion, and I'm cool as hell to hang out with (no attitudes from me) so now what do those same negroes say? Constantly Praise me in front of their girls and tell me I'm wife material.. Needless to say, She doesn't have s*** to worry about because black women like me aren't checking for some submissive ass man with no opinion of his own.. Not offended negro, ashamed for your Thin mint ass
Comment by Ms. KissyFace on April 11, 2012 at 3:20pm

There are two kinds of men that date outside of their race. There are the ones who don't care about race and the ones that do. The ones that care about race are doing it out of insecurities. I don't care who you date but do you really have to slander a whole race and gender while doing it. Women of all races are having issues with themselves and their men, it isn't just a black thing. Don't believe that hype. 

Comment by C*u*t*e on April 11, 2012 at 3:44pm

It's a difference between being attracted to beauty and purposely picking a race. I've dated outside my race because of attraction. This video is them trying to find justification in them wanting to only date white women and black men. Anytime you can think of a reason why or why not to date a certain race you're foul

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