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The Real Reason Black Men Date White Women
If you've ever thought to ask yourself why black men date white women, don't worry this white girl and her boyfriend have it all figured out. Watch the video below and tell me if you agree.
Now that you have watched the video, do you think these reasons are true? Black men of BA, do you date outside of your race because you can't pull our hair in bed? Now, I don't know about you black women of BA, but my hair is sewn when it's not grown. You can pull it all day long and it's not going anywhere. Did I mention white girls wear weave too? I guess that makes her argument null and void after the first 30 seconds.
My issue with this video is it's blatant ignorance. I went on an hour long Twitter rant and I'm completely tired. I'm disappointed that the guy (as remedial as he comes off in this video) didn't think for one minute that this was NOT okay to say. He didn't stop her, in fact he laughed & encouraged her while giving her a few ideas and talking points.
The white girl is just trash, obviously living in her parents house, with ideas about black women proving she clearly has no black friends. She views black men as a prize that black women don't appreciate, citing stupid things that she heard on TV or some comedy show as valid reasons. You can't say black women don't hold black men down, when you have a majority of black women visiting their men of ANY race in prison several days a week. You have Tiny nearly losing her own freedom when T.I. was arrested, you have far too many black women being "down" to a fault.
How can you say black women only want black men when they have money, when we're they ones they are with untilthey have money? Ever heard of the saying "When he get on he'll leave your ass for a white girl"? Kanye went from Alexis to Kim Kardashian, so who's not down? She goes on to say that black women want men to do everything for them, but white women are more 50/50. Listen here Susie, just because you choose to let him drive your parents Beamer and pay for all your dates doesn't mean you are more appreciative of him. It means that black women are just a little more aware of our value. Every woman should know her worth and I know many white woman who do as well. When you know your worth, you attract what you deserve. So if you're out here giving him money and you're not getting any back Ms. White Girl, you are his sugar mama, this isn't a 50/50.
And then it's the infamous attitude argument. Black women have attitudes and thats why black men don't want us. If this true, keep in mind that black men were raised by this attitude all their lives. If we all have attitudes, you should be used to it, right? If all black women have attitudes, why is it that latin men and white men can't get enough of us? Does the attitude excite them? I need an explanation.
In the entire video a million and one ignorant things were said. The saddest part is that the young black man, child of a black woman, didn't see anything wrong with what he said. He even argues that we knock our own race every day so we shouldn't be mad when someone else does it. He says, when Chris Rock does it, it's okay, why isn't it okay for Peggy Sue. He continues to say that if you are a strong black woman you wouldn't be offended. I hope he realizes that Peggy Sue truly believes what she is saying. This video isn't called "Why black men don't date hood rats" or "Why black men only date strong black women", its about why black women aren't preferred over white women PERIOD! This has nothing to do with strong black women because never once did the video mention strong black women. Strong black women wear weaves, strong black women put up with bullsh-t and on the other side, won't. Where is the strong woman in this video? I wonder how his mother, aunts, grandma and sisters feel about this video. Amanda Jane won't be attending any of his family functions, I'm sure.
Black women, we're not undesirable. Black men and black women date and marry every day. Don't believe me, ask Jay Z and Beyonce, Will & Jada, Gabby & Dwyane etc. Black men want us and for those that don't think we're "worthy", who cares, we don't want or need them anyway. We're so down for black men that we forget there are a million and one other races out there that adore everything about us. Our curves, our lips, hair and dark skin are so desired by other races that others go to the extremes of surgery to be just like us. Men desire us so much that they will trip over themselves to get at us. I see it all the time, a dark skin black woman of 100% african decent having NO issues getting a man in a world that supposedly favors the racially ambiguous. So Susie Q, next time you think to answer why black men date white girls, get some better black people around you. You're clearly a white girl lost.
To answer the question: Why do black men date white women? Same reason I date black men, white men, latino men, asian men, indian men. Because you can and true love has no color. Skip all the stereotypes. You can find the man behind this video @jwadgallery still unaware he did anything wrong.
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Comment by Baller Alert on April 11, 2012 at 10:26am -
She is definitely trash.. and this dude needs to be slapped by his mother.
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Comment by Phoenix on April 11, 2012 at 10:31am -
Damn. Read them their rights! I didn't even watch the video and i was shaking my head at all the points you said they listed. I was just approached by a young white guy with all his s*** together last week. The man has text/called me every day since then. People are so ignorant. smh.
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Comment by Baller Alert on April 11, 2012 at 10:36am
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What black woman would want this cornball of a man? He is corny raggedy boots..
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Comment by Sissy on April 11, 2012 at 10:47am -
I'm sorry Eleven, I didn't even waste my time watching the video. I'll say what I always say to any black man, white woman- or whoever starts with this b******* conversation...GO!! All strong black men I know, understand and appreciate the value of a black woman. (whether they're in a relationship with one or not)
This fool is so ignorant and stupid that he doesn't even realize that by insulting us, she's insulting HIM- right in his face. Oh...and maybe someone should tell that white chick how her white daddy is probably tricking on a BLACK woman somewhere.
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Comment by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on April 11, 2012 at 11:06am -
Won't waste time watching the video. But ***YAWN*** this is getting old. If they find joy, entertainment, excitement or feel empowered from posting ish like this more power to them.
Life is too short to make this the topic of the day or have this mess with my soul.
SN: will they make a video when she calls him a N or he's in jail for 'allegedly' slapping her around?
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Comment by Siren on April 11, 2012 at 11:15am -
I'm with Sissy & Old Spice...the fact of the matter is I know more black men that WON'T date any other women other than black women than I do those that don't date us at all. We need to stop giving these self loathing negroes and botter becky's our attention. Everyone has an opinion damn sure doesn't make it true. Both of these parasites can go crawl baxck into the holes they dropped out of. Most of the people that waste their time spewing this ignorance I would not be bothered with in real life I won't be bothered with them online either
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Comment by Eleven8 on April 11, 2012 at 11:16am -
I definitely encourage y'all to watch the video.
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Comment by DJ - A.K.A - DON_JUAN on April 11, 2012 at 11:30am -
sorry i cant watch anymore of these videos. lol s*** is so old
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Comment by goldfinger on April 11, 2012 at 11:47am -
I watched the video...it was lame.
In general, i don't care what race a person dates 'cause it's hard to find/maintain happiness within any relationship. If they are able to do it interracially...kudos to them.
Me??? I've never dated a white chick, so I can't speak from that angle. What I've found is that a woman will expect stability from her man if they are going to be in a relationship. That means the man will need to be responsible...financially, emotionally, physically, etc. It's the level in which a woman will hold their man accountable towards meeting their relationship needs that varies from woman to woman. Many dudes are lazy and want to take the easy way in regards to dating. IF they can find someone that essentially let's them have their cake and eat it too....that's where they go. By the sheer fact that there are more white people in the U.S., a black dude will find a white chick that meets his accountability (or lack thereof) requirements more readily than a black woman. Race IMO has nothing to with it. Just alotta weak brothers.
The hair/weave excuse is just ridiculous.
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Comment by Ms. BoiBye on April 11, 2012 at 11:49am -
Only watched the first 2 mins. That is her opinion and probably the opinion of her dumb ass friends. She can have all the black men she want. I will take her white man and his bank acct any day over dealing with another black man with angry black man syndrome in a second, LOL! Girl Bye!!!!
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