The Real Reason Black Men Date White Women

If you've ever thought to ask yourself why black men date white women, don't worry this white girl and her boyfriend have it all figured out. Watch the video below and tell me if you agree.

Now that you have watched the video, do you think these reasons are true? Black men of BA, do you date outside of your race because you can't pull our hair in bed? Now, I don't know about you black women of BA, but my hair is sewn when it's not grown. You can pull it all day long and it's not going anywhere. Did I mention white girls wear weave too? I guess that makes her argument null and void after the first 30 seconds.

  

My issue with this video is it's blatant ignorance. I went on an hour long Twitter rant and I'm completely tired. I'm disappointed that the guy (as remedial as he comes off in this video) didn't think for one minute that this was NOT okay to say. He didn't stop her, in fact he laughed & encouraged her while giving her a few ideas and talking points. 

  

The white girl is just trash, obviously living in her parents house, with ideas about black women proving she clearly has no black friends. She views black men as a prize that black women don't appreciate, citing stupid things that she heard on TV or some comedy show as valid reasons. You can't say black women don't hold black men down, when you have a majority of black women visiting their men of ANY race in prison several days a week. You have Tiny nearly losing her own freedom when T.I. was arrested, you have far too many black women being "down" to a fault.

  

How can you say black women only want black men when they have money, when we're they ones they are with untilthey have money? Ever heard of the saying "When he get on he'll leave your ass for a white girl"? Kanye went from Alexis to Kim Kardashian, so who's not down? She goes on to say that black women want men to do everything for them, but white women are more 50/50. Listen here Susie, just because you choose to let him drive your parents Beamer and pay for all your dates doesn't mean you are more appreciative of him. It means that black women are just a little more aware of our value. Every woman should know her worth and I know many white woman who do as well. When you know your worth, you attract what you deserve. So if you're out here giving him money and you're not getting any back Ms. White Girl, you are his sugar mama, this isn't a 50/50.

  

And then it's the infamous attitude argument. Black women have attitudes and thats why black men don't want us. If this true, keep in mind that black men were raised by this attitude all their lives. If we all have attitudes, you should be used to it, right? If all black women have attitudes, why is it that latin men and white men can't get enough of us? Does the attitude excite them? I need an explanation.

  

In the entire video a million and one ignorant things were said. The saddest part is that the young black man, child of a black woman, didn't see anything wrong with what he said. He even argues that we knock our own race every day so we shouldn't be mad when someone else does it. He says, when Chris Rock does it, it's okay, why isn't it okay for Peggy Sue. He continues to say that if you are a strong black woman you wouldn't be offended.  I hope he realizes that Peggy Sue truly believes what she is saying. This video isn't called "Why black men don't date hood rats" or "Why black men only date strong black women", its about why black women aren't preferred over white women PERIOD! This has nothing to do with strong black women because never once did the video mention strong black women. Strong black women wear weaves, strong black women put up with bullsh-t and on the other side, won't. Where is the strong woman in this video? I wonder how his mother, aunts, grandma and sisters feel about this video. Amanda Jane won't be attending any of his family functions, I'm sure. 

 

Black women, we're not undesirable. Black men and black women date and marry every day. Don't believe me, ask Jay Z and Beyonce, Will & Jada, Gabby & Dwyane etc. Black men want us and for those that don't think we're "worthy", who cares, we don't want or need them anyway. We're so down for black men that we forget there are a million and one other races out there that adore everything about us. Our curves, our lips, hair and dark skin are so desired by other races that others go to the extremes of surgery to be just like us. Men desire us so much that they will trip over themselves to get at us. I see it all the time, a dark skin black woman of 100% african decent having NO issues getting a man in a world that supposedly favors the racially ambiguous. So Susie Q, next time you think to answer why black men date white girls, get some better black people around you. You're clearly a white girl lost. 

  

To answer the question: Why do black men date white women? Same reason I date black men, white men, latino men, asian men, indian men. Because you can and true love has no color. Skip all the stereotypes. You can find the man behind this video @jwadgallery still unaware he did anything wrong.

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Comment by Mama Dragon Slayer Puss on April 14, 2012 at 4:04am

Ugh, Kirk, just let me say that first, No black woman is intimidated by losing you all to white women. We may speak on the issue, but I honestly feel most of us don't mind yall going to the white girls, if that is what you WANT. The white girls that chase yall can have ANY ONE OF YALL that she can catch. You guys, the black men that try to provide reasons as to why yall go to white women, are FULL of excuses. And that s*** is lame. You wrote that the white girl will help you get your credit right and will help a black man get his act together. You also wrote that we will complain about the money you guys bring home, and expect it to be spent on us. In my opinion, I don't think it is ANY woman's job to help a man of any color get his act together  and clean up his credit. If the white girls help you do that then good for you. I honestly expect the man I choose to come to me with his basics taken care of. As the leader I want him to be and desire to have in my life, his credit should be cool and his act should be straight before, long before he met me. It is personal responsibility, and when yall mess up your credit and can't get right, all of a sudden it's the black woman's fault because she won't help you fix YOUR LIFE, and the white woman is revered because she came in and put a bandaid on the fact that YOU are irresponsible. To each his own, but my leader can not be irresponsible. Where will that lead me and MY family?? Next, you wanna talk about the money you bring home. If the money you make is not enough to cover your personal living expenses, rent, electricity, food, cell, basic ish, HOW IN THE HELL DO YOU FEEL OK BRINGING THAT LIL ISH TO A WOMAN THAT IS TRYING TO RUN A HOUSEHOLD? Why should the black woman support you because you are not responsible enough to AT LEAST make enough money to TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF? Why is she wrong for demanding that you bring more money into the household? If you don't bring it, where else will it come from? Should she get a second job??? or should you get a better one??? You black men who run to the white chicks are full of excuses, and if she has you then she has little value for herself. AND she can keep you. I see PLENTY dust bucket white chicks with their dust bucket black men, and I am sorry but the dust bucket life is not for me.

Comment by Creative Bee on April 16, 2012 at 1:17am

 Kirk had me in tears with his first grade writing style. Not trying to be mean, but you can date whoever is riding with you on that short yellow bus lol 

Back on topic, I think like attracts like regardless of color. These two in the video are the perfect match made in heaven, so let them be. 

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