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Jennifer Williams took it to her personal blog titled So Much Hate to talk about why she "eased" away from her friend Nia Crooks, the condescending comments about her two bedroom apartment, and cleaning up why she stated she did not live with Nia.
And the BS continues… I honestly could not stomach to watch last week’s episode. I had lived through the craziness and to relive it was just too much for me. But I would like to clarify a few things. First up, I never had an issue with “the assistant” up until that day. At one point, we were good friends. We went out together, went to dinner, stayed at each other’s houses and shared plenty of good times and laughs. There had been some incidents leading up to why I started pulling away from the friendship but I don’t feel the need to blast that information. However, the most important reason why I eased up on the friendship is because she started working for someone who refers to themselves as my “enemy.” To me being good friends would just cause the situation to be messy so I rather fall back. No love lost and I like I said, I didn’t have any issue with her until she put her hands on me.Ok now let’s get to the foolery… AGAIN!!! I just find it so unfortunate someone I once called a friend has no respect for me and felt the need to violent me physically. So of course after you completely disrespect me by putting your hands on me, my mouth is going to get reckless. I am not happy for the things I said to her but I was caught off guard and left in a vulnerable state. The 2-bedroom apartment comment got taken way out of context. I live in a 2-bedroom apartment so why would I look down on her for that. My point was don’t act like I lived with you when you live in a 2 bedroom apartment with a roommate. There would be no room for me and all my stuff that barely fits in my 2-bedroom apartment in NJ. The whole attack against me was pointless. Okay, we aren’t friends no need to fight about it let’s all be mature adults and move on. People come into your life for a reason, season or a lifetime. I wish it didn’t have to be this way, it makes me sad but that is life.
I did what I felt was right by filing a police report and having my attorneys handling the situation. I am an entrepreneur and a mature adult. Who fights at this age? I was taught to let the authorities handle criminals. Having graduated with a degree in Political Science and a concentration in Pre-Law, I am fully aware of my legal rights and the justice system. If you put your hands on someone, there will be repercussions. End of story…
For the record, I have changed. I am striving to be an independent woman and I am building a future for myself. I have zero time or tolerance for BS. I am not sitting around waiting for a man to take care of me. Lucid is 100% mine; I built it from the ground up. No licensing deal or I am a paid spokes model. I don’t sit around and knock what my cast mates are trying to do business wise. Be a leader and not a follower, no one was thinking about the cosmetic industry until way after Lucid. At the end of the day, I find it all unfortunate that I am the constant topic when it comes to hate and no one can uplift one another. Fame has never been a weakness of mine but by watching this show I can’t say the same for all the ladies. I just hope everyone can recognize what is really important in this life because Basketball Wives will not always be the HOT thing… Then what???
Special thank you to my legal team, Corey Boddie, Sanford Rubenstein and Sabrina Puglisi also my publicist, Elizabeth Traub and my manager, Deanna Morales. And thank you to all my family and friends who have been so supportive of me during all this craziness. I cannot forget my loyal viewers, much love.
“Many walk in and out of our lives, but only those who leave footprints really matter.”- Unknown
Comment by Yolanda Davis on April 25, 2012 at 12:45pm That's how a grown ass women should handle things.
Comment by Tracy on April 25, 2012 at 1:09pm Jennifer cannot hold herself as being above the nonsense, but yet engage in it. Had she handled the entire situation differently, it would have never come to her getting touched at all. If she knew Nia, so well, she should have known not to call her bluff.
She's so above all the cattiness, yet in her blog she's still making digs at Evelyn. Leave the heifer alone and she'll leave you alone.
Evelyn is heated for whatever reason and Jennifer keeps blowing the embers.
Comment by MS. UCAN NEVA GET ENUFF!! on April 25, 2012 at 1:23pm @ Tracy - how should she have handled it? I haven't seen the episode but how can you control what someone else does?
Comment by Siren on April 25, 2012 at 1:31pm @MUNGE I think what Tracy is saying is that she knows their triggers and what sets them off. Like for instance as a woman we know what men we can get "mouthy" with and they won't say a word the same we know NOT to say anything cray to another dude because he may take your head off.
Comment by paperchaser on April 25, 2012 at 1:34pm THIS WHOLE S*** IS STUPID
Comment by JustMe on April 25, 2012 at 1:48pm lol at people who think this woman can't say things to the buttons of the others when her back is against the wall. i'm like Jen, if you're f*****' with me then i'm gonna call you out, bottom line. maybe if they keep her name out of their mouth then she wouldn't have to say things that push their buttons. i'm not taking anyone's side but i'm sure who ever is hanging around with Evil's ass (evelyn) then she has poisioned them their minds likes she did both suzie and jenn. Evil gets paid to be the devil and she will continue to do so. i hope chad's baby momma or mommas (idk, i don't really follow him) drops off ALL THOSE KIDS TO HER OLD LOOKING ASS. lolololol...now that'll make some damn good tv! i can see the title now "baller step baby momma". hell yeah, i would love to watch her ass go crazy behind some lil kids.
Comment by Tracy on April 25, 2012 at 3:27pm I haven't seen the episode in it's entirety, but like Siren said - you know who's buttons you can push and how. BUT just like your saying - you cant control other people's actions only your own....so you dont tell someone to slap you if you're not prepared to fight.
I've been confronted by people that were way madder than I was, but I wasn't going to fight them. What's the point? They can say all they want and for the most part I ignored them. But had I kept at it - I'd have had more than one brewhaha - over stupid ish. If you're going to be above, then be above. I could respect her more, if she had never allowed herself to get caught up and then wrote a blog like I'm a grown a## businesswoman what I look like fightin'? It's not like Nia attacked her off guard - if I tell someone to hit me, might expectation is to be ready to whoop somebody's ass.
@Tracy...true dat, you are correct. Don't welcome a fight if you're not prepared to fight.
Comment by Sissy on April 25, 2012 at 4:06pm I'm sorry but I just can't take her seriously. She's up in NY now for the draft and trying to be all in these NFLers faces lol. So pitiful
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