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"About 2 years ago I was dealing with a very well known athlete who's married and long story short things fell off and we stopped talking. Now when it happened, I was mad about how he really went about doing it. He cut off my money and didn't pay my rent and really just played me so I made a fake fb page and wrote his wife, fwd pictures of him in EXTREMELY compromising situations and so on. Once I knew she received it, I deleted the page. He never confronted me, until now.
Two years later, a mutual friend told me his wife left him 2 months ago and moved back with her parents. I got a phone call from her last week saying she wanted to meet with me. NOW I have changed my number since the whole incident and the ONLY person that has it is that one mutual friend. The baller doesn't even have it. I haven't spoken with him in 2 years, I know I'm not the only person he cheated on her with but my thing is, WHY does she want to talk to me!?! It has been 2 years! I don't know what she wants to meet with me for, I don't owe her anything I feel. But I'm so uncertain. I don't know if she's planning a trip back to town or what, but its just a "coincidence" I find out she left him 2 months ago and NOW she wants to meet. I'm sure the mutual friend is being messy but I don't know why."
Well reader, I can definitely say that you left the gate wide open when you sent the wife pictures and made it obvious it was you. Even though it's been two years, some things people don't easily get over. Being cheated on by your husband is one of those things. She may have a lot on her mind right now and just wants to know why he chose to cheat. She may also want to beat the breaks off of you so tread lightly. Visiting with her is completely up to you. Know that if you do meet with her, the possibility of drama will come along with it. If you're comfortable knowing that, make sure you don't meet with her alone.
I do suggest speaking with her for the sake of her sanity and your own. Speak with her over the phone. Explain to her that you are very busy with a schedule that will not allow for you guys to meet but you are more than happy to answer any questions. Phone conversations allow for you to be in total control of what information you divulge. If she starts acting catty you can always just hang up.
What do you think this reader should do? Any advice?
Comment by Kedrick Evans on August 20, 2012 at 5:52pm You invited this conflict when you attempted to sabotage his Marriage by sending compromising pictures. Oaky, he cut your finances and believe it or not, that's what happens when you get Dismissed.
As for his wife, you should follow Eleven8 advice and talk to her over the phone just to confirm her intentions. As most have said, I suspect she's probably fishing for more evidence to support her divorce and considering your track record, you'll happily assist.
Comment by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on August 20, 2012 at 7:44pm lol @ KE: he cut your finances and believe it or not, that's what happens when you get Dismissed. / considering your track record, you'll happily assist.
Comment by Miss Double Kiss on August 20, 2012 at 10:26pm damn b****...YOU F***** HER HUSBAND!!!
Why is it so hard for you to understand that his wife wants to beat the breaks off of you?? It doesn't matter if it is 2 years or 20 years...YOU infiltrated that man's marriage and willingly did so...if you was a chick who never "caught feelings" then why go through all the motions of creating a fake Facebook to tear that woman apart emotionally? If you were a simple heaux paper chasing, then it wouldn't matter but YOU WANTED THAT MAN for yourself and now that the tables have turned you are crying foul asking "why does she want to talk to me?" . HO HAVE A SEAT with your ol' amnesia self. YOU ARE A MESSY B****...sleeping with married men AND THEN being sneaky to rip his wife's heart apart by messaging her on facebook and sending pics. KARMA will be knocking on your door! Believe that!
Comment by Bonita on August 21, 2012 at 12:46am She is about to pull a Shaunie and needs more evidence to get more money during the divorce
Comment by TawnBaby on August 21, 2012 at 2:48am smh...im mad at the fact she doesnt know why this mans wife wants to meet her...u was was sleeping with her man and u sent her pics of u and her man....thats grounds for the beat down....sorry...call me ratchet...but i would be so ready to put hands and feet on u...even if we not together
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