Are you a Man Hater????
By definition a Man Hater is a woman who thinks all men are scum without reason, and hates a man just because he is of the male gender.
I have many friends that I think fall into this category. They believe that ALL men are trifling dirty dogs. What many of them don't realize is how bitter they come off. Some of them have been hurt deeply by men and have held on to that anger, and others latch on to the anger of what men have done to their mothers, sisters, & friends. What many of my man hating sisters haven't done is evaluated the part that they may have played by the choices that they made.
Yes I have been deeply hurt my a man in the past – in fact more than once. Yes some of the men I have dated have let me down, hurt and disappointed me Yes I have days where I feel I have lost faith in the notion of love.
But that has not made me hate men, not even the ones who have broken my heart. It has not made me believe all men are bad or that all men are out to hurt me. It has made me realize that I have chosen men who are not good for me and that is neither ones fault – it is simple life. So in a way going through the bad dates, the heartaches, the disappointments and the tears was a good thing. Each man who has come into my life has taught me something about myself and given me some wonderful memories(some bad ones too) and some invaluable lessons. I wouldn’t change that for anything.I now make smarter choices. I set realistic expectations. I allow myself and him room to fail and try again. I also get out when I see the signs its not working.
“We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to
see an imperfect person perfectly.”– Sam Keen
Are you a man hater? Do you know any?
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Comment by Boss/MadamBA on March 6, 2009 at 1:38pm - No i'm not a man hater...I just hate dumb shit that they do sometimes.
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Comment by OfficialGroupie on March 6, 2009 at 2:28pm - Nope. I love men!
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Comment by Mrs... on March 6, 2009 at 4:32pm - Good lesson hard too learn:)
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Comment by Stephbaby on March 6, 2009 at 4:34pm - Nope not a man hater. Great blog, loving the quote.
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Comment by Deja on March 6, 2009 at 8:05pm - I'm not a man hater @ all! I too hate the silly things they do...but you gotta love em!
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Comment by tHeOfFiCialLuRKeR on March 6, 2009 at 9:09pm - Naw'll, but I always side eye chicks that are, but say they aren't Lesibans! I know plenty of ppl who do this and then you always feel sorry cause you know they are hurting on the inside!
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Comment by Cougar $pice on March 6, 2009 at 10:12pm - Can't hate them, they have only 2 things that I need. Dic and Ca$h LMAO
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Comment by SexyVixen on March 7, 2009 at 8:12pm - It is what it is! Don't hate them but know how to treat them with a long handle spoon.
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this ish here is messy. she obviously jealous and apparantly half chicken head, cuz if she was so high nd mighty she would have neva been callin u starting twitter nd myspace beef..that what insucure chicken steez
they talked about this on a tv special last month. i think it was 20/20 or dateline. so sad.
It would b a very difficult task. once u get caught cheatin by 'em they would always have that picture in the back of their mines. nd dependin on wha kind o f man ur dealin wit he may not get pass'd it.
But you CAN step ur game, cook more clean m...
SMH!! I mean what in the hell?
wow..that all i can say is wow
LOL @ LL! I am so wit you on that! Heffa still singin but its like girl bye
Okay Bam peep game >>> he was spendin the holidays w/ someone else. [ babii momma girlfriend mayb da auntie nd girlfriend number 2, nd then when he flip the switch nd hunged up on u he prob went o the club nd found girlfriend num 3 just for the ni...
Now this is some ridiculous ish!
I need to print out the first paragraph and give it to a few chicks I know!!!
I agree! Some of their beliefs are completely ignorant!
If most of these men cheat anyway then why are we wasting our time here?
If I can't just go with the flow when I'm with someone rather serious or not then I don't need to be with him. Relationships are hard enough so I don't think I should have t...
Aww such a beautiful baby =) Really beautiful family^_^
Oh yeah, I don't believe Elin found out via Media Takeout. They're good for posting news stories from news sources and pasting their name into them. I'm wondering when online news sources will call them out on that. They aren't satisfied posting a...
This was an interesting read.
Hey Maddi, who is the wealthy very old clothing designer this chick is married to?
Give us the scoop since we know these celebs read these blogs ;)
:-/
The tatoo on his hands says Money Bags?
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