Comment by MKym on April 12, 2009 at 11:32am

I would opt for the poor attractive man. I know the physical isnt all there is in life, but I have an aversion to unattractive men, which includes short men. Im 5'9", and I REFUSE to talk to men who arent at least 6' tall, and thats my BARE minimum. Im going to come from the independent self starter side and say no matter how much my man makes Im going to be getting my own, so what he makes is only a supplement to what Ill be making. So I figure I may as well have someone I love and can be attracted to.

Comment by lady lynxx- ladylynxx.ning.com on April 12, 2009 at 11:48am

Like Cookie said depends who Ifall in love with. That said, I am attracted to a sense of ambition and purpose of life in a man because I am the same.

Comment by pretty poison on April 12, 2009 at 12:20pm

Ditto what lady lynxx said

Comment by T.Isabella on April 14, 2009 at 7:45am

For me its like this... I live by myself in a 500k+ townhouse in a gated community, I drive a luxury car( which i got on my own... okay with my mama's help BUT ive paid her back) and im soon to be owning a lucrative business! So with that said there is no way im going to be with the fine man who is broke! my motto is if you cant afford my house note then you cant afford me! PERIOD! So if an ugly man with money can afford me than so be it.... im just not having kids with this man! there is nothing worse than a pretty woman with some ugly kids! And dont let you have a girl with this ugly man... she will hate you for looking better than her...... Ive seen it! lol! But THe man with money all the way rather than the one who is fine and WILL go play!

Comment by Sierra on April 14, 2009 at 12:29pm

I'm on both sides on this one. I've fallen in love with not so great looking guys with a great personality. I'm also guilty of being with the hood dude who's fine as hell and can put it down but has that regular money.

Bottom line they just have to be as driven and ambitious as i am, similar to what Lady Lynxx wrote
and no short men either at least 6 feet tall just like Mkym

Comment by Miss Double Kiss on December 29, 2009 at 11:28pm

I'm actually facing this situation right now...it's tearing me up actually....be happy with a square but always "just making it" or live the life with a baller....oh the complications

Comment by Sheli on December 30, 2009 at 12:09am

the cute dude with the ok pay. Its only me,him,& 2.5 kids, a $400K house will do fine. the 9-5 is cool, that way we don't have to see each other all damn day. 2 trips a year works we got kids to raise

Comment by Baller Alert on December 30, 2009 at 12:31am

All men have issues..I rather have issues with a rich man. LOL

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