WHY DO WE IGNORE THE OBVIOUS SIGNS? HE JUST DOESN'T LIKE YOU LIKE THAT....
Women ignore the obvious signs that men are just not into them. We usually try to analyze why they don't call..or why did they react this way. My daddy told me if a man really wants you...you will not be able to keep him away. We all try to make it is something that it is not...especially if we like the guy.
Here are some signs that he really doesn't like you like that:
*He never returns your call when he says he will
*He doesn't respect your time. (i.e. cancels at the last minute, doesn't show up at all and calls later with an excuse)
*You never see him before sundown even on the weekends.
*He never spends the night
*You have never been to his home.
*It has been a year and you haven't met his family
*He has an excuse as to why he can't attend events with your family/friends.
*He forgets your birthday/Valentine's Day/Christmas/ New Years
*Never makes plans he just calls when he is free.
*Never calls just to talk
*Doesn't call when he is traveling
*Doesn't call to make sure you made it home safe
*Doesn't call to say goodnight
*Majority of communication is via text
*You never meet his boys.
*When he introduces you he says" Oh, this is just_____"
*He says things like "I'm just not ready for a relationship right now"
*He shows up to your house unannounced after midnight
Feel free to add...
Tags: relationships
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Comment by JustMe on August 18, 2009 at 7:55pm -
walks past you in public, and when you call him on it he says "You were there, why you aint holla at me"...
says i tell you about the rest of them hoes, so when we get together for real, there won't be any secrets...
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Comment by Hotter on August 18, 2009 at 8:02pm - Good list! I need to copy, paste and forward this ish to some ladies I know!
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Comment by Honeycoated on August 18, 2009 at 8:09pm -
i can relate to the "majority of communication is via text"
i even thought about taking texting off my phone so I wont get caught up in the texting bs and niggs will have to CALL me.
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Comment by Chrissy123 on August 18, 2009 at 9:25pm - I can relate to some of these I dated someone who was not showing me the respect I deserved, I put my foot down and he changed his ways.
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Comment by Cougar $pice on August 18, 2009 at 9:37pm - People always 'hope' instead of facing reality.
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Comment by Damnstraight on August 18, 2009 at 9:47pm - I've said it ove and over again in the past, women know...We just choose to ignore...So when shit fall apart, we really can't blame anyone but ourselves...A man can tell you he's not looking for a relationship but we'll still try and make us the wife in his eyes...
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Comment by pArtyiNfo4aLL on August 18, 2009 at 10:22pm - I always appreciate free entertainment-- thanks for the laughs. Seriously tho, I do watch for these signs. I see more 2 or more & I'm out. I will not be that fool wondering what's going on.
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Comment by Emerald on August 18, 2009 at 10:43pm -
Nice post! Love what your daddy said.. so true! You have to beat them away with a bat....I know some grown azz women that need this list right now! Thank God I had a hoeish brother that schooled me... yeah the truth hurts sometimes but like Usher said - gotta let it burn!
...some women need to stop putting on their "hookers uniform" thinking that he really wants YOU when all he wants is what's between your legs...men make no mistake about what they want. stop making it so easy... don't be so lame
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Comment by oo la la on August 19, 2009 at 12:39pm - I think you pretty much covered them all. Although men these days truly believe in their hearts that text/twitter/BBM is a valid form of communication. You CANNOT get to know someone that way! And my personality doesn't come across well in typing. It just doesnt.
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Comment by The real vixxen on August 19, 2009 at 12:54pm - Sometimes Id just much rather txt then talk on the phone its easier for me.. Im a txt-aholic.. BUT GREAT READ!! ive been there ignoring the facts like someone eles said I learned to put all that to an end and expect nothing but the best from someone!!
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