I do? No, You Better!!
Its been a long time, since I left you, but I'm back! I have been watching the show Real Housewives of Atlanta marathon all day and it made me think of a few situations I have been in before similar to Kim's. This brings me to the topic of: "Messing with Married Men."
I know a lot of you do not agree with sleeping with married men, but they are perfect for my situation. I am not looking for love, I am looking for money. Married men are going to trick and cheat with other women anyway, so I do not feel so bad for being that woman.
I evaluated Kim's situation and came to the conclusion that she is a dumb bitch. She should keep ducking him, keep getting his money and stay undercover with their relationship. Trying to make him leave his wife is a no. Let me give you ladies the rules to fuc*ing a married man.
1. Guard your feelings. Do not get emotionally attached to these dogs, they are cheaters and definitely not husband material for you. Make them feel like you are emotionally attached to them so they will continue to shower you with money and gifts. We are all actresses and should not have a problem pretending.
2. Duck the life out of him. Do things his wife may not do. You must always stay on top of your game with him because you are his home away from. You must be his "fun girl." Give him strip teases, ride him like a cowboy, suck the head off his dick, and make him gum harder than life. Leave no room for other competition.
3. Never ask him to change his life for you. Asking him to leave his wife puts pressure on him and may cause him to cut you off completely. She is still around for a reason and is not going anywhere. This is the reason for rule #1.
4. Always keep track of everything he spends on you. Keep all receipts and anything with his name on it like hotel bills and phone bills with calls from him to you. Keep pictures, voice mails, cards, and anything that shows proof that he has been trucking on you and had some type of relationship with you. This is the key to keeping him trucking on you if he ever tries to cut you off or do you dirty, you will have something to hold over his head. (Most important rule). Don't let him know you are keeping track until he act up. He will do everything to keep you as a secret from his wife and you will have him by his balls.
This is a process. You almost want to wish that he acts up so he knows you have him by his balls. If you ask him to do something and he says "no".. That's when you say "your 'I do's' with your wife is about to turn into 'I did this and I did that' so 'You Better' do for me or ill just show her all the proof I have of us being together." Never tell or show him your proof so he can not make up a p re-excuse of why he may have called or spent on you.
There's more to this but those are the basics. Every situation is different but that basic formula will keep your married man providing what you need for him.
That's all for now :)
~Sandra
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Comment by Carla Jenkins on October 23, 2009 at 12:44am - You should not see him but snag a single baller. Why be #2 when you can be #1? Look at Khloe versus Lamar's ex-girlfriend. Look who gets ahead? The wife.
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Comment by Renee on October 23, 2009 at 2:10am -
Keep the married one until you are ready to settle down later.
Save your money that you save by having him pay for your place.
Be a kept woman and enjoy your youth.
:)
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Comment by JustMe on October 23, 2009 at 9:38am - so you fuck and suck a married man, and then blackmail him... uh, thats extortion which is a felony... if we as women stuck together, these ninjas would have less fuck off time... but instead of uplifting other women we play a part in their hurt??? I hope none of yall run into a wife that's ready to kill for her man. Or one of those women that will take your ass to court... but know this Karma is a motherfucker and that bitch comes back when you least ecpect it...
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Comment by Golden Child on October 23, 2009 at 9:53am - Ouch you all make it sound so painful, Im really considering a married man but after reading yalls comment I dont know...
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Comment by Denise on October 23, 2009 at 10:59am - JustMe......I need not say a thing after that.....Here Here
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Comment by Devyn AKA Dominique Devereaux on October 23, 2009 at 11:48am - I'm so not equipped to live like this...but everything is not for everyone...Good luck!
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Comment by Boss/MadamBA on October 23, 2009 at 3:44pm -
I do believe Kim got it twisted. How she going to get mad because he was seeing another woman? She was the other woman. A whore should play a whore role..and try not to move up in the ranks.
I have heard of a few cases of the other woman becoming the main..but those are rare.
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Comment by Cookie Pie on October 23, 2009 at 3:45pm - Damn this is a hell of a post .... informative on both ends of the spectrum .
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Comment by MrShady on October 23, 2009 at 4:59pm - Yeah...Ive played the game...BUT blackmailing...to me thats on some other shit...if the kat dont wanna be wit you...why go through the drama of blackmailing...thats how folks end up on the side of the road! LOL When I was into messing around with kats that had dudes or females...I was in it mainly for the sex...when the money came into play....it was coo...but I had my own...so I banked they money...Im not a dude that really gets into "gifts" from tricks...if you gon spend it on me...just gimme the dough and lemme deposit it in my account and do what I want with it WHEN I want...But Im over that...it got to be draining...kats wanted to leave who they was wit to be with me...like c'mon now...LMAO!
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Comment by Hello Kitty on October 23, 2009 at 5:47pm - Glad to see you're back Cassandra! I love all your posts and you always give great advice! Whether I'm gonna do that shit or not is up to me but at least I got that extra game in my back pocket!! LOVES IT!!
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Good for him, nice gesture.
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wedges in shoes?
Look, no matter how hard you tried to hide it, I've seen those wedges in your shoes. Shameful considering that you're still 5'4 with them in.
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chile.....
thank god he's ok.
nice gesture shaq! good for him! this whole story just pisses me off and makes me sad.
Boss says..."please help her".
I will but i cant get pass the grammar and incoherent sentences. I'm lost. shiiit somebody need to help me understand what the fuck is goin on....
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