Ladies: 5 Ways You Try Too Hard By Tommie Collins
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2) Being insecure- Look, it's not my fault that your last boyfriendhad sex with your best friend, your cousin, and your co worker behindyour back. I wish that had never happened, and I'm sorry you had to gothrough that. But please don't try so hard to protect yourself fromfuture heartbreaks that you miss out on a good thing! Trying to keeptabs on your man like a human GPS system, going through his phone, andnot trusting him will do more damage than good, trust me. And pleasestop stalking the Facebook and Myspace profiles of every woman thatwrites on his wall or leaves him a comment, your starting to scare me.
3) Being an attention whore- If you have to FORCE someone to noticeyou, that's a problem in itself. You don't have to frisk around, or bethe loudest thing in the room to gain a man's attention, so sit yourass down somewhere and just be yourself. I blame Paris Hilton and theentire MTV & VH1 for the increase in attention whorage in the past 3years.
4) Trying to prove that you don't NEED a man- Look Sista Soulja, Iunderstand that you are independent, and can take care of yourself.But all the standoff-ish, confrontational, bitter antics are notattractive. You say "men ain't sh*t," and that all the good men areeither taken or gay. The truth is, you just haven't come across a manwho you "click" with yet. Just because you haven't yet met the rightone for you, doesn't mean that the entire male gender isn't worth adamn. Have some patience, and get your mind right for when you DO findmister right. Cut that bitter ish out, before you end up like that oldlady in your neighborhood that doesn't do anything but mind everybodyelse's business because she doesn't have any of her own.
5) Have some patience- Stop turning every guy you meet into a futuremarriage candidate. Go wit the flow and let things work out on theirown, you scare men off when you start making future plans on yoursecond date. Don't put the full court press on a dude too quickly, anddon't start thinking of baby names after ya'll have only gone out afew times. Let him chase you for a while, we like that sh*t, causelike Pac said, "I don't want it if it's that easy..."
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9 Comments
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Comment by Miss Vogue on October 7, 2008 at 3:50pm - good read, and this is oh so true.. i no so many women like this.. and then they say.. y am i still single?? bcuz u give it up too easy and no one wants to date a whore.. sure they will fuck you but thats about it...im so tired of hearin chicks complain about y they dont got a good man.. they need to take a look in the mirror...
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Comment by Boss/MadamBA on October 10, 2008 at 7:53pm - This is true...
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Comment by SexyJay on October 10, 2008 at 7:57pm - lol, funny yet so true.
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Comment by Sugar on October 30, 2008 at 8:02pm - So true LMAO ...U on point !muah
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Comment by lady lynxx- ladylynxx.ning.com on October 30, 2008 at 8:55pm - Copying and pasting!
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Comment by Goldie Fish on November 5, 2008 at 4:54pm - sometimes, practicing all 5 of these in one sequence is hard. Number 1 isn't a problem for me but I have no patience... at all.
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Comment by Rose on December 7, 2008 at 2:06pm - lol...good read
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Comment by Cougar $pice on February 7, 2009 at 2:42am - I bumped into an acquaintance today, we used to party together. I havn't seen her in 3 years. It's amazing how much I've 'grown'. She's still working on all of the above.
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Comment by Moving In Silence on August 17, 2009 at 7:12pm - good read...hopefully you'll post more blogs like this
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