FOR WOMEN WHO WANT THE BALLERIFIC LIFE!
Asking him for $$$$$
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Ladies, we have all been through that spell in our lives where we didn't want to seem like gold diggers by asking for money from the men that we are and have been intimately involved with. This ladies, is a single yet somewhat difficult thing to do for some women. Some of our characteristics vary between being aggressive or just passive. A more aggressive woman will ask for whatever she needs with no hesitation; rather than a passive woman throwing hints and complicating the entire situation. HONESTLY Ladies, if you are sleeping with a man this means that you are communicating and at this point you are giving him your most prized possession 'know that you are now entitled to ask'. So maybe you're not in a relationship but physically as well as spiritually you are attached and you can ask for anything you want. See below THE THREE C's on your position when it comes to asking your man for money:
Step1Confidence - You need to know that you are special, loving and caring and if you give a man your body you can ask for anything you want. They received a piece of you; you are spiritually tied in some shape or form. This should become easy!
Step2 Courage - If you don't ask how will you know if he even has it? If you don't ask then how will you receive it? Now that you were intimately involved you are entitled to ask. Don't be afraid!
Step3 Courtesy - There is a different breed of women those who ask continuously non-stop for everything they want from men; hair done, nails, pedicures etc. this is considered frivolous spending and then there's the woman that only asks when she needs; Of course the first kind of woman mentioned here is the gold digger. So remember asking a man that you are intimately involved with occasionally is something that you are entitled to do. Don't go overboard!
Then listen to this song before you place the call or meet up with him...
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Comment by julissa on June 6, 2008 at 6:27pm - I agree, when asking for money you have to be reasonable with your baller, you cant ask for your vacation to be paid and then need all the little shit too(hair,nails, luggage,day care haha). that will throw it off. whatever you get the dough for make sure it's official.
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Comment by Holly-Would on June 6, 2008 at 7:04pm - If you "must" ask and it's not given, then yes...make sure it's not things you can do yourself...he'll ask you for what he wants....
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Comment by hottestbitch on June 7, 2008 at 10:28am -
Its so hard for me to ask my baller for things i need. I love getting it on my own but sometimes i have 2 ask. We always have this conversation because he tells me that if i don't ask how those he know i need it? my point is i shouldn't ask for everything you should come out and give me! He also feels like i don't need him for anything, which makes him feel bad because he wants to feel needed.
i also tell my girls all the time that you need to ask your man for certain thing, if you don't then there is another bitch who he will be spending his money on.
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Comment by rainonme on June 7, 2008 at 11:59am - How do you ask your baller if he is cheap as hell but has it? I'm talking so cheap he sleeps on an air matress. I'm talking so cheap he wants to share a small bag of popcorn at the movies, but got an escalade and navigator and a nice ass home. I'm talking so cheap he don't want to spend on himself half the time lol
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Comment by julissa on June 7, 2008 at 3:09pm
- I would'nt even entertain him!
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Comment by Holly-Would on June 7, 2008 at 5:19pm
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Splitting popcorn at the movies? Wow...I say ask the same way you would ask anyother guy...there is only one of two answers you can get!
But I adore having those who just give, makes it better for you to ask when in need...
Im trying to crack some granite in one corner...
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Comment by Riqui on June 8, 2008 at 10:47am - asking for money from a person you are involved is not something that you have to contemplate. He SHOULD want to give you what you need and then some extras. If you are sleeping with this person or in love with this person you should be confortable enough with this person to ask for ANYTHING that you want. Ladies we are giving up our most precious gift and if he does not want to help us with wants and needs he's not worth it. He has NO PROBLEM asking you to sleep with him, then he should have no problem giving you money. NO i did say LEND I said GIVE!!!! My father always told all my boyfriends if you cannot take care of my daughter you cannot date her. she should not have to ask me for anything as long as you are in her life. and I believe that, so if a man is not willing to help me or is stingy with money he is not worth my time. PS ladies see what type of man he is with money before you decide to lay down with these men.
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Comment by Viva Diva on June 8, 2008 at 11:09am - I agree with u Riqui. Nowadays tho, these men don't even try to work for the pussy. They see u have a lil' somethin' and they just expect u to jump in the sack with them. Asking for money can be uncomfortable sometimes tho because I've had a copule situations with one dude who looked at me like I was crazy when I asked for somethin, because he knew I had my own money...not the point. He didn't last long, plenty of others that will pay...that's why mama always said never let a man know what $$$ you have!
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Comment by Sugar Dick on June 8, 2008 at 12:55pm -
DO YOU KNOW WHY MEN DONT LIKE TO GIVE WOMEN THEY ARE INVOLVED WITH MONEY? BECUASE THAT MAKES THIER WOMAN A PROSITUTE! DO YOU KNOW WHY YOU FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE ASKING FOR MONEY? BECAUSE YOU ARE AN UNEXPERIENCED PROSITUTE. WHY DO YOU THINK YOUR ENTITLED TO MY MONEY AFTER I HIT? BECUASE YOU ARE A DUMB PROSITUTE. IF YOU USE YOUR PUSSY FOR FINANCIAL GAIN AND DONT THINK YOU ARE A PROSITUTE. YOU ARE A PROSITUTE IN DENIEL.
P.S. @RIQUI YOUR FATHER IS WHAT WE CALL A PIMP! HE WAS SHOWING YOU HOW TO BE A GOOD HOE.
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Comment by Riqui on June 8, 2008 at 1:26pm
- Call it what you will, but my fiance takes VERY good care of me like a Real man should. and yes I have my own money I have 2 bachelor degrees, a master's and a Juris Doctorate and I practice law for a living. and yes my Father Taught me to be Superior in Everything that I do that's why I've accomplished so much. so if all you can do is resort to name calling then so be it, but believe it does not work any other way for me. A man has to be generous and committed to me in a relationship before I will EVER sleep with him. so I guess every house wife in america is a prostitute, jay z buying beyonce a million dollar car makes her a prostitute also right? if so I have no problem and no my father is not a pimp that would be dolemite, my father is a beautiful, loving MAN with a heart of gold.
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