Being attractive goes far deeper than just appearance.
Attractiveness isn't only about looks. Regardless of how good-looking you are, if you don't know what to do, what not to do, what to say and what not to say, your chance of landing your dream girl is slim to none.
Most often, popular guys are not the ones with celebrity looks, but the ones who have mastered the art of true attractiveness. For those still struggling with what makes men truly attractive to women, I offer some advice.

Be Responsible
You are going on a date with your girlfriend, you are driving and you get stuck in traffic. Suddenly, you start venting about how everyone should just stay home and not bring their stupid cars out just to jam the street. You complain about how the road system in the city sucks and how you will not be able to make it to the movie on time. What would your girlfriend think of you?

How about using that time to have a conversation about something you haven't spoken about so far? You are the one who initiated the date, so why not try to make the most out of this not-so-pleasant situation?

Instead of venting at everybody, which does nothing more than show how immature you are, start a conversation about the movie you will be seeing that evening. Or, if you have a good sense of humour, crack a few jokes, which is totally harmless. Your girlfriend will definitely notice how hard you are trying to lighten up the situation and she'll enjoy it, too.

Be Humble
Every person on this planet values humility as one of the greatest human virtues. Women like men who are confident, but at the same time, humble. As a society, we sometimes take humility to mean lack of confidence, but humility and confidence can definitely go together. When such a combination is found in a man, a woman will definitely be attracted.

Loosen Up
What's even more important than the look is the voice. A man who has a low tone of voice and relaxed shoulders exudes confidence and appeal to women. They see him as reliable. If you look too strained, even though your portfolio might be stellar, women generally will not find you as attractive.

The Little Things Matter
Kindness is good, but if kindness is the only thing you've got going for you, you are out of luck. Add a tough side to your kindness and you will boost your score on the popularity scale.

If your girlfriend is struggling with the menu, take the lead and say, “Why don't you try this? It's really good. You will like it.” Don't just sit there and keep asking, “So, what do you want?” There is a difference between rushing her and taking the lead. The latter is a very good thing! You are sure to earn a few extra points.

Be an Entertainer
An entertainer doesn't have to be on TV every night. If you have what it takes to make your girlfriend laugh, cry, smile and frown, then you are her entertainer.

Love must be true and genuine, but just for now, treat your relationship like a stage. Think about each scene, where each character is and what they will say. Think about how the play will begin and end. Make her the heroine and you, her Prince Charming.

Every girl says they want to meet Prince Charming, a character straight out of a story. You may not be Prince Charming, but you can be the closest thing there is.

Even without the celebrity looks and the fancy car, you can appeal to women by polishing your manners and inner strength. Lastly, try reading books and keeping up with the news. If you don't have the looks or any of the other traits I've mentioned, at least you'll have the brains. That's got to count for something.

Views: 16

Comment by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on November 28, 2008 at 12:18am
Thank you Gia!
Comment by Madisonnocyberbully on November 28, 2008 at 11:03am
2 guys have told me they are humble and I argued with them for hours as to why they are not-they admitted they were'nt but they sure liked saying they were-damn them!
Comment by Meme on December 6, 2008 at 3:15pm
I have all the above oh wait I am a lesbian with male traits LMAO

Comment

You need to be a member of Baller Alert.com to add comments!

Join Baller Alert.com

ADVERTISEMENT

Ballerific Events

Connect



BallerBoards

So We Aint Gon Say Nothing About This???

Started by Dragon Slayer Puss in Talk Ish. Last reply by DdoubleD 17 minutes ago. 13 Replies

LMAO....I just CAN'T! Continue

why do black people have pathetic web sites like this

Started by kunta kinte in Talk Ish. Last reply by McKenna Hylton 37 minutes ago. 26 Replies

Just curious. What do black people have against working for wealth ? Why do they have to marry someone with money, and steal it from them.Continue

Tags: worthless, people, black

Donating to Relief Funds

Started by University of Smitty in Talk Ish. Last reply by luvsmoochez 1 hour ago. 5 Replies

What do you expect when you donate to a relief fund??  I ask because the familes of the victims in the Chardon High school shooting are suing the United Way because they only recieved $150,000 of…Continue

Tags: funds, Relief

Love & Hip Hop Atlanta Discussion

Started by Baller Alert in Talk Ish. Last reply by DJ - A.K.A - DON_JUAN 4 hours ago. 629 Replies

VH1 put the first episode up and its off the chain.  Love & Hip Hop Atlanta | The 'A' ListLet's…Continue

Tags: love and hip hop

GLAM TV

Latest Activity

B Thang commented on Eleven8's blog post Love & Hip Hop Atlanta's Lil Scrappy Fails Pee Test & Claims He's Addicted To Weed
"wiznyeeed LOL!!! Anything to avoid more jail time, he claims he's addicted to weed. Erica…"
8 minutes ago
DJ - A.K.A - DON_JUAN commented on Eleven8's blog post Kevin Durant Donates $1 Mill to Oklahoma Tornado Disaster Relief
"dats wuz up. hope the families actually see this money.....know how alot of these…"
10 minutes ago
Baller Alert shared Eleven8's blog post on Twitter
11 minutes ago
Profile IconRacheal, Colsha Licciardi, NaPorsha Barnett and 4 more joined Baller Alert.com
12 minutes ago
DdoubleD replied to Dragon Slayer Puss's discussion So We Aint Gon Say Nothing About This???
"Thank you for giving me a laugh for today  "
17 minutes ago
Baller Alert shared Eleven8's blog post on Twitter
17 minutes ago
Baller Alert shared their blog post on Twitter
24 minutes ago
Baller Alert shared Eleven8's blog post on Twitter
27 minutes ago
McKenna Hylton replied to kunta kinte's discussion why do black people have pathetic web sites like this
37 minutes ago
Dragon Slayer Puss commented on Eleven8's blog post Baller Alert's Hit Or Miss - Ludacris
"NO Luda, NO! MISS!!! He is looking quite Pootie Tang here. "
44 minutes ago
Dragon Slayer Puss replied to Dragon Slayer Puss's discussion So We Aint Gon Say Nothing About This???
"I'ma have to teach my boo how to crowd surf. This "jumping" or "flying"…"
52 minutes ago
Dragon Slayer Puss commented on Eleven8's blog post Love & Hip Hop Atlanta's Lil Scrappy Fails Pee Test & Claims He's Addicted To Weed
"LOL, Scrap, just LOL...there are too many masking agents for you to be failing drug tests over some…"
54 minutes ago

© 2013   Created by Baller Alert.

Badges  |  Report an Issue  |  Terms of Service

Offline

Live Video