Ballerific Relationships - 50 Date Ideas

When I meet a new guy, he usually suggests that we should hang out. I’m excited until he says that he just wanna come over to my house and chill. Uuuummmmm, oh hell no! Lately, people have been believing that coming over to my house and chillin is considered a date. NOT! I mean, it can happen every now and then. But not every time we hang out. And especially, not on the first date. Therefore, I have a list of date ideas so I’m prepared for any fuckery that is thrown my way. While perusing the internet, I came upon this article that list many more date ideas. Many of these are great and require little to no money being spent, which is perfect if its your turn to return the favor of going on a date. I don’t think women should spend too much money on a date. That’s a man’s job. (Yeah, I said it). Enjoy the list!

By the way, my favorite date is going to a gun range so he knows that I can bust a cap in his ass if he ever gets outta pocket!

By Diana Vilibert

1.Ice Skate. Get on thin ice. Depending on the weather, head to an indoor or outdoor ice-skating rink — it's the perfect excuse to hold hands, "accidentally" fall on top of each other, and grab a cup of hot chocolate and cozy up to each other to keep warm.

2.Roller Skate. Get an adrenaline rush at the roller-skating rink. As long as you don't mind being the oldest people there who aren't chaperoning their children, it's a great way to have fun and let loose with each other. Top it off with a bowl of ice cream when you get home.

3.Pick Fruit. Spend the day picking fruit at a local farm, either one-on-one or with a few couples you know — the more the merrier. Once you've picked all the apples you can carry back to the car, get creative in the kitchen and think up some recipes with the fruit you picked. Judge each other's creations, Top Chef style.

4.Watch Baseball. Score major points and head to a baseball game with your guy. Tickets can be as cheap as $5 a person, but bring extra cash for some beer, hot dogs, and a giant foam finger.

5.Ride Bikes. Rent bikes — a tandem one, if you're adventurous — and go for a long ride through the park. Pack a few sandwiches and plenty of water for a picnic, or just grab hot dogs from a stand when you're ready for a break.

6.Go to a Drive-In. Spice up your movie-night routine by finding a drive-in movie theater. Stop at the supermarket on your way to load up on your favorite snacks, and bring blankets and pillows to make the car extra cozy. Let him pick the movie — you'll get points for being easygoing, even though you know you'll probably miss most of the movie.

7.Go to a Bookstore. Head to the bookstore and walk through the aisles together, showing each other your favorite books, bonding over the books you both hated, and flipping through a Kama Sutra book for ideas for later.

8.Bowl. Bowl him over at the bowling alley. Psych him out by reminding him of how many gross people wore his shoes before him, and don't forget to program his sugary-sweet nickname ("Muffin Face") onto the computerized scoreboard instead of his real name.

9.Shoot Darts. Skip the pricey wine bar and grab a few beers at your local dive bar. Make sure you pick a place with a pool table or dartboard set up, and challenge him to a few games. Loser owes the winner a song on the jukebox.

10.Build Something. Show him your rugged side and build something together. Ask him to help you build something like a coffee table or dresser for your place — he'll be psyched that you asked him, just as long as you can bite your tongue when the table he puts together falls apart the moment you set your cup of coffee down.

11.Go to a Carnival. Appeal to his inner child (it shouldn't be too hard to tap into) and buy tickets for a carnival. Embrace the cheesiness — share cotton candy, let him try to win you a prize, and ride the Ferris wheel until you get nauseous. It's a great way to get to know each other if you've just started dating and will serve as a reminder of how much fun you can have together if you've been dating for awhile.

12.Go to a Car Dealership. Ask him about his fantasy cars and he'll probably talk your ear off. Head over to a local car dealership and test-drive the most expensive car they'll let you take out of the parking lot. Take turns at the wheel but resist the urge to nitpick each other's driving skills.

13.Visit a Chocolate Factory. Indulge your sweet tooth with your sweetie — visit a chocolate or cookie factory. Do a quick Google search to see if there are any in your area and give one a call to see if it does tours. If it only does group tours, make it a group date and invite a few other couples.

14.Tour a Haunted House. Get spooked at a haunted house. Check out for listings in your state. Start off the night by watching a scary movie before you go, and then try not to laugh when he launches a foot into the air at every corner.

15.Cook TOGETHER. Get out those matching aprons and fire up the skillet for a night of cooking — for both of you. Learn how to cook each other's favorite meal and then do it together. Whether you end up with a delicious steak and tuna casserole for two or speed-dialing for Chinese takeout, you're guaranteed to enjoy the process.

16.Double Date. Forget eating dinner parked in front of a Mad Men marathon until you and your boyfriend are tired of looking at each other. Invite another couple over that you don't know well for a potluck dinner. Ask them to bring the appetizer and dessert, and work on the main course with your guy. At least one of the dishes should come out edible, and you can bond with your new friends over your shared culinary failure.

17.Go to a Zoo. Tap into your animal instincts by visiting a petting zoo. Bring some bread to feed the animals and spend a few hours debating him on why getting a pet monkey is a bad idea. When you get home, jump in the shower with him to scrub off the zoo smell.

18.Go to a Flea Market. He may hate to shop, but he'll end up thanking you if you drag him to a flea market. There's something for everyone and plenty of things you never knew existed — you might even discover he has a hobby or weird collection you didn't know about!

19.Play 20 Questions. Whether you've been together for three weeks or three years, there are probably things you don't know about each other. Each of you should write down 20 questions about the other — make sure they're open-ended so you don't get boring one-word answers — and fire away. Take turns answering the questions and get to know each other a little better than you already do.

20.Tour an Art Show. Have pretentious conversations about art at a local show. You'll find them going on all year at community centers, schools, and libraries — you might even find a great piece of art to add to your home.

21.Take a Hike. Spend the day hiking and taking pictures together. When you're ready to recover, add some extra romance to the evening — lie across the hood of the car and look at the stars.

22.Have an Indoor Picnic. If you're tired of a quiet dinner at home disintegrating into chips and dip on the couch with no conversation between the two of you except for requests to change the channel, grab a blanket and some food and have an indoor picnic. The best part of staying inside? No ants in your food — plus, you're free to get busy right then and there.

23.Go Wine-tasting. The easiest way to booze it up on the cheap? Take a tour of a winery or brewery, and pick up some wine facts for your next dinner party while getting tipsy.

24.Take a Class Together. Sign up to learn something neither of you knows how to do. Community schools generally offer a lot of options for classes you can take in eight-week sessions, from cooking to karate.

25.Go to a Museum. Put on your walking shoes and head to the museum. Almost all museums have one day a week where you can get in for free or for a small suggested donation. Pick the exhibits you each want to see beforehand, and spend some time at each of them together.

26.Take a Trip. Celebrate something special with a trip to a bed and breakfast. A one-night stay in the colder months won't break the bank, so you can put that extra cash toward a room with a hot tub or breakfast in bed. If you're in for a long car ride, grab a book on tape from the local library.

27.Go to a Concert. Wherever you live, chances are there are local bands dying for an audience. Check out MySpace for bands in your area and go to a show. Alternate with your guy on who gets to pick the band so that you both get a chance to enjoy your favorite music genres, and save cash on booze by bringing a flask.

28.Play House. Dress up in your most serious grownup outfit and leave your tiny apartment to visit some open houses. Spend the day arguing over where you would put the love seat, discussing the difference between eggshell and ecru paint, and giggling over strangers' hideous decorating choices.

29.Take a Pottery Class. Take a pottery class together and decorate your apartment in misshapen vases and funky-looking coffee mugs. Resist the urge to make your guy recreate the scene from Ghost every time you walk into class.

30.Visit a Psychic. Look into the future: Go together for a psychic reading. Practice your poker faces and spend the rest of the night talking about how funny — or eerily accurate — the reading was.

31.Wall Climb. Does he drive you up a wall sometimes? He probably feels the same way about you, so put on your sneakers and head to an indoor rock-climbing gym. Challenge him to a race to the top and relieve sore muscles with a hot shower together afterward. Just try not to gloat too much about beating him.

32.Visit a Theatre. Check the theater offerings at local colleges and high schools. Schools usually have a spring and a fall show, and it's a great way to see a version of your favorite plays and musicals for a fraction of the cost.

33.Go to a Gun Range. Challenge your guy to a little friendly competition and surprise him by taking him to a rifle range. After each round, compare your targets — loser buys the next round of bullets; winner gets gloating privileges.

34.Sled. Celebrate the first snow of winter with a day of sledding. Pick a hilly spot in your town and use garbage can lids as makeshift sleds. Wear a bike helmet to up the dorky fun factor, and celebrate living through the experience with a cup of hot cocoa.

35.Pamper Yourselves. Settle in for a night of pampering: No pricey spa required. Use your empty wallets as an excuse to stay in — and up — all night. Run a bubble bath and then treat each other to full-body massages. Sleep in the next day.

36.Visit a Planetarium. See the stars without braving the cold by getting tickets to the planetarium. Sneak in a thin blanket and cozy up. For extra privacy, go during off-peak times — call ahead to see when those are.

37.See a Musical. Dying to see a musical or play but can't afford the tickets? Call around to see if you can buy tickets to the dress rehearsal instead — you'll pay a fraction of the price for the same experience.

38.Volunteer. Bummed that you can't afford a weeklong vacation with your man? Put things in perspective and volunteer together for a cause you both care about. TiVo Gossip Girl and sign up to work at a soup kitchen once a week, or cuddle up with lovable cats and dogs at your local animal shelter.

39.Make Art. Want some quiet time? Exercise your creative talents by drawing each other. All you need are two pieces of paper, some art supplies, and a bottle of wine for a quiet, romantic night in. Go as artistic or as fun as you wish.

40.Go to a Yard Sale. One man's junk is another couple's treasure. Grab your guy and see what you can dig up at local garage sales. Up your chances of scoring something great by going to the ritziest neighborhood in your area.

41.Work Out. Get physical. Get free day passes to a gym whose membership you could never afford and have him spot you. Challenge him to a fitness competition, bribe him into taking a spin class with you, and take advantage of the gym's sauna or pool, if it has one.

42.Exchange Hobbies. You can knit holiday sweaters like nobody's business. Your man is a Guitar Hero rock star. It's great to have separate hobbies, but it's also fun to share. Pick a weekend to teach each other your hobbies, and serenade him with a guitar solo while he knits you a pair of mittens.

43.Gamble. Visit your local casino. But play the nickel slots and have lots of fun for $5.

44.Watch Movies. While you're waiting for your Netflix delivery, stop at your local library and rent a few movies. Toss a coin to see whose pick you'll watch first, and promise not to interrupt with bored sighs, eye-rolling, or snoring sound effects during each other's choices.

45. Tour your Hometown. Travel back in time and reminisce. If your or you guy still live close to where you grew up, give each other a tour of your childhoods. Grab a camera and take pictures of your all-grown-up selves as you visit each landmark.

46. Sightsee. Can't get away for a vacation? Sightsee in your own city. If you've lived in your area for a long time, chances are you never got around to seeing a lot of the tourist attractions. So grab your guy and pretend to be tourists for a weekend. Stop at a used bookstore or look online for travel guides for your city, put together an itinerary, and don't forget to take pictures!

47.Go to an Open Mic Night. Grab a cup of coffee and check out a local coffee shop's open mic night. You might luck out with a great show, or you may find a mixed bag of angsty guitar solos and bad poetry — either way, you'll have something to talk (or laugh) about on the way home.

48.Go to a College Event. You probably live within driving distance of a college or university. Log on to the school's Website and check out the scheduled events — often, schools will open large events, like lectures and panels, to the public. Check back often — your guy's favorite movie director might be appearing at a screening at the school's drama department, or you might find a panel of your favorite authors speaking to the English majors.

49.Go to a Comedy Show. Share a few laughs at a comedy club amateur night. Admission usually costs two drinks per person, and you're in for a hilarious night — whether you're laughing with the comedian or at him.

50.Golf. Rather than playing on a professional golf course, go play miniature golf. Let your make believe he’s the next Tiger Woods.

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Comment by Mello826BA aka BAGroupie on March 20, 2009 at 10:53pm
I absolutely LOVE going to the gun range with my better half..

I gets reaaaal gangsta wit it! LOL
Comment by WorkingBlue2 on March 23, 2009 at 2:31pm
Funny a lot of these things we do already but I did pick up a few ideas. He will definitely want to go to the gun range. Working out together is also fun especially when you get naughty afterwards lol.
Comment by Siren on April 9, 2009 at 6:04pm
Thanks for this OG I missed this I think I have an idea now!!!
Comment by Misting on April 11, 2009 at 3:32am
very creative!
Comment by lady lynxx- on April 11, 2009 at 9:03am
Wondeful'll never be boring!
Comment by kami2hot on February 10, 2013 at 7:29pm

i think its a great list except the vast majority of these things i do solo and have yet to meet a guy that was genuinely interested in any of them (except the gun range, movies & the comedy show).. sure they'll agree to it bc they want to get a shot at me but its quite obvious that they rather be doing something else which makes it pointless for bringing them along *shrugs*

Comment by Marcie on April 20, 2015 at 1:09pm

This was a really good article. I love it! I will be doing these even though I am single. lol


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