There are 1,000,000 single black women out there. It has to be a valid reason for this. Black men are dating outside of their race and the numbers are increasing. It has become more common to see a black man with a non-african american woman on his arm.

I have a friend that recently divorced and he said if he was to ever get married again he would marry a white woman. This sadden me but I want to find out why.

I ran across an article titled The Top Ten Reasons Why It's Hard to Date a Black Woman by Matthew ....

Check out his top ten reasons:
1. Black women make black men feel under appreciated, unwarranted and irresponsible and regressive.

2. Black women are too aggressive and no longer patient in waiting on the pursuit of a man.

3. Black women are strong headed, too independent which presents great challenges in relationships.

4. Black women are masculine in that they are controlling and like to run the relationship.

5. Black women expect too much. They are gold diggers who will not look twice at a blue collar black man.

6. Black women are hot headed and have bad attitudes.

7. Black women stop caring about their appearance after a certain age.

8. Black women are not as sexually open as other races, especially in regards to oral sex.

9. Black women's tolerance is far too low; they are no longer empathetic to the black man's struggle in white America.

10. Black women do not cater to their men.

I don't agree with a lot of these but this was after the author surveyed men and this is what they think about the black woman. It's more than the color of your skin...

Thoughts?

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Tags: black, interracial, relationships, women

Comment by Ms. Ashley Banks on September 9, 2009 at 2:57pm
Wow. This is hard for me to answer because I have a lot of issues with AFRICAN AMERICAN men, moreso than black men overall. Especially brothers under 40.

We live in an age where ALL women are hard on men, because I truly believe some men will not keep up with progress and want to strive for anything. Many can be old-fashioned, and still have that attitude of "if I bring home a check I've done my job". I feel that some AAM believe "if I bring you a check, I've done my job." I believe we allow them to make too many excuses to not be there or take the easy way out. Women of other races have high expectations for their men, AAM should be no different. I would love to explain more of how I feel, but I'd damn near write a thesis on this.
Comment by Charlie/Daddy's Girl on September 9, 2009 at 3:07pm
oh...
Comment by Babydoll on September 9, 2009 at 3:09pm
That was some straight b*******. When I read stuff like this it is baffling, because everyone knows women like this no matter the race. I am so tired of this "black woman ain't this or that". I know so many sweet, warm, and feminine black woman that can't find a man. Now that's a problem.
Comment by Ms. Ashley Banks on September 9, 2009 at 3:18pm
What gets me is how I'm always hearing black men say we don't cater to them, all I can think is: we allow you to walk out on your family, we allow you to trash us in your music and entertainment, we allow you to openly disrespect us in public. The problem is that we need to define "catering" to a man, because we've given them too much rope as it is.

I also find that most of these so called MEN that have these complaints about black women do not fare well with ANY women. They take the same relationship patterns with them from a sistah, to a Latina, to an Asian, and so on and so on. I believe many black men need to take a long look in the mirror before they go on and bash the women that have given them life and that swagger that hold on to so dearly.
Comment by lady lynxx- ladylynxx.ning.com on September 9, 2009 at 3:30pm
Wow - I don't agree with his list, but I do agree that some black women have these qualities. Then again, a real man should not have a problem getting a good woman what ever her race may be....
Comment by Babydoll on September 9, 2009 at 3:53pm
Chuuuuuuuch!!!!! ^^
Comment by Honeycoated on September 9, 2009 at 3:59pm
@ #5, White women arent golddiggers???!!!! puhleeze
Comment by Sharelyn on September 9, 2009 at 4:05pm
Ditto to everything said. And also, women of all races need to stop putting up with bull that these men try to get past us. I'm not saying they all do, but most, if not all, of my latina and white friends put up with so much crap that I can't even fathom myself dealing with.

If one woman falls for their mess, men will expect all women to have never have a problem with this and fall for the same bulls*hit too.
Comment by Babydoll on September 9, 2009 at 4:18pm
Ok, i went back to read the link, and wow, black men are really really lost. So sad.
Comment by Baller Alert on September 9, 2009 at 4:18pm
Tell em why you mad cookie...but the sad thing is this is what some of them think about black women.

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