There are 1,000,000 single black women out there. It has to be a valid reason for this. Black men are dating outside of their race and the numbers are increasing. It has become more common to see a black man with a non-african american woman on his arm.

I have a friend that recently divorced and he said if he was to ever get married again he would marry a white woman. This sadden me but I want to find out why.

I ran across an article titled The Top Ten Reasons Why It's Hard to Date a Black Woman by Matthew ....

Check out his top ten reasons:
1. Black women make black men feel under appreciated, unwarranted and irresponsible and regressive.

2. Black women are too aggressive and no longer patient in waiting on the pursuit of a man.

3. Black women are strong headed, too independent which presents great challenges in relationships.

4. Black women are masculine in that they are controlling and like to run the relationship.

5. Black women expect too much. They are gold diggers who will not look twice at a blue collar black man.

6. Black women are hot headed and have bad attitudes.

7. Black women stop caring about their appearance after a certain age.

8. Black women are not as sexually open as other races, especially in regards to oral sex.

9. Black women's tolerance is far too low; they are no longer empathetic to the black man's struggle in white America.

10. Black women do not cater to their men.

I don't agree with a lot of these but this was after the author surveyed men and this is what they think about the black woman. It's more than the color of your skin...

Thoughts?

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Tags: black, interracial, relationships, women

Comment by Lisa on October 6, 2009 at 2:04pm
I was just scrolling around and found this. Last night I met this black guy at a casino. He was drunk as hell and staggering around in a nice suit. Begged me to come and have a drink with him. I relented even though I had stuff to do. Anyway the guy wants to f*** and I tell him blah, blah. blah. Basically Im a Princess, take me shopping. He goes and tells me blah blah blah about how we should get to know each other and let him f*** me asap. And that he is rich and he will give me anything I want later. I tell him no and this dude tells me. "See, you black women are pushing us right into a white womans arms. A white woman doesn't say no, she just says yes to everything, you can have whatever you like daddy". Now, Im already mad cause he wasting my time and he has to go there. (Lucky he didn't like me cause I would of taken every dime after that comment and he wouldn't have even got a hug.)

Instantly I think of my ex whom I helped build up his company, put up with all his BS. And then when he finally starts to succeed here comes the plain white woman who is more than happy to snatch up a sucker ass black baller. And now he always talks about black women don't have a clue of how to take care of a black man in 2009. WTF. This b**** can't even type, let alone help him with his business. But he feels she is better for him, because she doesn't tell him when he is wrong, she isn't that bright and if he beats the s*** out of her and talks bad about her and tells her she is stupid she is like ok! I am so tired of sorry ass black men blaming us good black women for trying to make them better stronger black men and trying to hold our dignity while dealing with thier b*******. I always said many years ago that I never liked black men who dated white women. They always tended to be weak in my opinion, walking around with a high top fade 20 years after the style has faded. So you know what. I am going to go and get me a nice white guy who treats me like a princess. Im sick and tired of trying to hold a black man down and have his back and he isn't trying to crown me Queen.

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