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Your Baller Hasn't Called? He's Just Not That Into You--YET
He’s dead. At least figuratively. Think this way to help you cope when he doesn’t call. These men meet about 3-4 different eligible females per event or day. It’s most likely he took your number and can’t find it or remember which one you are. He looks at his cell phone and scrolls down and can’t find you (or there was obviously something underwhelming about you, because everyone ain’t for everybody). Oh well. Is it his fault? Your fault? It doesn’t matter here’s a way to make sure it doesn’t happen again.
When you meet him, immediately ask him about something you can do for him or ask him about something he can do for you! Make sure you need to follow up with him about it or he needs to get back to you to keep the lines of communication open for real. It can be about anything at all. If he doesn’t call, you have a REASON to call him. It’ll sound like this: “Hey, remember what I had told you about XYZ. I need some more info. Call me back.” Or “Hey, you said you was gonna call me about XYZ. Let me know when’s a good time to talk about it…” This works most of the time. Because really they don't know what the f*** they promised you. An associate of mine used this and turned it into something more. He asked her out on "business."
You could also arrange to “bump” into him. Again, in the initial conversation, ask him where he hangs out to eat or his plans in the next few days. BE THERE! After a few times, you’ll casually “bump” into him.
If this fails, don’t call him! Especially if you have long term plans for this man. You need to stretch your worth out over some months and time. Don’t let yourself run out after a few weeks. Do not spend your time thinking about why he hasn’t called. You need to find a baller who will!
Men rarely regain their interest, after they’ve lost it. Do not try to convince a man you are worthy! It’ll make you look less worthy. You gotta keep it moving and find another baller. This is a full time job. I say that over and over for a reason.
Do Not Let him See Where You Live! It is too much of a reality for most ballers and it’s very unlikely you’ll be living like him or better. You don’t want him seeing you in your studio or basement apartment! Or the empty fridge with months old milk and the big block of cheese. It’ll just make you look like a burden.
Forget the stories about the sex and the turning him out. Don't fall into that trap! You will be used and passed on. There will be another chick who can do it better. Save the bedroom show for a baller who is looking for something more meaningful. By all means, do your thing, but keep your priorities in order. If sex is all you want, don't try to play another position.
It could also be that you’ve got a reputation. People know about you! He may be wanting to see if it’s all true. If you have been around, that is why it’s important to fall back. Make him think something is wrong with his ass that is why you haven’t called yet. He'll call you just to see. If he’s not calling you, let it go for a while. But never give up.
With that said…
Get ‘em girl!
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Comment by The_Analyst on May 8, 2008 at 12:43pm -
Great Blog! : )
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Comment by Siren on May 8, 2008 at 12:43pm -
I agree with the 2nd paragraph if you meet him in the right atmosphere that is a great way to gaurantee a call
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Comment by Michelle on May 8, 2008 at 12:52pm -
Also the no calling policy... i agree to an extent, however if it has been a while a lil over a week i feel there is no harm in refreshing his memory, send a slick txt, something that grabs his attention, definitely not sexual.. Or even call and request you take him out..
And if no response like no answer when you call and he doesn't call back, I take that as in, keep it moving!!
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Comment by OUT OF CONTROL on May 8, 2008 at 12:54pm -
This post came out a day late! LOL
Great post!
Julissa looks like a clown. Who is that she's touching with the ROC? Cutie on dutie!
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Comment by OUT OF CONTROL on May 8, 2008 at 1:13pm
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Because some may have already threw that card away, or gave up the goodies yesterday and never knew to ask What can I do for you, besides give you some head. LOL
All that to say that I've never thought of asking the baller what he can do for me beside materialistic thinking. Thats a good convo starter if I decide to call first! If they don't call me it's a wrap.
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Comment by GetEmGirl on May 8, 2008 at 1:31pm -
That pic is Julissa with her man! LOL
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Comment by GetEmGirl on May 8, 2008 at 1:33pm
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@Diva you wont appear stalkerish. You bumped into him the first time, it's highly possible to bump into him again by coincidence.
I also dont think it's a good idea to ask any baller out, if you chase him now, you'll be chasing him for the rest of the relationship. been there, done that.
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Comment by rena on May 8, 2008 at 1:36pm -
good point getemgirl (about asking out)
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Comment by GetEmGirl on May 8, 2008 at 2:09pm
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NFL's LARRY JOHNSON KC Chiefs and his "girlfriend" Julissa Bermudez
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Comment by Michelle on May 8, 2008 at 3:01pm
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Dont know if it is considered cool, But i dont think there is any harm in you taking him out on a date, now a true gentleman will offer to pay the bill, but its the thought that you chose the place, and wanted to take him out..
Most women expect the man to all that, to be honest i think some men can appreciate a woman taking him out, make him feel special... Even tho u knew he would be the bill anyway lol...
also@ blog..exactly what do u ask a man, what he can do for you??? I mean unless its for business,..
what if u are not in his line of work or have no affiliations to no specific business with him lol...like what exactly do u ask for?? Or what i can do for him??
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