BALLER MAIL - I WANT TO BEAT HER FOR BEING DISRESPECTFUL


Baller Mail: (in my Tyra voice)

BA I have a serious issue. I have this chick that constantly keeps calling my dude. I have told her not to call and I have yelled at my man but she tells me not to talk to her but to talk to my man. The situation is I'm not working right now and he is supporting me and my kid. My son ain't his but my son calls him daddy. He has promised not to talk to her but then I go through his phone and I see her number that he dialed. I talked to her on the phone and she is so disrespectful telling not to call her and she going to keep seeing my MAN. I am going to catch a case if I see this girl I swear I am going to catch one. I don't know what to do HELP your fellow BA sista.

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Comment by Damnstraight on May 29, 2009 at 9:39pm
Unfortunately, she's in a no win situation...Beating her will land her in jail...and then her MAN will definitely be seeing ol girl...lol I mean her options other than leaving him are slim to none...He's supporting her and her son...He feels like he has a right to do whatever he pleases...And also, the chick is right, it is on her boyfriend...If he was her husband, my answer would be a lil different... I don't want to come off as being judgemental, but she really doesn't have a leg to stand on...Wish I could help her out more but I mean again, she's unemployed, the son isn't his, they aren't married, and her boyfriend is the one continuing to call ol girl...
Comment by Sunshine Jones on May 29, 2009 at 10:27pm
If he won't stop then you have two options; step out and get your own so you don't need him to support u, he and your son can still maintain a relationship if he's a real man, or you get a side jawn too, he can't be mad cause you being just like him. My advise is the first one, because if your baby daddy ain't stepping up, then u are responsible for the taking care of your son and no other man is obligated to do that when ya'll are not married, you have gotten too comfortable and that is probably why he is talking to the other chick.
Comment by Lisa Smith Klein on May 29, 2009 at 11:45pm
Unfortunately you have put yourself in a bad situation with him supporting you. Do you have any savings? If not, I would trun a blind eye to the other girl and work on my "getaway fund". Every woman needs one, lol. Because what if your man decides to pick this girl over you and kicks you and your son out then what are you going to do?? Stop focusing on this other girl, you are not in a relationship with her and she doesn't owe you anything. Focus on getting a job and saving and leaving his ass.
Comment by Ph@tty on May 30, 2009 at 1:43am
Cosign lisa... Your man is clearly disrespecting you and as much as you wanna whoop the girl you should feel even more anger towards your man. Your best bet is to stack chips and leave his ass, cuz a kid is involved and the worse thing you can do is model an unhealthy relationship/situation... Kids are very smart and pick up more than you know.
Comment by Empowered Woman aka $picey on May 30, 2009 at 8:57am
LMAO @ the pic.

Q Fly Chickadee... red or white? lol

This issue is with your man, because it sounds like she feels 'encouraged' to continue with his 'permission'. If she stops calling he'll just replace her with another chick and then you'll be fighting with every chick he messes with. Do you really have that energy to waste with someone who doesn't respect you or someone who doesn't respect your relationship? Your son NEEDS you relaxed and focused on him.

If anything, this is motivation to get back into the workforce and get yours and eventually get someone who deserves and respects you.
Comment by PrettyThinker on May 30, 2009 at 9:56am
Why doesn't he just Change his phone # if it Bother's HER so much.....

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