Baller Mail - "Why Does My Baller's Wife Want To Meet With Me?"

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"About 2 years ago I was dealing with a very well known athlete who's married and long story short things fell off and we stopped talking. Now when it happened, I was mad about how he really went about doing it. He cut off my money and didn't pay my rent and really just played me so I made a fake fb page and wrote his wife, fwd pictures of him in EXTREMELY compromising situations and so on. Once I knew she received it, I deleted the page. He never confronted me, until now.

 

Two years later, a mutual friend told me his wife left him 2 months ago and moved back with her parents. I got a phone call from her last week saying she wanted to meet with me. NOW I have changed my number since the whole incident and the ONLY person that has it is that one mutual friend. The baller doesn't even have it. I haven't spoken with him in 2 years, I know I'm not the only person he cheated on her with but my thing is, WHY does she want to talk to me!?! It has been 2 years! I don't know what she wants to meet with me for, I don't owe her anything I feel. But I'm so uncertain. I don't know if she's planning a trip back to town or what, but its just a "coincidence" I find out she left him 2 months ago and NOW she wants to meet. I'm sure the mutual friend is being messy but I don't know why."

 

Well reader, I can definitely say that you left the gate wide open when you sent the wife pictures and made it obvious it was you. Even though it's been two years, some things people don't easily get over. Being cheated on by your husband is one of those things. She may have a lot on her mind right now and just wants to know why he chose to cheat. She may also want to beat the breaks off of you so tread lightly. Visiting with her is completely up to you. Know that if you do meet with her, the possibility of drama will come along with it.  If you're comfortable knowing that, make sure you don't meet with her alone. 

 

I do suggest speaking with her for the sake of her sanity and your own. Speak with her over the phone. Explain to her that you are very busy with a schedule that will not allow for you guys to meet but you are more than happy to answer any questions. Phone conversations allow for you to be in total control of what information you divulge. If she starts acting catty you can always just hang up.

 

What do you think this reader should do? Any advice?

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Comment by luvsmoochez on August 20, 2012 at 11:12am

I would talk to her via telephone to see what the deal is, take her temperature and temperment. She may be trying to gather info from you to show he was cheating to get out of a pre-nup or up her allimony if she is thinking of divorcing. If there is money to be made of course you may be able to cut a side deal. If you have nothing to gain from it financially or emotionally I wouldn't bother though.

Comment by Slim G on August 20, 2012 at 11:23am

Kindly give her a "girl bye" I have no use for you in my life! When I was trying to blow his spot up 2 years ago you didn't have any rap....Why all of a sudden now?  If you can't prove your mans infidelity without ANY OTHER information from me then I'm sorry, I gave you the ammo 2 years ago.

She also just needs to come out and ask her MUTUAL friend, how did she get my new number, do you know what she want's with me?...

Comment by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on August 20, 2012 at 12:27pm

I wouldn't even respond unless someone said dollars were involved. Her sanity sounds like it is just fine. She hasn't thought of these people in two years. I would continue not to think of them. And I'd cut the messy azz "friend" off. If you can't keep your mouth shut about me and mine then you will get shut the fugg OUT!

Comment by miss cali on August 20, 2012 at 12:50pm

i would slap my "friend" for giving out my number, and not respond to the wife-- that was the past

Comment by DdoubleD on August 20, 2012 at 1:10pm

@luvsm That's exactly what I was thinking.  I would ask your friend what the wife wants and then decide if it is worth talking to her. 

Comment by Desiree' on August 20, 2012 at 1:20pm

Maybe she needs closure but the best bet for you is to talk over the phone or to stay out of it

Comment by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on August 20, 2012 at 1:44pm

She 'preparing' to file for divorce and she needs to build a strong case. You sending her the 'evidence' in your rage strengthened her case. She wants to meet with you for more information to assist her in the proceedings on advice from her lawyer(s).

I wouldn't even return her call. Her issue is with her ex and not the countless women he cheated with. She will have a lot of women to call, who has the time for that?? She should deal with her ex.

Comment by ATown SouthernGal on August 20, 2012 at 3:24pm

sounds like karma is about to hit ya

Comment by Love is a Losing Game on August 20, 2012 at 3:55pm

I say ignore her. If she wanted to talk she should have done so when YOU were mad as hell, not after you have moved on. And talking to her now would make all these old feelings come back, and I just may feel bad for having f'ed with a married man, way after the deed was done. Lol, I wouldn't need the guilt when I have moved on. The money part is subjective, cuz honestly, imo, I can never get enough money. So if I wasnt satisfied with what he broke, that lil peice that she can give wouldn't satisfy much. I say keep it moving and don't look back.

Comment by Hello Kitty on August 20, 2012 at 4:59pm

HER messy ass friend?!  How about HER MESSY ASS.  What did she think was going to happen when she sent the WIFE pictures?  2 years, 12 years, you think the wife forgot?  You opened that door WIDE open.  Why would you even send the wife pics?  If I'm involved with a man in a relationship, I stay in my lane.  Period.

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