I received a press release for the book Women! Get The Material Things You Really Want From Men. I laughed at the title but asked her to send me some excerpts.Basically this is a guide for women who are fed up with love and relationships.

The author is name Dema Shamel, a former exotic dancer, who moved to the east coast and through life experience she has been getting material things she has wanted from men so she wanted to share it with the world.

Check out the excerpts:

Let’s face it: women are conditioned to be emotional creatures who believe in love and the picket fence that goes with it. Men have been playing women and getting what they want from them since the beginning of time. This book was written to teach women the skills and techniques in a formulaic, businesslike way to bring maximum happiness and, perhaps more importantly, money or material objects that they want from men.

Working as an exotic dancer and applying everything I’ve learned from that experience to my daily life has granted me many wishes. The most important thing that I learned from being in an environment where money is exchanged for a cheap thrill is that in actuality power was being exchanged for power.

This is not a book about finding love, but if that’s what you want, you might be able to use ideas from this book to get a man to fall in love with you. This book describes an unconventional way to get what you want from men. Enjoy
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Men look for and admire certain qualities and personality traits in women. By possessing these qualities and personality traits, you might have a greater chance of getting what you want more quickly, because these qualities fascinate and intrigue men. These are some attributes that men usually find attractive in women:

Energy—Men love women with good vibes and lots of energy. If a man compliments you on your energy, you are doing something right. It’s very common for a guy to say, “You have nice eyes,” and “I love your lips,” but he is paying close attention to your personality if he says he likes your energy and compliments you on it rather than just complimenting your physical appearance.

Sexiness—Women can be sexy in many ways. Men might find women sexy in anything from a hot nightgown to a tank top and boy shorts, but real sexiness comes from within. A woman can be in her late 60s and still be sexy as hell. It’s not all about age.

Easygoing attitude—A man will run to a woman who is calm and cool and not naggy or bitchy. He will think of her when he needs a friend or someone to confide in. Do not think this woman is gullible or naïve; this one usually has a plan and knows what she is doing.

Intelligence—A woman doesn’t have to be a rocket scientist to attract a man, but she needs to think fast and be able to speak on just about any subject ranging from world news to pop culture. This lady is very knowledgeable and sharp and will teach you a thing or too. She will invest at least a few hours a week in reading and learning what is going on in the world.

Warning! This is not about how many degrees a woman possesses or her level of education. Do not bore a man with stories about you, you, you, and your degrees. He is interested in your personality and his physical attraction to you. Also, if it applies, let this person know that you are interested in some kind of business, education, etc. Most businessmen will be impressed and might offer you some insight and maybe mentor you or refer someone to help you. He might want to take you under his wing.

More information on traits that men look for in women is listed in the book “Women! Get The Material Things You Really Want From Men.” By author Dema Shamel. www.getwhatyouwantnow.net

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