Comment by DarlingI on October 11, 2010 at 11:24am

I don't agree with the "once a cheater always a cheater" either. However, once you have been betrayed by a person it's hard to get over that. I know it is for me. What the "cheater" CAN do is learn from past experience, like you did, and know not to take that into his/her next relationship. But trying to rekindle a romance after trust has been lost...good luck with that. It's just messed up when the one that was cheated on had to be the one to get hurt in order for the "cheater" to learn how to do right in future relationships. The newbie(s) get to reap the benefits of your pain.

Comment by Ordinary G on October 11, 2010 at 12:41pm

idk i dont really care u cheat once s*** is over, im not really tryin to find out if a cheater can be reformed, honestly the best way to tell how someone is gonna act in the future is to see what they did in the past so if u were cheatin in the past there's a good chance ull prolly do it again. i know women tend to be more lenient but as for men we tend not to give second chances and for good reason.

Comment by Hate my Ex on October 11, 2010 at 12:59pm

This is sooo true, it f***** sucks but its true.



It's just messed up when the one that was cheated on had to be the one to get hurt in order for the "cheater" to learn how to do right in future relationships. The newbie(s) get to reap the benefits of your pain.

Comment by Baller Alert on October 11, 2010 at 1:04pm

Once a cheater always a cheater...they just get smarter.

Comment by Tracy on October 11, 2010 at 3:39pm

@mrs. denbeigh - he ain't reformed. He just has one too many pics of him in those damn jeans up to his chin floatin' around....

Comment by Golden Child on October 11, 2010 at 5:24pm

I agree once a cheater always a cheater, once a hoe always a hoe, you can't change people. If you cheated on me with so and so, you move on to the next man or woman what makes me think you wont cheat on them?

Comment by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on October 11, 2010 at 7:12pm

@Ord G, you men can't stand it and NEVER give a second chance. She's out the door & locks changed, credit cards cancelled before she knows you know. LMAO
But women keep giving 2nd chances and that's why the once a cheater always a cheater applys mostly to men.

Comment by Zaria 22 on October 16, 2010 at 2:40pm

IDK, i'm just convinced that all men cheat as long as women keep throwing themselves @ married men. Men only cheat b/c they have options and opportunity. I don't cheat. If he cheats Im gone. it's not what I want for myself. But hey, what do I know.

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