For Women Who Want The Ballerific Life!
We get a lot of request to write about different things on BallerAlert.com and nine times out of ten the subject is sex!
We asked our friend @iamshenekaadams to share some of her wisdom with the BallerAlert family. Sheneka has a blog www.simplysheneka.com were she gives advice on love, life, lifestyle and more.
We asked her to answer a few questions that our readers submitted:
My boyfriend loves anal licking but after I'm done he is so embarrassed. How can I tell him it's no big deal???
Just simply tell him it's nothing to be embarrassed about. Licking a woman's vagina and anus is perfectly normal. Honestly from personal experience having your anus licked is more pleasurable that actual vagina licking. He shouldn't be ashamed, he's pleasing his woman something a lot of men can't seem to do these days because they bat for the same team. (No offense) He probably thinks you think it's gay and all kinds of crazy things and it's not! My man does it to me all the time and like I said before I PREFER it! Or maybe you should do it to him so he can see how pleasurable it is lol! Whatever you guys prefer do it. It's sex between you guys that's done behind closed doors. Nothing to be ashamed of!
My boyfriend told me I have an odor down when he gives me oral sex. He said it isn't a foul odor but it is an odor. How can I make it so my vaginal is odorless?
I'll tell you what my doctor told me that a lot of women don't know about their vagina. It's all about how you clean it and what you clean it with. Most women have sensitive vaginas and they don't even know it. Washing with scented soaps and body washes can cause an odor in the vaginal area. Not a foul odor but one that's not pleasant to your partner when giving oral sex. I suggest you wash with a mild soap preferably Lever 2000. Also your PH balance may be off as well. You can try RepHresh vaginal gel (which can be found at CVS) to maintain a healthy vaginal pH. Don't feel ashamed a lot of women have this probably and it's perfectly normal, it doesn't mean you're nasty or unclean. Follow these steps and you will be fine.
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