Comment by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on July 8, 2009 at 11:00am

The truth is in there somewhere. Who knows what he told her & what she chose to believe. The fact is she snagged a rich dude and prob thought she would get all the good stuff right away. But this means men should look for women of substance and life experience.

He met her when she was a teenager, he went to her B-Day party. So she was living with the BF for 4 yrs since she was 16?? So this new situation was a 1000% better than the last sitch. She wanted to hang on and the dui/high driving opened his eyes.

Comment by Denise on July 8, 2009 at 11:29am

The funny thing is men don't care......this cautionary tale will not make them think twice.....they are just born with the "I don't give a f***" gene.

Comment by ATown SouthernGal on July 8, 2009 at 11:30am

Boss you are so right feelings are fragile. People do "unthinkable" things in the name of love...from stalking, to giving up your life savings, the list goes on and on.

Although, I would not date a married man I can not and will not judge another person. As someone else stated a sin is a sin. She was young and probably lacked life experience like CS said. He on the other hand seemed old enough to know not to play games but with men you never know what they really think...especially since the thinking is often doen with the wrong head.

We can not judge either McNair or Kazemi for their actions just hope and pray lessons will be learned for others through this sad situation.

Comment by Khai G. on July 8, 2009 at 11:38am

This is such a tricky situation. On one hand you get the idea that this young woman was wrapped up in someone with whom she never should have been with but then again neither should he. And to sort out what was said and what he told her almost leaves you divided. I feel for her I really do because McNair clearly sold her the dream and for a lot of women this is what they dream of so I'm sure she thought that this man was what he presented himself to be and had fallen head over heels in love with him. BUT she also knew he was married and that's a reality that you cannot build your future with anyone on, until they're completely exclusive to you.

So shame on him for building their relationship up to a status in which he had no intention on realizing with her. But shame on her too for allowing herself to be taken to the point of no return when she claimed both his and her life when she felt like she was gonna lose him.

No one wins in these situations and because this one is so extreme on both ends, it's a total loss. But in general it's just a dirty game that should be avoided at all cost.

Comment by miss_p on July 8, 2009 at 11:40am

like i said last time, dont believe everything you hear. the truth is he and his wife were getting divorced. they were both moving on. this terrible tragedy has left the family devasted, and its killing them to hear and see all the bs the media is putting out there. the ONLY reason im speaking out is because it breaks my heart to see what it does to them every time something new and false is reported.

Comment by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on July 8, 2009 at 11:48am

@ miss_p, even if they were getting a divorce that means he would be free, so why off him? Maybe not free to be with her. Oh well, we will never know. RIP to both.

Comment by JustMe on July 8, 2009 at 12:09pm

where is the proof that they were getting a divorce? Not the fact tat they were selling their home, people upgrade & downgrade everyday... He was wrong but I do not think its clear that he led her on... some women choose to believe what they want even when the writing is on the wall... IMO he met a PYT, she was young and dumb and he was cool with having a good time as long as the fun lasted; soon as she started tripping, he wanted to get ghost. her family was concerned about the age difference, they should've been worried about the fact that he was married. I think the dollar signs clowded everyone's vision...

Comment by SACK CHASER on July 8, 2009 at 12:12pm

This is one time that a man has to pay for his actions.. Unfortunately it was by death!

Comment by JustMe on July 8, 2009 at 12:16pm

my theory: she met SM and he tried to get at her... he told her bf of 4 years, and he encouraged her so they could land a payday... she fell in love, he didn't like it... he either offed them both or encouraged her to off McNair, and with her fragile state of mind she couldn't handle it & killed herself too... its obvious they weren't completely over, because he is the one to pick up the escalade... and he was just too free with info, I mean wouldn't he be the least bit distraught? He was giving statements on day 1...

Comment by kadydid on July 8, 2009 at 12:47pm

This is the same situation like with Nicole Brown's family. Everyone is blinded by the $ signs. If he was getting a divorce then where were the papers filed.

There are always many sides to a story.

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