BALLERS: EVERYONE HAS FEELINGS INCLUDING YOUR MISTRESS...

Comment by Cookie Pie on July 8, 2009 at 8:23pm

Wow she shot him in his sleep .... that is exactly what happened to my family member and he died with his eyes open , he must have woke up when she shot him but he bled out and died in 60 seconds ...... that's why I hate things like this , it brings all those memories back ! But seriously , these men need to be more careful about the people they surround themselves with ! In my cousins case , it was his wife of 10 yrs ! Who knew ????

Comment by Damnstraight on July 8, 2009 at 8:30pm

Nah he wasn't leaving his wife...That's the story the sister is telling, who also said her sister wouldn't hurt a fly before the results came in...We'll never know who said what to who, but what we do know, or at least what's not on record, is McNair divorcing his wife. No documents have been filed. The realtor even verified that because he said McNair and Mechelle were looking for another house and wanted one on the lake...

And I definitely agree men can't lead women on, not even in the slightest way, however, by the same token, he was married and she chose to dump her bf of 4 yrs to date him point blank. She is just as responsible for her heart being broken. Can't blame everyone else for things you chose to do. This is very very sad. And I hope a lesson is learned. Neither deserved to die, but don't want anyone else going through some shit like this, or putting their loved ones in this type of f'd up situation.

Comment by Cookie Pie on July 8, 2009 at 8:37pm

It's a shame that you need to do a background check just to date someone ... even the you never know !

Comment by Damnstraight on July 8, 2009 at 8:41pm

Oh yeah, remember this can happen to single men too...Women who date ballers whether they're married or single tend to catch feelings...I've heard some horrible stories. I almost found myself catching feelings for this dude and I had to pull myself back. That's why say over and over again, right now, i ain't looking for anyone. I'm trying to concentrate on what I need to do for me first. Can't allow myself to get caught up. If all the signs are there, don't do it...pull away.

Comment by Lakia on July 9, 2009 at 12:34am

Everyone brought up good points and opinions. I too am like a few others on here that said that they wouldn't deal with a married man. I was dealing with an anesthesiologist and when I found out that he was married through another doctor that was a friend of mine, I dropped everything and pretended that he never existed. I was very young at the time so it didn't hurt me at all. I had it made but it wasn't worth what God would have had waiting on me in the future knowing that I was dealing with a married man. Now, men must show me some damn divorce papers or a decree or something like that.

On the other hand, my heart goes out to his wife and children. I do think that he sold her a dream because most men and some women will do it to get what they want. I pray that this is a wake up call for all of the men that sell women dreams because we are living in a different day in time where mugs don't mind sittin in prison for the rest of their lives or committing suicide so that they don't have to face the consequences of their actions. I have been reading about the good contributions that he contributed to society so I hope that this incident doesn't overshadow his career for the sake of his kids.

Comment by Bri83 on July 11, 2009 at 1:00am

This whole situation is sad, and it is very unfortunate that two lives were taken. No one really knows what went on between the two of them, but them. I am just confused about where his wife and kids come into play, like where did they fit in, in his life, since it seems he spent much of his time with ol' girl, furthermore, why is so much attention being given to homegirl, clearly she was some kind of crazy, if she was really thinking she was gonna have a stable life with him, knowing he had before she met him, she was sadly mistaken, literally!!!

Comment by AB on July 11, 2009 at 3:31am

That psycho heffa did not know the rules to the game. Somebody should have schooled that Bitch. Play the ballers or play with the ballers, but never let the baller play you! That man was not about to leave his wife. Damn...some chicks can't enjoy the trips and the gifts without getting their feelings all caught up. A message to you non-black women... if you can't handle the BLACK D**K don't mess with it, leave it to the real women. Her mother was probably thinking about money too, you think if her Indian daughter was dating a non-millionaire married black man, she would have been o.k. with it? Hell to the NO!

Comment by AB on July 11, 2009 at 3:36am

I don't feel sorry for that sorry trick...she had no problem trying to break up another woman's family. McNair chose the wrong jump off and now he is dead and his four sons don't have a daddy.

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