Beautiful Woman: An Ugly Rich Man or a Handsome Poor Man?
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What do you guys think?
Not so attractive wealthy man has a great personality, good family values, generous, caring, adventurous, fun-loving...... meaning he is busted but beyond that ya'll get along great, have fun at home, share intimate deep intelligent conversation, have similar beliefs etc etc
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Hot man (great body, smile, hair) who has average money, not poor, per se but there no trips involved or extravagant shopping sprees but he is also fun-loving with a great personality.
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What about long term relations with these type of men?
Can anyone honestly say that they would stay with a $ucce$$ful man through a marriage and children while at the same finding not being physically attracted to them? Do you think perhaps the woman feels more secure about the man staying with her and remaining faithful? Would you mind the whispers that you're only with him because he has $$$. Could you solely be attracted to his soul and personality?
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Would You rather live average in a $400k house with a so-so backyard and both you and your husband 9-5ing it Monday through Friday and living a "regular" life? and everytime you looked at him you'd be thinking damn my husband is fine and we made gorgeous children and every comments on how we are a hot couple. Do you think you'd make it as a hot couple through the years? Could jealousy get in the way? Would you get frustrated or bummed out knowing you couldn't have the finer things in life unless you/him/both of ya"ll got a second job or worked OT?
Thoughts?
btw I don't expect every question to be answered just general opinions. I do realize there are some independent, 'I got my own', business self employed women on here but like I said thoughts and general opinions and overview. I apologize if this has been blogged before but nothing came up when I searched Keywords "ugly men beautiful women"
Sorry for any grammatical errors - capitalization, grammar, punctuation, etc
Not so attractive wealthy man has a great personality, good family values, generous, caring, adventurous, fun-loving...... meaning he is busted but beyond that ya'll get along great, have fun at home, share intimate deep intelligent conversation, have similar beliefs etc etc
VS.
Hot man (great body, smile, hair) who has average money, not poor, per se but there no trips involved or extravagant shopping sprees but he is also fun-loving with a great personality.
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What about long term relations with these type of men?
Can anyone honestly say that they would stay with a $ucce$$ful man through a marriage and children while at the same finding not being physically attracted to them? Do you think perhaps the woman feels more secure about the man staying with her and remaining faithful? Would you mind the whispers that you're only with him because he has $$$. Could you solely be attracted to his soul and personality?
Or
Would You rather live average in a $400k house with a so-so backyard and both you and your husband 9-5ing it Monday through Friday and living a "regular" life? and everytime you looked at him you'd be thinking damn my husband is fine and we made gorgeous children and every comments on how we are a hot couple. Do you think you'd make it as a hot couple through the years? Could jealousy get in the way? Would you get frustrated or bummed out knowing you couldn't have the finer things in life unless you/him/both of ya"ll got a second job or worked OT?
Thoughts?
btw I don't expect every question to be answered just general opinions. I do realize there are some independent, 'I got my own', business self employed women on here but like I said thoughts and general opinions and overview. I apologize if this has been blogged before but nothing came up when I searched Keywords "ugly men beautiful women"
Sorry for any grammatical errors - capitalization, grammar, punctuation, etc
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Comment by Cookie Pie on April 12, 2009 at 11:27am - Whichever I fall in love with
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Comment by MKym on April 12, 2009 at 11:32am - I would opt for the poor attractive man. I know the physical isnt all there is in life, but I have an aversion to unattractive men, which includes short men. Im 5'9", and I REFUSE to talk to men who arent at least 6' tall, and thats my BARE minimum. Im going to come from the independent self starter side and say no matter how much my man makes Im going to be getting my own, so what he makes is only a supplement to what Ill be making. So I figure I may as well have someone I love and can be attracted to.
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Comment by lady lynxx- ladylynxx.ning.com on April 12, 2009 at 11:48am - Like Cookie said depends who Ifall in love with. That said, I am attracted to a sense of ambition and purpose of life in a man because I am the same.
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Comment by pretty poison on April 12, 2009 at 12:20pm - Ditto what lady lynxx said
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Comment by T.Isabella on April 14, 2009 at 7:45am - For me its like this... I live by myself in a 500k+ townhouse in a gated community, I drive a luxury car( which i got on my own... okay with my mama's help BUT ive paid her back) and im soon to be owning a lucrative business! So with that said there is no way im going to be with the fine man who is broke! my motto is if you cant afford my house note then you cant afford me! PERIOD! So if an ugly man with money can afford me than so be it.... im just not having kids with this man! there is nothing worse than a pretty woman with some ugly kids! And dont let you have a girl with this ugly man... she will hate you for looking better than her...... Ive seen it! lol! But THe man with money all the way rather than the one who is fine and WILL go play!
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Comment by Sierra on April 14, 2009 at 12:29pm -
I'm on both sides on this one. I've fallen in love with not so great looking guys with a great personality. I'm also guilty of being with the hood dude who's fine as hell and can put it down but has that regular money.
Bottom line they just have to be as driven and ambitious as i am, similar to what Lady Lynxx wrote
and no short men either at least 6 feet tall just like Mkym
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