Change (Living My Life Like It's Golden)



Now usually I try to post about 2-3 times a week, sometimes more. I have noticed that maybe I post too much, so in order for others to have greater appreciation I will no longer post as frequently. Moving along...I've been making slight changes in my life in the past 4 months I got rid of 1 Jealous Hoe (who always bites my style then have the nerve to talk about me, Please stop checkin my fresh If you want to know how I do it just ask b****!!) 1 Hater (no matter how much I advance she has nothing nice to say about my progress or my relationship only talks about herself and is really shallow). I so tired of always f****** helping people and when I need something (a ride to the grocery store, help moving into apartment, or just someone to talk to these b****** are no where to be found) granted everyone has their own lives and some even has children, married etc. But that is no excuse to neglect your friends. These b****** have no problem asking for something or to watch their kids etc. (Mind you I have no kids). (OK I’m starting to ramble back to the regular scheduled program lol) Ok I’m back I've decided I was unhappy in my relationships in life, I always waited until the last minute to cut negative people out my life. (And because it if the good ones suffer) That s*** has to stop! It's really affects you in so many ways. I need to people with more substance I don't want to talk about niggaz with paper all damn day (No offense ladies but I have more to offer, not saying you don't) Like doesn't anyone read anymore? (Yes L Boogie I know you read books b**** lol) So now it's all about me I've spent so much time trying to please everyone else that I didn't do anything that I like to do. (Forget that). Now what is it I want to do you ask? (Or is it me asking because right now I’m taking to myself lol) I want to go eat Monday night $2 wings with a group of women that talk about different issues. (I want to start a book club with them let's see if these b****** are down) A simple get away from day to day stress I want to go to the movies, go to musems, cooking class (as if I need one) plays etc. (if you don't get the picture expand my mind,my way of thinking). How far does these women think the club is going to get them? Some of these girls can't even spell but they are worrying about clubbing (smh). I'm tired of being around Birds (my def - 1.Any female or male that doesn't watch the new and are not socially conscious. 2. Only worry about superficial things like clothes, (vain) and can't cook to save their ass. 3. Just a plain ole hoe (I’m not judgmental but damn b**** AIDS is real slow your ass down raise your kid s***!!!). I want to uplift any woman around me in any way I can, also I'm looking for upliftment. I want to be around people that I can learn from. I wasted many years having relationships (friends and men) with people that couldn't teach me s***! (That’s why I wasn't moving forward) I want to grow as a person, a woman, a lover. I want a challenge!!! People that challenge me to know better be better. (Sp's Motto "When you know better you do better") S*** aint that the truth lol!!!! I have found a meticulous man that gets on my nerves lol but pushes me to be that best I can be!! He is harsh at times but I know that is a real man, and a real friend!!! I'm learning how to be a better listener!!! With the New Year vastly approaching I hope we all make changes for the better.

Question - What are some things you would change about your lifestyle or relationships (friends, family, intimate)?
SUG*

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Comment by Siren on November 17, 2008 at 11:34am
Congrats on making this choice!!! I made the same choices many years ago and my life has been better and more fulfilling because of it...Life is too short and the world is so big. Enjoy your new adventures and periodically through out life reassess and always drop the dead weight!
Comment by Blu on November 17, 2008 at 11:54am
Thanks for this post. I feel the same way you do. I had to leave the haters alone!! Right now i feel good about myself:)I am Working on my website to promote my business. Once I complete that I will share it with you all:)
Comment by Sugar on November 17, 2008 at 11:59am
Good for you Blu..I'm working on that as well. Please let me know I will support it.
Comment by Blu on November 17, 2008 at 12:10pm
Sugar I will! Good luck to you and your business:)
Comment by Baller Alert on November 17, 2008 at 12:21pm
I have cleaned house in my early 20's...my friends I have now are for life. I swear the older you get the wiser you get...
Comment by lady lynxx- ladylynxx.ning.com on November 17, 2008 at 12:23pm
Great post Sugar...we all need to reach for better in out lives. I'm starting with the 'girl in the mirror' and asking her to change her ways. You know the rest!
Comment by jus_jazzie on November 17, 2008 at 1:55pm
When you know better you do better! Babygirl that is the truth just look at these experiences as "growing". Its a wonder everyone recongnizes when its time to get their s*** in order but as long as you know when there is a time for change take care of your business. Trust me this isnt going to be the first or last time you clean house if you will..keep your focus and everything will be ok...
Comment by OLD $PICE PINE NEEDLE on November 17, 2008 at 2:52pm
Good to see Sugar. We all get to where you are now when we truly want to. Thanks for sharing.
I have no regrets for the changes I've made. The changes have made me a better a person and has allowed me to attract and keep better people in my life. Stay true to yourself always. :)
Comment by Holly-Would on November 17, 2008 at 3:08pm
Damn I don't think I can join your book club, I only read fashion magazines.....
Comment by Sugar on November 17, 2008 at 3:17pm
@ HW Too Bad boo I already signed you up ; 0 p

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