Change (Living My Life Like It's Golden)
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Now usually I try to post about 2-3 times a week, sometimes more. I have noticed that maybe I post too much, so in order for others to have greater appreciation I will no longer post as frequently. Moving along...I've been making slight changes in my life in the past 4 months I got rid of 1 Jealous Hoe (who always bites my style then have the nerve to talk about me, Please stop checkin my fresh If you want to know how I do it just ask bitch!!) 1 Hater (no matter how much I advance she has nothing nice to say about my progress or my relationship only talks about herself and is really shallow). I so tired of always fucking helping people and when I need something (a ride to the grocery store, help moving into apartment, or just someone to talk to these bitches are no where to be found) granted everyone has their own lives and some even has children, married etc. But that is no excuse to neglect your friends. These bitches have no problem asking for something or to watch their kids etc. (Mind you I have no kids). (OK I’m starting to ramble back to the regular scheduled program lol) Ok I’m back I've decided I was unhappy in my relationships in life, I always waited until the last minute to cut negative people out my life. (And because it if the good ones suffer) That shit has to stop! It's really affects you in so many ways. I need to people with more substance I don't want to talk about niggaz with paper all damn day (No offense ladies but I have more to offer, not saying you don't) Like doesn't anyone read anymore?
Question - What are some things you would change about your lifestyle or relationships (friends, family, intimate)?
SUG*
Tags: change, relationships, sugar
23 Comments
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Comment by C*u*t*e* on November 17, 2008 at 11:20am - Thats good. I need to make a change in my life. You don't post to much to me and sowhat if you do. Someone has to do all the posting. Post as much as you like. I always like responding to your blogs
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Comment by Siren on November 17, 2008 at 11:34am - Congrats on making this choice!!! I made the same choices many years ago and my life has been better and more fulfilling because of it...Life is too short and the world is so big. Enjoy your new adventures and periodically through out life reassess and always drop the dead weight!
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Comment by Blu on November 17, 2008 at 11:54am - Thanks for this post. I feel the same way you do. I had to leave the haters alone!! Right now i feel good about myself:)I am Working on my website to promote my business. Once I complete that I will share it with you all:)
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Comment by Sugar on November 17, 2008 at 11:59am - Good for you Blu..I'm working on that as well. Please let me know I will support it.
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Comment by Blu on November 17, 2008 at 12:10pm
- Sugar I will! Good luck to you and your business:)
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Comment by Boss/MadamBA on November 17, 2008 at 12:21pm - I have cleaned house in my early 20's...my friends I have now are for life. I swear the older you get the wiser you get...
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Comment by lady lynxx- ladylynxx.ning.com on November 17, 2008 at 12:23pm - Great post Sugar...we all need to reach for better in out lives. I'm starting with the 'girl in the mirror' and asking her to change her ways. You know the rest!
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Comment by jus_jazzie on November 17, 2008 at 1:55pm - When you know better you do better! Babygirl that is the truth just look at these experiences as "growing". Its a wonder everyone recongnizes when its time to get their shit in order but as long as you know when there is a time for change take care of your business. Trust me this isnt going to be the first or last time you clean house if you will..keep your focus and everything will be ok...
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Comment by Starr on November 17, 2008 at 2:16pm - Excellent choice! I have to clean house every few years, but it's worth it to have people in your life that care about you. Cut the dead weight. When you make the choice to love yourself and reach for more, that's when the haters appear. Your best friend may transform right before your eyes! Sometimes it's hard to find like-minded people, but always remember that the company you keep is a reflection of yourself. :)
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Comment by Goldie Fish on November 17, 2008 at 2:28pm -
I've been saying how I feel, no matter how people feel afterwards and enjoying it. Since then, my relationships with everyone are so much better because I'm not sugarcoating things or beating around the bush. I'm getting what I want because I ask for it.
I'm starting to hang out with girls who hustle, no lazie-poos. I'm lazy so I need someone to kick my ass into gear everyonce in a while.
Yes! Nothing is better than an educated woman who rises above the standard.
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