Change (Living My Life Like It's Golden)
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Now usually I try to post about 2-3 times a week, sometimes more. I have noticed that maybe I post too much, so in order for others to have greater appreciation I will no longer post as frequently. Moving along...I've been making slight changes in my life in the past 4 months I got rid of 1 Jealous Hoe (who always bites my style then have the nerve to talk about me, Please stop checkin my fresh If you want to know how I do it just ask bitch!!) 1 Hater (no matter how much I advance she has nothing nice to say about my progress or my relationship only talks about herself and is really shallow). I so tired of always fucking helping people and when I need something (a ride to the grocery store, help moving into apartment, or just someone to talk to these bitches are no where to be found) granted everyone has their own lives and some even has children, married etc. But that is no excuse to neglect your friends. These bitches have no problem asking for something or to watch their kids etc. (Mind you I have no kids). (OK I’m starting to ramble back to the regular scheduled program lol) Ok I’m back I've decided I was unhappy in my relationships in life, I always waited until the last minute to cut negative people out my life. (And because it if the good ones suffer) That shit has to stop! It's really affects you in so many ways. I need to people with more substance I don't want to talk about niggaz with paper all damn day (No offense ladies but I have more to offer, not saying you don't) Like doesn't anyone read anymore?
Question - What are some things you would change about your lifestyle or relationships (friends, family, intimate)?
SUG*
Tags: change, relationships, sugar
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Comment by Cougar $pice on November 17, 2008 at 2:52pm -
Good to see Sugar. We all get to where you are now when we truly want to. Thanks for sharing.
I have no regrets for the changes I've made. The changes have made me a better a person and has allowed me to attract and keep better people in my life. Stay true to yourself always. :)
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Comment by Holly-Would on November 17, 2008 at 3:08pm - Damn I don't think I can join your book club, I only read fashion magazines.....
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Comment by Sugar on November 17, 2008 at 3:17pm - @ HW Too Bad boo I already signed you up ; 0 p
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Comment by Holly-Would on November 17, 2008 at 3:23pm
- damn, Damn, DAMN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Comment by CLEM on November 17, 2008 at 9:01pm -
I really love this topic by far the best blog you have posted.
I totally agree with with everything you have mentioned.
So when are we going to start that Book Club and take cooking lessons???
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Comment by Sugar Dick on November 17, 2008 at 11:12pm - MEN CANT RELATE TO THIS. ITS TO EMOTIONAL FOR ME TO COMPUTE. ALL I HEARD IS THAT YOU HAVE A NEW MAN. DOES THAT MEAN WE CANT DO IT?
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Comment by Brown Suga Blonde..... :-) on November 18, 2008 at 12:44am - Great post !!! I too am in the process of cleaning house... As I grow stronger and more in tune with my destiny... People in my life being to fade away or force themselves out of my life... I've cut off family members because they didn't have my best interest at heart. Bottom line... if your not on my team passing me the ball or cheering me on.. than YOUR ON THE OTHER TEAM... plain and simple... Let your haters be your motivators... lol (as Sheree Whitfield would say).
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Comment by MY PRESIDENT IS BLACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! on November 18, 2008 at 1:00am - I agree with Boss about cleaning house. I believe that I jsut weeded out the last of my toxic friends this year and now I'm more appreciative of my friendships with likeminded women who are about their ish. I also enjoy my mentor mentee relationships. I learn from my elders and pass along my knowledge to my little sisters. I'm setting goals for myself,mentally, spiritually, emotionally, financially and physically and I'm working on making me a better me. Good luck on your journey to where you want to be in life and congratulations for taking the necessary steps to enlightenment.
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Comment by Black_celebutante on November 18, 2008 at 7:57am -
I love this post.
Im trying to educate my circle of friends to start taking themselves to a higher level...but really though I am "borrowing" the team quote
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Comment by Sugar on November 18, 2008 at 8:06am
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@Sugar DIck....I didn't say I have a new man lol You alwyas make me laugh.
@ Brown Sugar - The family /team thing is so true..I apply that to my everyday life my man and I consider ourselves a team. I cut off immediate family members because of negativity so I can relate.
@ Cayenne yes I sure will let you know about all the recipes I find, I joined your group....Shit my ass might experiment in my house with new things I see in magazines...It's hard out here for a pimp I can't afford a cooking class lmao
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