For Women Who Want The Ballerific Life!
"Truth be told, Medieval literature is definitely responsible for fostering our concept of being a gentleman. Those past characteristic of a gentleman have seem to deteriorated over the years. Is our modern day culture to blame...perhaps. Are we so focus on everything else that the simple act of chivalry plays no part in our day to day lives? Chivalry was once the foundation for our male code of ethics.
In the 1700, chivalry was displayed by our visionary forefathers, who envisioned proper respectful interaction as an integral part of what America should be. Chivalry standards for Manhood were to be :truthful, respectful, honest, loyal, courteous to all, helpmates to women and supporters.
And protector of the weak Its clear to see that then is totally different from now. I ask the question….why? What has changed, who has changed?
Chivalry, Chivalry, Chivalry; I say it repetitively in hopes that by the end of this chapter Women understand its importance, Men excepts the fact that it should be present in every relationship they decide to engage in and or to every Woman on our green earth.
That men should honor women first as individuals, but also as the conduits and nurtures of life . Most importantly that Both sex Respect its definition. Chivalry, a dieing act in our society. Even more so in relationships. Sort of like the dinosaur; when was the last time you saw one of them?
The act of chivalry is so rear that its almost Mind beguiling when and if we see it happening. Its like "hey, did you just see that, he actually held the door opened for her. I would like to experience" Men, let me ask you a question? Have you ever went to open a door for a women but she beat you to it? How did that make you feel? Kind of like being left out on a island naked right? Damn I hate that feeling! Well at least you tied. Most won't! And Yes it happen to me too! Now did it make you not want to place yourself back in that position again? Well to be honest, a real man would try and try again.
Ladies, you ever had a Man open your car door, pull out your chair for you to sit in a restaurant while helping you take off your jacket? Allow you to order your food first then after he orders his, ask you if that's all before telling the waiter it's all right to leave? When the date was over, Walk you to your door.
Did he Wait for you to ask him to come inside. When walking on the street, position you on the inside of a sidewalk and him on the outside closer to traffic?
Tell me ladies, did he Hold one of your hands while his other hand is positioned respectfully in the middle of your back to help you walk up stairs. Did your good man Pour you a glass of wine or beverage of your choice while you're fixing him a meal? Did he Thank you for fixing him a meal. Thank you for your time....Thank You Period! CHIVALRY! Maybe I'm going over your head a little bit or maybe you're starting to see that "Dinosaur" Hmmm!
Let me give you an example of the power of Demand! When things are in high demand, the person who has it is usually ahead of the game/envy! Example: Take that new car for instance- when men see it, they have to have it. That provokes other Men to want it and do anything to get it.
When Woman sees that car she'll complement the person driving it (not saying that Women can't afford this car...just follow where I'm taking this). Those who don't have it tend to feel...left out, unaccomplished, lesser than the next Man. That Woman who's driving in it (or driving) has that glow. That "don't you wish your Man was driving you in this car" look. Her hair has that bounce. Confidence is on sky level.
Now act as if Chivalry was a car that no one wants or respect. It is not in high demand. In fact its not even in Low demand. Its not in demand at all. So No one wants it, no one sees it enough to want it. Men all feel the same because they are all "driving" the same car.
The Man who actually has it (Chivalry) is looked upon as Different, weird yet alluring , the "Man". The very few Women who demand it is looked upon as classy, rear She's almost better than unique.
What im trying to say is that the Demand starts with you. Yes You! It is an infectious habit that spreads from Woman to Woman., to Man to Man. Chilvary would be respect-and pracitice- if Women demand it more!"
Carl A Roberts
Author of: Good Men Do cheat