Comment by CCD is Workin on a baller 4 she on March 10, 2011 at 1:27pm

I'd stay and take my cues from him. He would have to be in some sort of counseling though.

Comment by AllyNWonderland on March 10, 2011 at 1:38pm

I was actually with a guy that had been sexually assaulted growing up and he was extremely sensitive... it was almost as if he needed to be around me all the time, not as an insecurity thing, but as very clingy and needy...he needed to be nursed...it was hard because i was young...only 18 and he was 27...i wanted to have fun and he needed me to be all mushy and stuff...i mean if i said anything with a high voice or what he thought was disrespectful then he would literally cry....and then he would wind up in my lap and i would be rubbing his head and wiping his tears and apologizing...not saying all men that are rapped are like this but in his case it was very difficult

Comment by Golden Child on March 10, 2011 at 3:18pm

Nope...can't do it.

Comment by RoyaleT on March 10, 2011 at 4:13pm

I've been with a man that's been raped....s*** happens and life goes on.... as long as he isn't acting like any other crazy person I can't deal with we should be ok.  Everyone has things in their pasts that their partners should be a little sensitive with when the topic is approached other than that I say leave the past in the past.....unless you find out they lied smh

Comment by KP on March 10, 2011 at 5:08pm

I couldn't do it. Too much baggage and I have a strict 1 bag policy.

Comment by Denise on March 10, 2011 at 5:11pm

Wow......alot of us most likely already have been and don't know it.......1 in 7 boys are molested by the age of 21

Comment by Bobbie.Go.Get.It. on March 10, 2011 at 7:55pm

Is this that Master P. Movie with that FINE AZZ Richard "what's his name"? Cuz I saw that nonsense.. But Hell naw..I just couldn't stay around after my mind became victim to BOOTY PIRATES!

Comment by Bobbie.Go.Get.It. on March 10, 2011 at 7:56pm

*after my man...damn nails

Comment by temptin_destiny on March 10, 2011 at 9:31pm

I was watching the Oprah episode today where she had 200 men that was molested. She also had some of their wives and girlfriend on the show. I was actually thinking about this topic as i watched the show. I would like to say that I would stay with him if he has gotten help to deal with his ordeal. I wouldnt want to blame or punish him for something that he had no control over.

 

 

Comment by Eleven8 on March 11, 2011 at 9:38am

@Kissy YES it was the Master P movie that prompted this blog, weird -- I know... But it made me think lol

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