DAP ME !!!!!!!!
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Isn't Black Love beautiful ?
We (must)have to learn to support our loved ones,even though we might not agree with their choices. We have to support the path that they choose to take. The other day I was having some wings with a some home girls ( one has potenial to be a good friend) and we started talking to one of the girls about supporting a member of her family. Now as I'm am listening intently I notice that she is judging her family member because the family member isn't living up to "her" expectations. Shit living up to our own expectations is hard enough!!! Just like our parents did we have to walk our own path and follow your own way. If you don't see for yourself how will you learn? What happens when that person isn't there to guide you anymore ? We have to make mistakes in order to understand lifes valuble lessons. Just because you might think it is a mistake for cousin JJ to quit his job and become a rapper, doesn't mean you shouldn't support him and his choices. ( now i'm saying you have to agree) You know that when JJ blow up you gonna want to get down or get some of that money cause you family etc....( Remember you weren't supportive you shouldn't get shit!!) Seriously I can't live my life for you , I have to live my life for me !! There comes a time when family members, friends, and love ones needs to learn that they can be crticial without being overwhelming !!! You them that you support them just don't say it or think they should automatcialy know. I'm sure your family member was there to support you thru good relationships, bad ones, moving into apartment, watching your bad ass kids, cleaning your house, giving you rides etc etc... Give them a break be supportive ( Just like she / he was to you when your BF cheated ) After all that what are friends / Family is for. Black Love is great we have to stop fighting each other, and working together. YES WE CAN !!!!!
(Sorry for the rant I'm in my emotions today)
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Comment by Holly-Would on November 6, 2008 at 11:20am -
DAP!!!!!!!!!!!! Bush Ninja..... Get your emotions out...."stop tryna save everyone".....lol
crystal skull face....
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Comment by Le Coquette on November 6, 2008 at 11:22am - Very good discussion. I don't agree that you have to be supportive towards someone if you see their life is going in the wrong direction or a direction you are not happy with. I feel that you can say how you feel about it and hopefully the friend/family will absorb your feelings and atleast give it food for thought. I think it is even more important to show that person that they will be loved regardless in any decision that they make. I have a girlfriend who constantly makes bad decisions in her life. I tell her all the time. LOL. But she knows I love her and have her best interest at heart. I think that matters more. People aren't always going to agree.
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Comment by Sugar on November 6, 2008 at 1:09pm - Yes LC that is important ,but after hearing your disapproval all the time that will put a strain on your relationship in my opinion. It will also make it harder for them to share things with you. Like I said it's my opinion. Thanks LC and HW for your input.
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Comment by CLEM on November 7, 2008 at 7:42am - good job Chipotle
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Comment by Stephbaby on November 10, 2008 at 12:25pm - Great post & great message! The pic is off the hook!
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Comment by Cougar $pice on November 14, 2008 at 1:26pm - High Five. ^5...... good one.
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