For Women Who Want The Ballerific Life!
Have you ever dated a high profile Baller and found yourself allowing certain things in a relationship that you never would accept from a "regular" guy? For example, I've heard women who've dated a celebrity and say "I know he's sleeping with groupies, it's part of the territory, I understand that" yet if a regular working class guy slept with another woman she would flip out. Why is it that we hold celebrity men to a higher regard?
Ballers are approached by women very often. Some women have good intentions and may genuinely just be attracted to your Baller, but others may juts be looking for a little fame and a lot of money. As a Baller, do you think he's not aware of this? Yet, he constantly finds himself in compromising positions with the opposite sex. As women are we supposed to look at a Baller's ratio of groupies to ballers and allow cheating on a case by case basis? If so, whats a good ratio? Maybe we should all stick by the "He may be smashing her, but I'm wifey, I who he's coming home to" theory.
Now let's look at the regular, good looking, 9 to 5 working man. He makes an honest living, may have a lot of women who admire and are attracted to him. He, unlike your Baller, is expected to remain faithful in a room full of hoes. If he so much as looks in another woman's direction you feel disrespected and are likely to put your hands all in his face and act a complete fool...but why?
It seems that men with more status and money are held to a lower expectation because they are constantly surrounded with temptation. Should we allow them to cheat? No. Are they human and do we expect it? Yes. I feel that a married (or committed) Baller should have just as much will power as the average Joe. Even if cooch is being thrown at him on the daily, it doesn't mean he has to catch it. People can only do to you what you allow them to do and if you allow a man to continuously cheat on you, he always will, Baller or otherwise.
Comment by miss_p on January 28, 2011 at 11:42am "People can only do to you what you allow them to do and if you allow a man to continuously cheat on you, he always will, Baller or otherwise."
*standing ovation* tell em, girl!
Comment by Lonelygirl on January 28, 2011 at 5:41pm I concur...
Very well put!
@Miss_P agreed!
Great Post! Don't settle baller or not. I don't see how a baller can honestly respect a woman who will say "I know he will mess with groupies, it comes with the territory"...then so do STD's, Pregnancy and all that wrecklessness.... Oh, but don't worry, he's still coming home to you THAT NIGHT!
Nothin brings me greater joy than crackin the faces of "those" ballers who think they can use women as doormats. There have been plenty of times that I had to correct a nigga on how to treat me and I make it a point to be super aggressive about it so that when I walk away from his foolish ass he'll think twice b4 he ever disrespects another woman. Gotta love yourself enough to walk away from maltreatment. Great post!
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